Life at Ten Tenths

Do You Have to Buy Real Estate Leads to Survive? (The Truth About the 3% Rule)

Google launched a real estate product pairing listings with buyer's agents. Every platform is pitching you their pipeline. Underneath all of it is the same message: pay to play, or fall behind. We don't buy it. And when you see the actual math, you might not either. In this conversation, we get into what buying real estate leads actually costs, when it can work, and why it's almost never the answer people think it is. We unpack the video that started this whole conversation (a strong take that agents need to buy Google placements or they're making a "dumb business decision"), why the 3% conversion rate is the benchmark most agents don't want to hear, the math that says 1,500 leads a year turns into 45 deals if you're doing everything right (which is 4.2 leads a day you have to actively work). Our take, you can outperform the agents buying leads, by developing a strong 100 person database that you show up for consistently and let the seven-year cycle plus referrals do the heavy lifting. Done right, you stop chasing strangers at a 3% conversion rate and start running a business that compounds every year you stay in it. Not to mention is a whole lot more fun!

The "Wet Blanket" Listings That Are Killing Your Real Estate Business

"Wet Blanket" might not immediately bring an idea to mind, but we would argue once you hear our definition at least one listing or client will come to mind immediately. In this conversation, we get into the "wet blanket" listings that quietly wreck your business, your energy, and your life. One of the beautiful things of this business is that you get to choose who you work with. You don't have to take every listing, The ones you say no to make room for the ones you were meant to serve. It comes down to laying out your process clearly upfront so the seller can opt in with full understanding, chasing what Matt calls the "unified yes" (where their yes and your yes are the same yes), and being willing to refer out the ones that aren't in alignment. Done right, you stop dragging comforters through your day and start running a business that actually fuels your life. Join at https://tentenths.coHosted by Matt Bonelli and Garrett Frey, Life at Ten Tenths. #realestate #realtor #realestateagent #realestatecoaching #realestatebusiness #listings #listingagent #realestatesuccess #burnout

The Dunning-Kruger Effect in Real Estate: Why Smart Clients Make Confident Mistakes

You're sitting at the listing appointment. Your seller has run their home through Zillow, asked ChatGPT what it's worth, talked to a neighbor who sold last year, and read a Facebook post that confirmed everything they already believed. They walk in fully confident. And you have about ten minutes to work with that. In this conversation, we get into the Dunning-Kruger Effect and what it actually looks like in a real estate transaction. We unpack "Mount Stupid" and "The Valley of Despair" (the two landmarks on the learning curve every client and every agent passes through), why your clients hit peak confidence the moment they know just enough to be dangerous, why this is amplified in real estate specifically because so much of the knowledge only comes from doing the work, Garrett's stock market run (and the moment "the Garrett hedge fund" got humbled), the track day version of the same curve, why the Zillow Zestimate accuracy rating is the most underused conversation-starter you have, the Facebook commenter effect and why everyone's the loudest right before they actually engage, the agent who thinks the high-producer next door is "just lucky," and the closing reframe that you don't avoid this curve. Riding it is growth. If you are thinking you have to knock your client off the mountain to get them to where you need them to be - not quite! It simply comes down to a few things. First, acknowledging they were smart to do research up front, the best of us do. Acknowledge that they got information from somewhere they trust. And show genuine appreciation that they are coming to the table with some ideas. Then collaboratively bringing new information to the table without making them defensive. Done right, confident clients become committed clients, and committed clients close. Want to joins us for weekly coaching - check out tentenths.co

Stop Selling Houses. Start Coaching Clients.

The term coach has been widely misused over the last few decades. More often than not, what some might call a coach is truly an accountability partner. But if you can tap into what it means to be a true coach, it can transform your client relationships into something that endures time. In this conversation, we unpack the difference between a coach and an accountability partner and more importantly, how being a coach to your clients can dramatically (positively) impact your overall business. There is a lot of confusion around what it means to be a coach. Many people have adapted the title to different scenarios that are not truly coaching. At the end of the day, it comes down to asking better questions up front, staying curious about why your client is actually buying or selling, and showing up for the long journey of homeownership instead of just this one deal. Done right, you stop chasing transactions and start building the kind of relationships that fuel a business for decades. And if you are looking for a coach in your world, reach out. You probably felt it in this episode, but we have a passion for coaching. There is nothing we like more than helping people find their genius, develop their vision into reality, and create the abundance in their life and business that is waiting for them.

Why Your Listing Isn't Selling (And the $100 Bill That Explains It)

If you have a listing sitting on the market right now, and the price is right, the location is right, the comps support it, and it still isn't moving, this episode is for you. There's something else going on, and most agents are missing it. In this conversation, we get into the $100 bill analogy that explains why buyers keep picking the house down the street over yours. This isn't a real estate quirk (it's how people value everything). Good news is most of this is in the seller's control if you can have the right conversation upfront. It comes down to helping the seller see what the buyer sees, which is hard because they've lived with the wrinkles for so long the wrinkles have become invisible. Done right, your listing stops being the one buyers walk past and starts being the one they pick. Host by: Matt Bonelli and Garrett Frey.