Highly Melanated Podcast

What does Black television reveal about our culture, and how has its evolution shaped the way we see ourselves? When the hosts of Highly Melanated reunite after a brief hiatus, they dive deep into the powerful impact Black sitcoms have had across generations. Their conversation traces the journey from Family Matters to Insecure, examining how each era of Black television addressed specific cultural needs and challenged prevailing narratives. The 80s and 90s sitcoms deliberately showcased stable Black family structures to counter harmful stereotypes, creating spaces where Black families could see themselves reflected positively on screen. Shows like The Cosby Show and Family Matters didn't just entertain – they modeled constructive approaches to real-world problems that resonated with viewers gathering around their television sets. As the conversation shifts to present-day Black television, the hosts identify a striking pattern: the rise of complex Black women's stories. Series like Girlfriends, Insecure, and Harlem have centered educated, independent Black women navigating love and career while simultaneously addressing broader cultural issues like gentrification. These shows embrace messier narratives and eschew simple moral lessons, reflecting our community's growing comfort with complexity. Looking toward television's future, the hosts envision programming that addresses the mental health crisis affecting Black communities. They lament the premature cancellation of promising Black shows while celebrating the enduring role of music in Black storytelling – from iconic theme songs to the showcasing of emerging Black musical talent. This thoughtful analysis of Black television's past, present, and future reveals how these shows serve as both mirror and window, validating our experiences while offering visions of what could be. When Black creators control our narratives, the result isn't just entertaining – it's revolutionary. What shows made you feel truly seen? Join the conversation by following us on social media and subscribing wherever you get your podcasts. Follow US IG: https://www.instagram.com/highlymelanatedpodcast [https://www.instagram.com/highlymelanatedpodcast] Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/H_MelanatedPod [https://www.twitter.com/H_MelanatedPod] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCb2VbyoW6KaMxQo5onYluXA [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCb2VbyoW6KaMxQo5onYluXA] IF YOU WANT TO BE A GUEST OR KNOW SOMEONE WHO WOULD BE A GREAT CHOICE, HIT US UP!!! FEEL FREE TO EMAIL US @highlymelanatedpodcast@gmail.com

Ever noticed how your perfectly reasonable parenting suggestions get immediately dismissed with "You don't have kids, so you wouldn't understand"? The Highly Melanated Podcast team tackles this frustrating double standard head-on, creating what they call a "safe space where it's okay to judge each other's parenting skills, even though we're not parents." This episode dives deep into the unspoken rule that childless adults should keep their parenting opinions to themselves, regardless of how logical or helpful those insights might be. Blair, PJ, and Chris share personal stories of times they've wanted to offer advice but hesitated, knowing their childless status would automatically disqualify their viewpoints in many parents' eyes. They explore scenarios that test these boundaries – from witnessing neglectful parenting on public transportation to deciding when (if ever) it's appropriate to intervene when seeing troubling parent-child interactions in public spaces. What makes this conversation particularly compelling is how the hosts connect their theoretical parenting approaches to their own upbringings. PJ reveals how his strict father influences his hesitancy to become a parent himself, while Chris reflects on how more structure during his college years might have benefited him. Blair shares the contradictory messages she received about independence from her parents, highlighting how our childhood experiences inevitably shape our views on child-rearing whether we become parents or not. The conversation takes fascinating detours into cultural differences regarding adult children living with parents, gender disparities in parenting expectations, and even pet parenting as a microcosm of human parent-child dynamics. By the episode's end, they reach a universally agreed-upon piece of advice – "let your children have more fun" – while acknowledging the irony that even this simple suggestion would likely be scrutinized coming from non-parents. Ready to hear all the parenting opinions non-parents are usually too afraid to share? Listen now, and then join the conversation about whether parenting advice requires firsthand experience to be valuable. Subscribe, share your thoughts, and let us know if you've ever been on either side of this parenting advice divide! Follow US IG: https://www.instagram.com/highlymelanatedpodcast [https://www.instagram.com/highlymelanatedpodcast] Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/H_MelanatedPod [https://www.twitter.com/H_MelanatedPod] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCb2VbyoW6KaMxQo5onYluXA [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCb2VbyoW6KaMxQo5onYluXA] IF YOU WANT TO BE A GUEST OR KNOW SOMEONE WHO WOULD BE A GREAT CHOICE, HIT US UP!!! FEEL FREE TO EMAIL US @highlymelanatedpodcast@gmail.com

We discover how differently we receive and process apologies through a quiz that reveals our "apology languages" - similar to love languages but focused on how we prefer people to express remorse. • Exploring the five apology languages: accepting responsibility, making restitution, expressing regret, genuinely repenting, and requesting forgiveness • Realizing that most of us need more than just "I'm sorry" - accountability and action matter most • Discovering that PJ and Chris value direct admission of fault as their primary apology language • Learning that Blair needs concrete actions to make things right after someone apologizes • Finding connections between how we receive love and how we receive apologies • Noticing how certain apology phrases can feel passive-aggressive or put unfair burdens on the hurt person • Discussing how repeated apologies without change become meaningless • Celebrating Jane Kennedy, one of the first Black women sportscasters, for Women's History Month Take some time to discover your own apology language by taking the quiz on the Five Love Languages website - understanding how you and your loved ones prefer to receive apologies can transform your relationships. Follow US IG: https://www.instagram.com/highlymelanatedpodcast [https://www.instagram.com/highlymelanatedpodcast] Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/H_MelanatedPod [https://www.twitter.com/H_MelanatedPod] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCb2VbyoW6KaMxQo5onYluXA [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCb2VbyoW6KaMxQo5onYluXA] IF YOU WANT TO BE A GUEST OR KNOW SOMEONE WHO WOULD BE A GREAT CHOICE, HIT US UP!!! FEEL FREE TO EMAIL US @highlymelanatedpodcast@gmail.com

Financial freedom is about facing uncomfortable truths and taking actionable steps to change your habits. In this episode, we share crucial insights about spending, saving, and investing wisely.  In the Highly Melanated Manor we have the pleasure to introduce a special guest, Sha-Rhonda Wilson [https://www.stellarlifestyle.net], Lifestyle Coach & Business Consultant. to help with a few tips and on how to make your money work for you and not waste it away. • How sales can sometimes lead to unnecessary spending  • The reality of relying on credit cards for emergencies  • Importance of building a solid emergency fund  • Reflecting on choices showcased through spending  • Discussing financial control and investment strategies  • The need for open conversations about money within communities  • Understanding the basics of strategic investing  • Budgeting as a key tool for financial security Sha-Rhonda has worked with Terry Ellis of En Vogue with her perfume line.  Southern Exposure and has worked as an Independent Contractor for Mano.  Swartz Furs; a furrier company which has been in business for over 134 years.  in Baltimore, Maryland! She coordinated the Baltimore, Maryland leg of a 25 City Book Tour for Dr. LaJoyce Brookshire - who wrote the novelization to Soul Food the movie and sold over 200 books at the premier city book tour. Sha-Rhonda was formerly the Executive Consultant to What About US!, a teen talk show on Baltimore Cable Access; a successful Event Planner with Pfizer Pharmaceuticals and a Development Associate with WEAA Radio Station in Baltimore, Maryland. Sha-Rhonda has also secured a radio show segment for Dr. Levi Harrison NPR Affiliate station WEAA 88.9FM called “The Art of Fitness.”  Working with Artist and Vocal Percussionist Rahzel – a ‘Disciple’ of Hip Hop band The ROOTS, she has negotiated international business deals and traveled around the world with him as a Road Manager. >> Sha-Rhonda Wilson's Contact Email Info Link [info@stellarlifestyle.net] << Follow US IG: https://www.instagram.com/highlymelanatedpodcast [https://www.instagram.com/highlymelanatedpodcast] Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/H_MelanatedPod [https://www.twitter.com/H_MelanatedPod] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCb2VbyoW6KaMxQo5onYluXA [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCb2VbyoW6KaMxQo5onYluXA] IF YOU WANT TO BE A GUEST OR KNOW SOMEONE WHO WOULD BE A GREAT CHOICE, HIT US UP!!! FEEL FREE TO EMAIL US @highlymelanatedpodcast@gmail.com

Ever wondered what truly defines a thirst trap? We've got you covered as we explore the playful nuances of these social media phenomena. Join us on a lively journey through sweet debates over soda flavors and nostalgic cultural nods that will have you craving a trip down memory lane. As we groove into the heart of Black History Month, we share personal stories and memorable pop culture moments, celebrating the rich tapestry of melanin and authenticity that defines us. Imagine being behind the scenes at "Saturday Night Live" with the thrill of celebrity encounters and the creativity required to bring each sketch to life. We relive the electrifying energy of working alongside icons like Meryl Streep, sharing our aspirations and the dedication it takes to illuminate the SNL stage. Our stories of turning ideas into action and reflecting on small victories remind us of the blend of challenge and excitement in our everyday lives. Influence isn't just about numbers; it's about authenticity and impact. We untangle the concept of influence, distinguishing it from mere imitation, and delve into the responsibility that comes with affecting others. Through personal anecdotes and insights into powerful performances by artists like Kendrick Lamar, we celebrate the profound power of art and individuality. As we wrap up with humor and unity, embrace the unique expressions that make life so enriching and join us in a heartfelt farewell that radiates peace, love, and laughter. Follow US IG: https://www.instagram.com/highlymelanatedpodcast [https://www.instagram.com/highlymelanatedpodcast] Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/H_MelanatedPod [https://www.twitter.com/H_MelanatedPod] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCb2VbyoW6KaMxQo5onYluXA [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCb2VbyoW6KaMxQo5onYluXA] IF YOU WANT TO BE A GUEST OR KNOW SOMEONE WHO WOULD BE A GREAT CHOICE, HIT US UP!!! FEEL FREE TO EMAIL US @highlymelanatedpodcast@gmail.com