If This Is It

Excellence Or Hustle /w Sanmi

You think your job is just a means to a paycheck, but what if it’s the primary place where God is refining your character? If you've been working hard but feeling like you're still missing the mark, you might be confusing activity with alignment. In this episode of If This Is It, Tosin sits down with Sanmi, a leader in the medtech space, to break down what it actually looks like to move from functional to fruitful in a secular environment. They discuss the critical difference between the world’s definition of 'hustle' and the biblical standard of excellence found in the book of Daniel. Tosin and Sanmi explore how to navigate career setbacks, the power of integrity when the stakes are high, and why your home life and your workplace are both fields that require intentional cultivation. ⏱️ TIMESTAMPS 0:00 – From Functional to Fruitful 0:30 – Meet Sanmi: Leadership in Medtech 2:06 – Roots: Growing Up, Finding Direction 5:31 – Why Healthcare? 8:38 – God's Helpers in Your Life 12:50 – Where Faith Meets the 9-to-5 16:24 – Creating Your Own Culture 18:04 – Excellence vs. Just Hustling 23:01 – Building the Muscle of Excellence 27:51 – The I-Can't-Fail Mindset 32:38 – When Compromise Costs Big 35:14 – Walking Away from Respectable Sin 39:55 – Partner with Like-Minded Believers 43:17 – The Resentment of Failure 49:53 – Why Leaders Fail to Invest in People 54:30 – Defining Fruitfulness for You 59:48 – The 'Why' Behind the Work 1:03:05 – Integrity & Managing Time 1:07:08 – Overwhelmed? Prioritize the Essentials 1:12:14 – Resisting the World's Distractions 💬 What is one 'seed' of excellence you are choosing to cultivate in your workplace this week, even when no one else is watching? 📱 Connect with the podcast: Instagram: @ifthisisitpod Tiktok: ifthisisitpod Email: hello@ifthisisitpod.com If This Is It is a podcast about going from functional to fruitful, exploring faith, relationships, personal growth, and purpose through honest, unfiltered conversations. Hosted by Tosin, each episode dives into the real questions believers are wrestling with as they navigate modern life.

Escape The Broke Mindset /w Dumebi Oti

You're working harder than ever, yet your bank account feels stuck and your peace of mind is nowhere to be found. What if the problem isn't your lack of effort, but the template for success you've been following your entire life? In this episode of If This Is It, Tosin sits down with Dumebi Oti, a tech professional, multi-business owner, and mother, to unpack the real difference between just making money and actually building wealth. Together, they break down the common lies Christians believe about money, why fear keeps you from taking the risks God might be calling you to, and how to transition from a survivalist mindset to true, fruitful stewardship. This conversation explores why your career is only a tool, not your source, and how to start building a life that honors God while providing freedom for your family. ⏱️ TIMESTAMPS 0:00 – Introduction to the Wealth Journey 4:00 – Meet Dumebi Oti 6:53 – Lessons from Last-Born Energy 8:27 – Entrepreneurship as a Second Nature 13:24 – The Contentment vs. Ambition Balance 17:18 – Stewardship is Not Just Tithing 20:44 – Bounce Houses and Bible Flashcards 27:56 – Why You Are Afraid to Take Risks 33:37 – Finding Your Way Into Tech 40:04 – Why Women Feel Overwhelmed by Wealth 44:33 – Building Wealth vs. Just Making Money 48:50 – Does Marriage Accelerate Wealth? 52:16 – God is Your Source: The Only Mindset Shift 54:48 – The Lie of 'Holy Poverty' 1:03:06 – Your Step-One Guide to Building Wealth 1:14:03 – How to Start from Zero 1:20:19 – The Value of Male Perspective 💬 What is the biggest lie you've had to unlearn about money in your own faith journey? Share your thoughts in the comments. 📱 Connect with the podcast: Instagram: @ifthisisitpod Tiktok: ifthisisitpod Email: hello@ifthisisitpod.com If This Is It is a podcast about going from functional to fruitful, exploring faith, relationships, personal growth, and purpose through honest, unfiltered conversations. Hosted by Tosin, each episode dives into the real questions believers are wrestling with as they navigate modern life.

The Very Success I Was Grateful For Was A Prison /w Tade Bolarin

What happens when you check every box, the degrees, the career, the title, the family and still feel like you're drowning? In this episode of If This Is It, host Tosin sits down with Tade Bolarin, a former Big Four professional turned leadership coach, for one of the most honest conversations about career, identity, and alignment we've had on this show. Tade opens up about what it's really like to be "winning" on the outside while falling apart on the inside and what finally pushed him to walk away from a career path that looked perfect to everyone but him. This conversation gets into the immigrant conditioning that keeps so many of us from speaking up at work, the fear-based mindset we inherited, and what it actually takes to stop letting a company define your worth. You'll also hear about the role of community, marriage, and faith in the process of transition and why the answer for most people isn't to quit their job, but to go deeper into themselves and ask questions they've been avoiding. If you've ever felt the tension between what looks right and what feels right, this is for you. 🔗 CONNECT WITH US Subscribe to If This Is It on YouTube, Spotify & Apple Podcasts Follow us on Instagram: @ifthisisitpodcast ⏱️ TIMESTAMPS 0:00 – Pre-show: Millennials, Gen Z & Why We're Livid 15:07 – Welcome & Meet Tade Buller 19:04 – "You're Valued By What You Produce" 21:23 – The Big Four Trap: Utilization vs. Real Impact 24:52 – The Lie: Get the Good Job, Get the Good Life 31:05 – His Wife Saw the Tears Between Meetings 34:02 – "Laziness Is Not Your Issue — Go Deeper" 36:06 – The Valentine's Day Conversation That Changed Everything 43:57 – "The Performance Felt Good — But Something Was Always Missing" 45:30 – A Word of Caution: This Isn't Anti-Corporate 48:57 – What His Dad Modeled About Work and Alignment 57:32 – Redefining Grit for This Generation 1:01:44 – The System Is Built to Get You to Work, Not to Think 1:03:49 – When Did Faith Enter the Picture? 1:07:01 – The Framework: How to Rewire the Way You Think About Work 1:17:30 – What's Coming Next — and Why People Need to Be Ready

I Failed Twice & Had No Plan, Now God Has Me Doing 5 Things At Once

What happens when God doesn't call you to just one thing but five? In this episode of If This Is It, host Tosin sits down with a Pastor Tolu Labeodan who is simultaneously a doctor, a businessman, a pastor, a husband, and a father. And somehow… he's not burned out. He's not bitter. He's grateful. This conversation gets into the real questions: How do you juggle that many responsibilities without losing your mind? What do you do on the days you don't feel like showing up? How do you prioritize when everything feels urgent? And what do you say to someone who's been knocked down so hard by life that they can't even see their own potential anymore? You'll hear about unexpected doors God opened, the role upbringing plays in shaping your capacity, why asking for help is harder than it should be (especially in our culture), and a perspective on faith and motivation that might challenge how you think about both. Whether you're feeling pulled in multiple directions, stuck in a season that doesn't make sense, or wondering how to build structure without losing peace, this one's for you. ⏱️ TIMESTAMPS 0:00 – Intro & Pre-show Banter 5:58 – Purpose vs. Unanswered Questions 8:47 – Welcome & Meet Our Guest 10:04 – When God Calls You to Multiple Things 11:02 – Passion vs. Calling — Is There a Difference? 13:06 – Stewarding Yourself Toward the Goal 17:02 – Recognizing God's Hand at Every Step 19:05 – How Upbringing Shapes Your Capacity 21:10 – "Did You Ever Feel Like This Isn't Me?" 24:46 – A Day in the Life 27:55 – How to Do It All Without Losing Your Mind 30:26 – Powering Through When You Don't Feel Like It 33:13 – Advice for Someone Who Feels Stuck 41:09 – When Life Deals a Serious Blow 43:01 – Why Asking for Help Is So Hard 48:57 – Finding Your Circle 53:23 – The Price of Multiple Callings 55:52 – The First Thing You Should Do If You Feel Called in Multiple Directions 🔗 CONNECT WITH US Subscribe to If This Is It on YouTube, Spotify & Apple Podcasts Follow us on Instagram: @ifthisisitpodcast

What 13 Years Of Marriage Taught Us About Faithfulness

He got laid off during paternity leave. She couldn't legally work. Their green card was hanging by a thread. And somehow, Dayo and Yemi Jegede came out the other side, not just intact, but stronger. In this episode of If This Is It, Tosin sits down with a couple whose marriage has been tested by layoffs, immigration crises, role reversals, and the kind of pressure that quietly destroys most relationships. But this isn't a survival story. It's a blueprint. From the moment Dayo saw Yemi on a university campus in Lagos and told his friend "that's my wife" to the season where both of them were out of work with three kids and had to trust God with decisions they couldn't logic their way through, this conversation reveals what faithfulness actually costs when the test isn't dramatic, it's daily. If you've ever wondered whether the work you're putting into your marriage, your faith, or your future is actually paying off this one is for you. TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 - Meet Dayo & Yemi Jegede 01:30 - Laid Off During Paternity Leave: The Microsoft Story 03:30 - Green Card Crisis: When Your Status Hangs in the Balance 06:00 - Role Reversal: She Worked While He Searched 08:00 - The Upbringing That Shaped Their Marriage 14:00 - "Plan A or Plan A" — No Backup for This Marriage 18:00 - Why Your Home Has to Be Peaceful (And How to Build That) 22:00 - Putting the Marriage Before the Children 26:00 - Advice for Young Men Navigating Relationships 28:00 - Overcoming a Stammer: Dayo's Identity Journey 33:00 - 2023: Laid Off Again — And Both of Them This Time 37:00 - Going Back to Corporate After Entrepreneurship 40:00 - The Power of Friendship (And How It Raised Millions) 45:00 - How Their Social Media Journey Started (Mr. and Mrs. Jegz) 53:00 - "I Saw a Vision" — How Dayo Knew She Was the One 01:00:00 - She Went to His Hostel: Yemi's Side of the Love Story 01:05:00 - Your Fruitfulness Is Your Responsibility 01:11:00 - The Framework: Cultivate, Keep, Resist 01:17:00 - Cultivating Faithfulness in Work, Marriage, and Friendship 01:20:00 - Guarding What You've Built: Discernment and Boundaries 01:24:00 - Resisting Your Own Understanding When Life Makes No Sense 01:30:00 - Where to Find the Jegedes 💬 Dayo said "it's me and you against the problem, not me against you." What's the one principle that keeps your relationship grounded when things get hard? Share it in the comments. 📧 CONTACT US: - Email: [ifthisisitpodcast@gmail.com](mailto:ifthisisitpodcast@gmail.com) - Website: ifthisisit.com 🎙️ GUESTS IN THIS EPISODE: - Dayo & Yemi Jegede — Married 13+ years, parents to three, entrepreneurs, and content creators - YouTube: Mr. and Mrs. Jegz - Instagram: @diogz (Dayo) If This Is It is a podcast about going from functional to fruitful, exploring faith, relationships, personal growth, and purpose through honest, unfiltered conversations. Hosted by Tosin, each episode dives into the real questions believers are wrestling with as they navigate modern life.