Doing Good While Depressed

Advice for Churches on How Best to Help the Poor

When someone can't pay rent, buy groceries, or afford a medical bill, they often turn to a local church for assistance. Yet many church leaders - pastors, elders, deacons, staff, volunteers - have never been trained in how best to help a person or family struggling with material poverty. That lack of knowledge can be devastating; you can actually do more harm than good in these crucial moments. So in this episode, Blake shares his six rules for how churches can have the greatest impact and cause the least harm when serving those in financial need. This is essential information for everyone in church leadership, whether on staff or a volunteer. Rule 1: Educate yourself Rule 2: Begin with strengths, not deficiencies Rule 3: Keep your eyes on the 3 types of poverty intervention: relief, rehabilitation, development Rule 4: Practice the 80/20 rule Rule 5: Always include required action steps Rule 6: Follow assistance with relationships

Top 10 Things to Know Before Starting a Non-Profit

Here are my Top 10 truths to know before starting a non-profit or choosing to work at a non-profit. These are things that I either wish I would have known before starting OnRamp or was grateful that I already knew. Some of these are good news; some are bad; but all are critical to know before investing your life in non-profit work. Most apply to working at a church as well. Outline: 1. It's easier than you think... administratively 2. People WILL judge how you spend your money 3. It's very lonely work 4. Those you serve will inspire you 5. Those you serve will disappoint you 6. Burnout is real 7. Nothing matters more than choosing the right board 8. The negatives of work still apply 9. Payroll is scary! 10. You will almost certainly not regret it

How to Fundraise without Losing your Soul

In this episode we talk about something most people hate as much as having teeth pulled - fundraising! How do you get over that terror and effectively, confidently raise money for your charity, church, ministry, mission, or project? How do you raise money without exploiting those you hope to serve? How can you turn donors into true, long-term partners? Find out as I share my top 5 lessons learned while raising fund for OnRamp these last ten years. Outline: How to fundraise effectively without losing your soul * You’ve got to be passionate about the mission * You are pitching an investment, not panhandling  * We are not beggars looking for handouts - we are visionaries showing people how they can make the greatest possible impact with their lives * Your clients’ dignity infinitely outweighs any donation * Your clients should be the owners of their stories and the heroes of their stories * Be careful about exaggeration - bending the truth will cost your organization in the long run * Your donors are people, not prospects * DO NOT view them as bank accounts, see them as unique individuals whose lives matter as much as your clients’ lives * Care about their journey and their growth * Stories outperform events

Doing Good While Depressed

For anyone battling depression, anxiety, loss, or loneliness, there is hope! Your suffering CAN get better and it CAN bring about surprising good in your life and in your community. In this episode, Blake shares his own story of trying to do good while battling clinical depression these last twelve years. As much as he hates depression, OnRamp wouldn't exist without it! Discover the good that can come in and through your pain. 0:05 Introduction: Welcome and topic 0:22 Why this topic matters for mental health 0:48 Personal backstory and aim: doing good while depressed 1:17 A life before depression and turning point 2:16 Onset details: lead blanket metaphor and mornings 3:15 Depression remains; faith context: God can still do good 3:41 The central claim: depression can have a meaningful impact 4:08 Three key lessons overview 5:02 Lesson 1: Depression can get better (rest, exercise, sleep, diet) 5:29 Self-care basics and why they matter 6:18 Leading yourself: self-care as a foundation for helping others 7:36 Lesson 2: Counseling and therapy as essential 8:00 Medication: Lexapro and the view of psych meds 9:24 Lesson 2 continued: Depression can bring good; redemption idea 9:49 Redemption: redeeming good from suffering 10:10 Humility transformation: depression broke arrogance 11:25 OnRamp origin: how depression led to helping others 12:09 Marlo story: meeting a client and perspective shift 12:33 OnRamp’s broader impact 13:02 Starfish story introduction 13:56 Starfish story continuation 14:21 The moral: one starfish matters; doing good one at a time 14:51 The need is vast; impact for the family we helped 15:12 OnRamp scale and the "one" mindset 15:35 The one-starfish principle in practice 16:04 Final takeaway: helping one person is enough 16:41 Closing: looking forward to next episode

Diversity Empowers Great Leadership

Diversity in leadership leads organizations to better decisions now and in the future. It's a simple truth that has somehow become controversial in our current day and age. Don't let that controversy distract you from building the best leadership team possible for your charity, business, church, or organization. In this episode, I'll reveal why diversity of gender, race, socio-economic level, and education will strengthen your organization, and I'll walk you through practical steps for building that diversity without compromising quality. I'll even give advice for complementarian churches to effectively get more women at the table to improve the care they provide their congregations. Note that this episode includes ten minutes of Q&A from close friends who listened to an early draft of this topic. Enjoy!