Jillian on Love

Sometimes, the hardest truth to face is that the person you love is the one you need to walk away from. Today, Jillian answers three listener letters from people stuck in relationships where love, addiction, betrayal, or avoidance are keeping them trapped. She dives deep into what it means to trust yourself again, why you can’t save someone who’s drowning, and how self-respect—not attachment—is what sets you free. Download Jillian’s FREE limerence workbook, http://jillianturecki.com/workbook [http://jillianturecki.com/workbook]  Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman [https://www.jillianturecki.com/membership] Submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://forms.gle/FbtgkGTwfnrjvHwW7 [https://forms.gle/FbtgkGTwfnrjvHwW7]  Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book [https://www.jillianturecki.com/book] ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove [https://www.instagram.com/JillianOnLove/?hl=en] Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com [hello@jillianonlove.com]  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/jillian-on-love/id1640172049] or Patreon [http://patreon.com/jillianonlove] ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki [https://www.instagram.com/jillianturecki/?hl=en] TikTok: @jillian.turecki [https://www.tiktok.com/@jillian.turecki?lang=en] X: @JillianTurecki [https://x.com/JillianTurecki?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor] Visit her website at jillianturecki.com [http://jillianturecki.com] ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices [https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices]

Jillian teaches how to truly manifest a soulmate—without the “woo.” She shares a proven step-by-step method that has helped thousands of people attract emotionally healthy, aligned relationships—complete with simple daily practices to calm your system, raise your standards, and date with intention. Jillian reframes manifestation as an intentional, grounded process of co-creation: She breaks down what a soulmate actually is (and isn’t), why waiting keeps you disconnected from your power, and how nervous system regulation becomes the foundation for clarity, confidence, and discernment in love. Download Bumble today. http://bumble.com [http://bumble.com]  Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman [https://www.jillianturecki.com/membership] Submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://forms.gle/FbtgkGTwfnrjvHwW7 [https://forms.gle/FbtgkGTwfnrjvHwW7]  Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book [https://www.jillianturecki.com/book] Download Bumble today. http://bumble.com [http://bumble.com]  ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove [https://www.instagram.com/JillianOnLove/?hl=en] Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com [hello@jillianonlove.com]  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/jillian-on-love/id1640172049] or Patreon [http://patreon.com/jillianonlove] ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki [https://www.instagram.com/jillianturecki/?hl=en] TikTok: @jillian.turecki [https://www.tiktok.com/@jillian.turecki?lang=en] X: @JillianTurecki [https://x.com/JillianTurecki?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor] Visit her website at jillianturecki.com [http://jillianturecki.com] ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices [https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices]

This is my most vulnerable episode yet. For the first time, I open up about my relationship with my father and the deep impact it had on how I saw myself, my relationships, and my life. I share what it was like growing up with a difficult parent, the ways it shaped my identity, and the healing process I had to go through to finally make peace. If you’ve ever carried pain, anger, or grief toward a parent — whether narcissistic, emotionally unavailable, or simply unable to meet your needs — this episode is about finding freedom, reclaiming your power, and choosing not to let your past control your future. Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman [https://www.jillianturecki.com/membership] Submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://forms.gle/FbtgkGTwfnrjvHwW7 [https://forms.gle/FbtgkGTwfnrjvHwW7]  Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book [https://www.jillianturecki.com/book] ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove [https://www.instagram.com/JillianOnLove/?hl=en] Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com [hello@jillianonlove.com]  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/jillian-on-love/id1640172049] or Patreon [http://patreon.com/jillianonlove] ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki [https://www.instagram.com/jillianturecki/?hl=en] TikTok: @jillian.turecki [https://www.tiktok.com/@jillian.turecki?lang=en] X: @JillianTurecki [https://x.com/JillianTurecki?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor] Visit her website at jillianturecki.com [http://jillianturecki.com] ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices [https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices]

Do you ever wonder why you keep attracting the wrong person? In this episode, Jillian unpacks the unconscious blocks that prevent us from finding healthy love. She shares why distrust and resentment poison connection, how fear of not being “enough” sabotages relationships, and why wasting time with the wrong partner only delays the right one. Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman [https://www.jillianturecki.com/membership] Submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://forms.gle/FbtgkGTwfnrjvHwW7 [https://forms.gle/FbtgkGTwfnrjvHwW7]  Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book [https://www.jillianturecki.com/book] This episode is sponsored by https://bumble.com/https://bumble.com/ [https://bumble.com/] ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove [https://www.instagram.com/JillianOnLove/?hl=en] Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com [hello@jillianonlove.com]  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/jillian-on-love/id1640172049] or Patreon [http://patreon.com/jillianonlove] ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki [https://www.instagram.com/jillianturecki/?hl=en] TikTok: @jillian.turecki [https://www.tiktok.com/@jillian.turecki?lang=en] X: @JillianTurecki [https://x.com/JillianTurecki?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor] Visit her website at jillianturecki.com [http://jillianturecki.com] ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices [https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices]

Jillian welcomes Sheleana Aiyana—author of Becoming the One and founder of Rising Woman—for a deep dive into conscious relationships, healing attachment wounds, and nervous system regulation. Sheleana shares personal stories of trauma, resilience, and transformation, offering powerful insight into how we can move from survival patterns to secure connection. They explore everything from how to know you’re ready for a relationship to how to navigate triggers, abandonment fears, and the work of parenting after a difficult childhood.  Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman [https://www.jillianturecki.com/membership] Submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://forms.gle/FbtgkGTwfnrjvHwW7 [https://forms.gle/FbtgkGTwfnrjvHwW7]  Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book [https://www.jillianturecki.com/book] ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove [https://www.instagram.com/JillianOnLove/?hl=en] Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com [hello@jillianonlove.com]  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/jillian-on-love/id1640172049] or Patreon [http://patreon.com/jillianonlove] ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki [https://www.instagram.com/jillianturecki/?hl=en] TikTok: @jillian.turecki [https://www.tiktok.com/@jillian.turecki?lang=en] X: @JillianTurecki [https://x.com/JillianTurecki?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor] Visit her website at jillianturecki.com [http://jillianturecki.com] ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices [https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices]