Ep. 041 What Type A Moms Need to Know Before Going Back to Work After Maternity Leave
The Return: Working Mom Interview Series
Episode 41 | Released May 19, 2026
What Type A Moms Need to Know Before Going Back to Work After Maternity Leave
A healthcare administrator and self-proclaimed Type A mom shares what nobody warns you about — the identity crisis that hits when you go back to work and realize you are not the same person you were before.
If you are a type A mom — the one who always has a plan, always gives 110%, always has something going on — this episode is going to feel like someone finally said it out loud.
Jess is a healthcare administrator working within a large hospital system in Colorado, a certified spin instructor, a mental health first aid instructor, and a first time mom to her nine month old daughter Charlotte, who goes by Chucky in their house. She is someone who has always done a lot and loved it. And then she became a mom and had to completely renegotiate her relationship with herself.
Jess also talks about co-sleeping, sleep training, the daycare sickness spiral, pumping at work, and the moment she realized that the softer, more present version of herself that motherhood brought out is not less than who she wasbefore. She might actually be more.
This is episode two of The Return — a podcast series where real working moms share the unfiltered truth about going back to work after having a baby. If you missed episode one with Terrica, go back and start there. It is such a good one.
Chapters/Timestamps:
00:00 Introduction and Background
05:37 Jess's Journey into Healthcare and Fitness
08:32 Motherhood and Early Experiences
11:23 Navigating Postpartum Challenges
14:15 Work-Life Balance and Career Transition
18:16 The Impact of Social Media on Parenting
21:16 Coping with Sleep Deprivation
22:11 Acceptance and Adaptation in Motherhood
24:42 Co-Sleeping and Parenting Choices
29:17 Navigating the Early Days of Motherhood
36:33 Identity Shift: Embracing the New Role of Mom
43:16 Preparing for Motherhood: Insights and Advice
51:04 Finding Balance: The Journey of New Parenthood
55:29 Final thoughts, Embracing Change
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