The Let's Talk Relationships Podcast

EP 47: Why Men Are Struggling More Than Ever with Kelly Gardner

Men make up half the population — yet nearly 80 percent of suicide deaths. Young men are reporting record levels of loneliness. Many have fewer close friendships than any generation before them. They’re falling behind academically, struggling relationally, and quietly carrying pressure they don’t always have language for. So what is really going on? In this episode, I sit down with Kelly Gardner, [https://www.kellygardner.com/] a men’s coach and relationship coach, to unpack the deeper struggles men are facing in today’s cultural climate. We talk about emotional conditioning, shame, loneliness, masculinity, role confusion, dating dynamics, and why so many men feel lost or misunderstood. This conversation is not about blaming men or criticizing masculinity. It’s about understanding the internal world many men have been taught to hide. We explore:  • Why men struggle to ask for help  • How emotional suppression affects intimacy  • The loneliness epidemic among men  • Why so many men feel unprepared for healthy relationships  • What young boys are growing up without  • And what healing actually looks like for men who are ready to grow If you’re a man who has felt alone in your struggle, this episode is for you. If you love a man and want to understand him better, this episode is also for you. Get in Touch with Kelly:  https://www.kellygardner.com/ [https://www.kellygardner.com/] Free Resource from Kelly:  https://www.lipcouples.com/compass [https://www.lipcouples.com/compass] 1:1 Coaching with Beatrice Dating and relationships can bring up confusion, self doubt, or emotional activation, even for people who are thoughtful, self aware, and growth oriented. When the same patterns keep repeating, it’s often a sign something deeper is asking for attention. I work one on one with people navigating this, helping them build the emotional security and clarity needed for healthy, aligned relationships. If you’re curious about working together, you can book a call through the link below we’ll see if it’s the right fit. Book a Call [https://www.coachaccountable.com/offering/PTQIRVM2x61gMEV4z0chd8ti8rK778W] Instagram:@letstalkrelationships_ [https://www.instagram.com/letstalkrelationships_/] Website: https://www.theltrpodcast.com/ [https://www.theltrpodcast.com/]

EP 46: What Dating Looks Like When Faith Sets the Standard with Mikey Planeta

In this episode, I sit down with Mikey Planeta, who you may recognize from season 17 of The Bachelor, for a deeper conversation about dating, faith, and emotional maturity in today’s world. We explore what it really looks like to date with intention as a Christian, the tension many people feel between modern dating culture and deeply held values, and the self work that is essential before entering a healthy relationship. Mikey shares how his walk with God has shaped the way he approaches love and dating, what he has had to unlearn along the way, and how staying grounded in who you are brings more clarity and peace into connection. This episode is for anyone who wants a more intentional, emotionally grounded approach to dating and relationships, rooted in self awareness, integrity, and alignment. https://www.instagram.com/mikeyplaneta/ 1:1 Coaching with Beatrice Dating and relationships can bring up confusion, self doubt, or emotional activation, even for people who are thoughtful, self aware, and growth oriented. When the same patterns keep repeating, it’s often a sign something deeper is asking for attention. I work one on one with people navigating this, helping them build the emotional security and clarity needed for healthy, aligned relationships. If you’re curious about working together, you can book a call through the link below we’ll see if it’s the right fit. Book a Call [https://www.coachaccountable.com/offering/PTQIRVM2x61gMEV4z0chd8ti8rK778W] Instagram:@letstalkrelationships_ [https://www.instagram.com/letstalkrelationships_/] Website: https://www.theltrpodcast.com/ [https://www.theltrpodcast.com/]

EP 45: Why Swiping Ruined Dating And What Comes Next with Danny Goldstein

Dating today can feel confusing, discouraging, and honestly exhausting. Between endless swiping, mixed signals, and a culture that rewards chemistry over compatibility, a lot of people are left wondering what is actually going wrong and whether real love is still possible. In this episode, I sit down with Danny Goldstein [https://www.instagram.com/cruxcompatible/], a former corporate lawyer turned matchmaker and founder of Crux Compatible [https://www.cruxcompatible.com/], to talk about the state of modern dating from a completely different vantage point. Danny shares what he sees every day working closely with singles, why dating apps may be doing more harm than good, and what actually matters when it comes to building long term, healthy relationships. We explore attachment styles, core values, what makes a strong match, and how people can start showing up differently if they feel stuck in old patterns. This conversation is honest, practical, and hopeful. If you have ever felt burned out by dating, unsure of what you are doing wrong, or curious about what real compatibility actually looks like, this episode will give you clarity and perspective you did not know you needed. 1:1 Coaching with Beatrice Dating and relationships can bring up confusion, self doubt, or emotional activation, even for people who are thoughtful, self aware, and growth oriented. When the same patterns keep repeating, it’s often a sign something deeper is asking for attention. I work one on one with people navigating this, helping them build the emotional security and clarity needed for healthy, aligned relationships. If you’re curious about working together, you can book a call through the link below we’ll see if it’s the right fit. Book a Call [https://www.coachaccountable.com/offering/PTQIRVM2x61gMEV4z0chd8ti8rK778W] Instagram:@letstalkrelationships_ [https://www.instagram.com/letstalkrelationships_/] Website: https://www.theltrpodcast.com/ [https://www.theltrpodcast.com/]

EP 44: Westley Baer on Life After Love Is Blind, Faith, and Becoming a Grounded Man

In this episode, I sit down with Westley Baer from Love Is Blind season one to talk about what happens after the cameras turn off. We explore Westley’s dating life before the show, his experience navigating Love Is Blind, and what it was like coming to terms with the end of that chapter. From there, the conversation moves into the deeper work. The love letter he wrote to himself, his experience with coaching, a six month solo journey through the Southeast, and what shifted when he chose to step away from dating and focus inward. We also talk about faith and how it became a grounding force in Westley’s life, shaping not only who he is as a man but what he now looks for in partnership. And finally, we dive into men’s work. Vulnerability, emotional growth, and why so many men feel disconnected from themselves, their relationships, and each other. This is an honest, reflective conversation about growth, faith, and becoming more intentional in how we show up in love and in life. Connect with Westley https://www.instagram.com/westleybaer/ [https://www.instagram.com/westleybaer/] 1:1 Coaching with Beatrice Dating and relationships can bring up confusion, self doubt, or emotional activation, even for people who are thoughtful, self aware, and growth oriented. When the same patterns keep repeating, it’s often a sign something deeper is asking for attention. I work one on one with people navigating this, helping them build the emotional security and clarity needed for healthy, aligned relationships. If you’re curious about working together, you can book a call through the link below we’ll see if it’s the right fit. Book a Call [https://www.coachaccountable.com/offering/PTQIRVM2x61gMEV4z0chd8ti8rK778W] Instagram:@letstalkrelationships_ [https://www.instagram.com/letstalkrelationships_/] Website: https://www.theltrpodcast.com/ [https://www.theltrpodcast.com/]

EP 43: How to Stop Letting Old Stories Run Your Relationships with Dr. R. Scott Gornto

In this episode, I sit down with Dr. R. Scott Gornto, therapist and author of The Stories We Tell Ourselves, to explore the quiet narratives that shape how we see ourselves and how we show up in relationships. We talk about where these internal stories come from, why they feel so real, and how they quietly influence our triggers, behaviors, and relational patterns. From dating and intimacy to conflict and emotional safety, we unpack how much of what we experience in relationships is less about what’s actually happening and more about the meaning we assign to it. Dr. Gornto shares insight into how these stories form, how to recognize when they’re running the show, and what it truly takes to begin rewriting them in a way that creates more grounded, secure connection. If you’ve ever felt stuck in the same patterns, confused by your reactions, or aware that something deeper is at play in your relationships, this episode offers clarity, compassion, and a powerful new lens for understanding yourself. About Dr. R. Scott Gornto Dr. R. Scott Gornto is a licensed therapist, speaker, and author of The Stories We Tell Ourselves. With a background in psychology and years of clinical experience, his work focuses on helping people understand how internal narratives shape behavior, emotional responses, and relationship patterns. Through his writing and therapeutic work, Dr. Gornto explores how early experiences influence the stories we carry about ourselves, others, and connection — and how bringing awareness to those stories can create meaningful, lasting change. His approach blends compassion, insight, and practical tools to help people move out of old patterns and into more grounded, secure ways of relating. https://www.drrscottgornto.com/about  [https://www.drrscottgornto.com/about] 1:1 Coaching with Beatrice Dating and relationships can bring up confusion, self doubt, or emotional activation, even for people who are thoughtful, self aware, and growth oriented. When the same patterns keep repeating, it’s often a sign something deeper is asking for attention. I work one on one with people navigating this, helping them build the emotional security and clarity needed for healthy, aligned relationships. If you’re curious about working together, you can book a call through the link below we’ll see if it’s the right fit. Book a Call [https://www.coachaccountable.com/offering/PTQIRVM2x61gMEV4z0chd8ti8rK778W] Instagram:@letstalkrelationships_ [https://www.instagram.com/letstalkrelationships_/] Website: https://www.theltrpodcast.com/ [https://www.theltrpodcast.com/]