042. What It’s Like to Work with a Sex Coach and Build a Lifestyle Community with Lawrence Mike and Regina Williams
What It’s Like to Work with a Sex Coach and Build a Lifestyle Community with Lawrence Mike and Regina Williams
In this episode of Sex Ritual Radio, Rose Heartsong sits down with Lawrence and Regina, co-founders of LS Playground, for an honest, intimate, and taboo-breaking conversation about sex coaching, conscious communication, lifestyle communities, play parties, kink, body confidence, sobriety, trust, and what it actually looks like for a couple to do the deeper work together.Lawrence and Regina share what it has been like to work with Rose as their sex and intimacy coach, how their communication has evolved, and how conscious sexuality has helped them deepen their relationship, build trust, and explore desire with more honesty. Together, they unpack the difference between sex, play, lifestyle, community, and intentional erotic exploration.This episode is for couples who are curious about working with a sex coach, exploring the lifestyle, communicating their desires more honestly, or understanding what happens when love, trust, erotic play, and radical honesty come together.
In This Episode, We Talk About
* What it is actually like to work with a sex coach
* Why communication is one of the biggest challenges in intimacy
* How kink can support mental health, embodiment, and deeper self-awareness
* Lawrence’s journey from growing up in South Central LA to corporate America, self-development, therapy, and conscious leadership
* Regina’s journey through weight loss, sobriety, body confidence, healing, and learning how to receive
* Why sex can be both deeply beautiful and deeply charged with shame or trauma
* How couples can learn to communicate without attacking or defending
* The difference between wanting to be right and wanting to be loving
* Why tone, body language, and emotional safety matter in relationship conversations
* What the “lifestyle” means and why Lawrence and Regina prefer that word over “swinging”
* What happens at play parties and lifestyle events
* The difference between play, sex, voyeurism, exhibitionism, soft swap, full swap, and conscious exploration
* Why lifestyle communities can create friendship, intimacy, and chosen family
* How bringing others into a relationship can sometimes deepen trust when done with honesty and clear agreements
* Body insecurity, jealousy, and learning how to communicate through triggers
* Why sober exploration can change what desire feels like
* The importance of vetting, safety, intention, and community inside lifestyle spaces
* How LS Playground creates events for connection, music, play, and conscious community
* Why men need spaces to grow, take accountability, and become better partners
00:00 Show Intro and KXFM Disclaimer
01:30 What Is Sex Ritual Radio?
02:30 Meet Lawrence and Regina
04:00 What It’s Like Working with Rose
06:30 Kink, Mental Health, and Exploring the Body
08:00 Lawrence’s Story: From South Central to Self-Leadership
11:00 Trust, Therapy, and Doing the Work as a Man
13:00 Regina’s Story: Weight Loss, Sobriety, and Healing
16:00 Sexual Trauma, Safety, and Speaking the Truth
20:00 Learning to Communicate Differently
23:00 Right vs Loving
25:00 Tone, Defensiveness, and Emotional Safety
28:00 Desires, Threesomes, and Intentional Play
31:00 Sapiosexuality, Demisexuality, and Attraction
35:00 What Does “Lifestyle” Mean?
39:00 Play Parties, Soft Swap, Full Swap, and Community
43:00 Conscious Non-Monogamy and Trust
47:00 Body Insecurity, Jealousy, and Desire
51:00 LS Playground Events and Community
55:00 Music, Game Nights, and Optional Play
58:00 Final Message for Men
60:00 Closing Reflections
Lawrence is a thinker, creator, and co-founder of LS Playground. He came from the hood, did time as a juvenile, moved through corporate America, and learned how to navigate rooms many people from where he is from never get to see. After years of performing strength, he is now committed to honesty, therapy, accountability, and leading with something real. He is a student of himself and devoted to doing the work.
Regina leads with her heart. She has lost over 130 pounds, walked away from chaos, gotten sober from alcohol, and built something real with a man she loves inside a relationship that does not look like anything they were taught to want. Music has always moved her, and she has found that shared passion in her partner. She is still on her journey of discovering her body, her power, and the best version of herself. She is co-founder of LS Playground and Love It or Like It, a woman becoming.
Together, Lawrence and Regina are the co-founders of LS Playground, a lifestyle community rooted in connection, music, conscious exploration, and intentional play.
Website:
members.thelsplayground.com
Instagram:
@We_are_LandRegina
@Thelsplayground
Rose Heartsong is a Sex, Love, and Intimacy Coach, Tantra and Kink Coach, and host of Sex Ritual Radio, where she explores sexuality, spirituality, vibrant health, nervous system regulation, taboo topics, and the conversations our culture often avoids.
Website:
https://www.roseheartsong.com/ [https://www.roseheartsong.com/]
Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/roseheartsong/ [https://www.instagram.com/roseheartsong/]
Listen If You’re Curious About
* What does a sex coach actually do?
* What is it like to work with a sex coach?
* What is a lifestyle community?
* What happens at a play party?
* What is the difference between lifestyle and swinging?
* How do couples communicate about threesomes?
* Can kink help a couple communicate better?
* How do you bring up desires without shame?
* How do couples handle jealousy in the lifestyle?
* What is conscious play?
* How do you create safety in erotic spaces?
* Can opening sexual communication bring a couple closer?
* How do men become better partners through accountability?
Quote From the Episode
“Do you want to be right, or do you want to be loving?”
This episode contains adult conversations about sex coaching, kink, lifestyle communities, play parties, threesomes, sexual trauma, body image, sobriety, and conscious non-monogamy. This episode is for educational and personal reflection purposes only. Any sexual or lifestyle exploration should be consensual, clearly communicated, emotionally responsible, and practiced with strong boundaries, safety, and respect.
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