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Healing Trauma and Shifting My View On Dating

1 h 2 min · 1. juni 2026
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For years, I didn't connect the dots between the abuse I experienced as a child and the patterns I kept repeating in my relationships. But once I started healing, everything changed, including how I showed up in dating entirely. In this episode, I'm walking you through my real healing journey and the lessons that completely shifted my perspective on love, relationships, and what I actually deserve. From learning to genuinely like myself to understanding why I kept dating men with "potential" to finally being okay with being alone, these lessons didn't come from a self-help book. They came from real life, real pain, and real transformation. I'm also honest about the hard parts: how I shrunk myself for insecure men, how I gave way more than I received, how fear kept me in unhealthy situations, and how my relationship with money was tied to my fear of receiving. More importantly, I'm sharing how I healed all of it. If you've realized your childhood shaped how you show up in relationships and you're ready to do the work to change it, this episode is for you. Content warning: This episode contains discussions of abuse (physical, verbal, emotional, sexual, and financial). Resources are available below. New episodes drop biweekly on Fridays. Follow on Instagram @HerLoudRevolutionPodcast [http://link/] Check out my blog: https://healingwithbri2022.wixsite.com/healingwithbri/my-blog Music from: https://pixabay.com/music/beats-the-podcast-intro-111863/ [https://pixabay.com/music/beats-the-podcast-intro-111863/] By: Music_Unlimited RESOURCES FOR THOSE DEALING WITH ABUSE: If you're experiencing abuse or need support: National Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-799-7233 (24/7, free, confidential) thehotline.org RAINN (sexual assault support) 1-800-656-4673 rainn.org Crisis Text Line Text HOME to 741741 crisistextline.org Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline 1-800-422-4453 (24/7, free, confidential) childhelp.org National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 988 (call or text, 24/7) suicidepreventionlifeline.org SAMHSA National Helpline (mental health + substance abuse support) 1-800-662-4357 (24/7, free, confidential) samhsa.gov Open Path Psychotherapy Collective (affordable therapy for uninsured) $65 one-time membership fee, sessions $30–$70 per session, available across all 50 U.S. states and Canada Offers in-person or online care from vetted mental health professionals openpathcollective.org

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For years, I didn't connect the dots between the abuse I experienced as a child and the patterns I kept repeating in my relationships. But once I started healing, everything changed, including how I showed up in dating entirely. In this episode, I'm walking you through my real healing journey and the lessons that completely shifted my perspective on love, relationships, and what I actually deserve. From learning to genuinely like myself to understanding why I kept dating men with "potential" to finally being okay with being alone, these lessons didn't come from a self-help book. They came from real life, real pain, and real transformation. I'm also honest about the hard parts: how I shrunk myself for insecure men, how I gave way more than I received, how fear kept me in unhealthy situations, and how my relationship with money was tied to my fear of receiving. More importantly, I'm sharing how I healed all of it. If you've realized your childhood shaped how you show up in relationships and you're ready to do the work to change it, this episode is for you. Content warning: This episode contains discussions of abuse (physical, verbal, emotional, sexual, and financial). Resources are available below. New episodes drop biweekly on Fridays. Follow on Instagram @HerLoudRevolutionPodcast [http://link/] Check out my blog: https://healingwithbri2022.wixsite.com/healingwithbri/my-blog Music from: https://pixabay.com/music/beats-the-podcast-intro-111863/ [https://pixabay.com/music/beats-the-podcast-intro-111863/] By: Music_Unlimited RESOURCES FOR THOSE DEALING WITH ABUSE: If you're experiencing abuse or need support: National Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-799-7233 (24/7, free, confidential) thehotline.org RAINN (sexual assault support) 1-800-656-4673 rainn.org Crisis Text Line Text HOME to 741741 crisistextline.org Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline 1-800-422-4453 (24/7, free, confidential) childhelp.org National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 988 (call or text, 24/7) suicidepreventionlifeline.org SAMHSA National Helpline (mental health + substance abuse support) 1-800-662-4357 (24/7, free, confidential) samhsa.gov Open Path Psychotherapy Collective (affordable therapy for uninsured) $65 one-time membership fee, sessions $30–$70 per session, available across all 50 U.S. states and Canada Offers in-person or online care from vetted mental health professionals openpathcollective.org

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