How Did You Find Out?

You Were A Gay Man

In this episode, Amandine sits down with Keel - actor, dancer, singer, and storyteller - for a conversation that is equal parts playful and profound. Their ADHD-fueled exchange jumps from acting and artistry to childhood memories, the world of Harry Potter, the challenges of work and education, and the unrealistic expectations placed on kids, even while adults remain works in progress themselves. At the heart of the episode is Keel’s openness about knowing his orientation from an early age, navigating life as a gay man, and growing up as a Black child adopted into a white family. Together, Amandine and Keel explore the layered realities of adoption, neurodivergence, and LGBTQ+ identity, while pushing back against the ways society reduces queer people to sexual beings instead of honoring the full spectrum of identity, growth, and love. Along the way, they share humor in family dynamics, reflect on outdated stereotypes of masculinity and femininity, and celebrate the power of art as a safe haven for self-discovery. From quirky stories about watching Harry Potter in different languages to the role of platforms like TikTok in building community, this episode reminds us that while labels and expectations may try to shrink us, our real stories are always so much larger.

You Were Love Scammed?

In this episode of How Did You Find Out?, Amandine takes us into one of the most painful and eye-opening chapters of her life: discovering she was in a love scam. She came to the U.S. chasing adventure and possibility, but what followed was a whirlwind of trust, sacrifice, betrayal, and resilience. From Miami Beach to South Carolina, from stolen IDs to nights in motels, she gave everything to someone who gave nothing back. Key themes in this episode: * When pity disguises itself as love. * The cost of ignoring red flags and intuition. * How broken promises and missing money uncovered the truth. * Why sometimes the gut says no louder than the heart says yes. This is not just a story of heartbreak, it’s a story of survival, intuition, and reclaiming power. Do you have a moment of discovery you want to share? Write to me at howdidyoufindoutpodcast@gmail.com , your story might inspire a future episode. Follow the podcast and leave a review if this episode resonates with you. Every listen helps this project grow and reach the people who need to hear it.

You Were Intuitive

Guest: Vanessa Codorniu In this powerful episode, I sit down with Vanessa Codorniu, a bilingual Latina trailblazer in spirituality, wellness, and the arts. A fourth-generation psychic medium and clinical hypnotist with more than 25 years of experience, Vanessa opens up about her journey of rediscovering and trusting her intuition. We talk about childhood moments that revealed her gifts, the life-changing accident that pushed her fully into her calling, and what it means to live guided by faith over fear. Together, we explore ancestral wisdom, the healing of generational wounds, and the importance of reclaiming intuitive practices, especially within Latinx and BIPOC communities. This conversation is a reminder that intuition is not something rare or unreachable, it’s “knowing without knowing how we know.” Vanessa’s stories will inspire you to trust your inner compass, honor your roots, and find joy in simply existing and feeling safe. Key takeaways: * Intuition is innate: we all have access to it. * Fear often silences our inner knowing, but faith invites transformation. * Community and collective healing are essential, especially for marginalized voices. * Ancestral practices are sacred tools for resilience, guidance, and liberation. About Vanessa Codorniu Vanessa Codorniu is a bilingual Latina trailblazer in spirituality, wellness, and the arts, with over 25 years of experience. An acclaimed psychic medium, clinical hypnotist, astrologer, and soul business mentor, she has guided thousands through healing circles, retreats, and bilingual certifications in intuition, the Akashic Records, Reiki, and hypnosis via her online school. She is the host of two soulful podcasts, The Biz Bruja Podcast and Nacimos Mágicas, and her work has been featured in HOLA!, BELatina, SHAPE, Primer Impacto, and Telemundo. As an empowerment trainer with the Bella Abzug Young Women’s Leadership Institute, Vanessa has mentored countless teens in leadership, identity, and intuition. She is also a co-creator of Raíces Creativas/Creative Roots in Harrisburg, building connection, visibility, and community for Latinx voices. A proud improviser and performer, Vanessa co-created Cosmic Trash, a pop-spirituality improv team blending wisdom and laughter at the Harrisburg Fringe Festival, and founded Central PA’s first Latino improv troupe, LoS CoMpLiCaDoS. She also performs musically with The Offbeats and teaches improv for well-being and connection through Improv-Unleashed.com, offering programs for businesses, nonprofits, hospitals, and beyond. Vanessa recently stepped into film as the lead in the Orchid story of River City Stories and premiered her one-woman show, Perra Puta Loca Bruja: A Latina’s Reclamation Story, at the York Fringe Festival. More than a performance, the show is an ancestral remembrance—an exploration of identity, gender, and intergenerational trauma—and a celebration of forgiveness, integration, and liberation. Resources & Mentions * Vanessa’s Website: The Biz Bruja * Vanessa on Instagram @thebizbruja [https://instagram.com/thebizbruja] * The Biz Bruja Podcast * Nacimos Mágicas Podcast * Alain Kardec, The Book of Spirits * Gabor Maté’s work on trauma & epigenetics * Caroline Myss, author & intuitive

You Had to Leave

Welcome to the debut of How Did You Find Out?, a podcast about the moments of discovery that change us. In this first episode, I share a deeply personal story of how I found out I had to leave. It’s about survival, clarity, and the beginning of a new chapter. You’ll also hear mention of faith. This podcast is a space for connection and respect, where different beliefs, perspectives, and stories can coexist. We are not here to criticize or fight, we are here to listen, learn, and understand one another better. Please come with an open ear, kindness in your heart, and respect for the many ways of being human. I also reference the work of Dr. Ramani Durvasula, PhD, particularly her book It’s Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People, whose insights on relationships and narcissistic abuse have helped countless people recognize red flags and reclaim their lives. ⚠️ This episode contains references to abuse that may be triggering for some listeners. Music: “Industrious Ferret” by Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 3.0 License http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0/ [http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0/?utm_source=chatgpt.com]