Marriage of Greatness Podcast

128: Healing From Infidelity

What if we told you that infidelity isn’t the real problem in your marriage—it’s just a symptom? Susan Money and Evan Money boldly challenge conventional wisdom and reveal a radically positive approach to healing from infidelity. Learn why focusing on “masking the symptom” fails, how to get to the real root cause, and the essential daily habits that can transform your relationship—whether you’re rebuilding after betrayal or simply seeking deeper connection. Key highlights include: * Why “romance doesn’t die, it loses its caretakers” * The surprising root cause behind infidelity—and how to address it * Exposing the “if, then” cycle that keeps couples stuck * The role of love languages, and how “fine-tuning the dialect” can make all the difference * The secret to real change: getting the right “combination” and sequence for marital healing * How one intentional person can start the restoration, even if both aren’t perfect * You’ll come away inspired, equipped, and ready to take action—no matter where you are on your marriage journey. Timestamped Overview [00:00:00] Healing from infidelity and opening thoughts [00:01:17] Welcoming new listeners and show inspiration [00:01:48] The shocking truth: Infidelity is a symptom, not the problem [00:04:26] Why Susan Money hesitated to speak on this topic [00:05:07] The emptiness behind infidelity and the “love tank” concept [00:06:34] For men: Breaking the victim mentality and taking full ownership [00:09:19] “What do I do now?”—The path to healing begins [00:11:06] The first number in the “combination” to unlock healing [00:13:49] Why knowing the love language isn’t enough [00:15:46] Fine-tuning love languages and real-life application [00:16:39] The “opposite test” to discover your partner’s true needs [00:17:36] Why depleted love languages confuse couples [00:19:30] Cracking the code (and why sequence matters) [00:20:19] Why there’s no hack for marriage—only intentional action [00:21:05] One imperfect person can flip the marriage script [00:21:37] Restoration habits and leading with love [00:22:04] Inspiration and encouragement to take the next step [00:23:55] Closing and where to find more resources

127: Meet John & Diana Burge

What if the secret to lifelong romance isn’t perfection—but being willing to grow together, even after 30 years? On this episode of the Marriage of Greatness podcast, Evan Money and Susan Money welcome John Burge and Diana Burge, a couple who defy the odds in a world where LA’s divorce rate soars to 75%. Discover how they’ve built a marriage that stands out for joy, connection, and continued growth—even as entrepreneurs, parents of grown daughters, and mentors to other couples. Key highlights: * The three things John Burge and Diana Burge are most grateful for about each other—including humor, empathy, and faith. * Personal journeys of outgrowing people-pleasing and learning to let go as parents. * The surprising advice they give every couple about happiness and priorities. * Daily habits, the “marriage pyramid,” and the transformative power of just 10 intentional minutes together. * How their devotion to marriage ministry and working on themselves has changed their lives. Don’t miss their heartening insights and vulnerable stories about building greatness in marriage—no matter what stage of life you’re in. Timestamped Overview [00:00] Meet John & Diana Burge [01:47] Introduction and background [04:04] Top three things they’re grateful for [07:30] Discussion on eating disorders & body image [10:49] Outgrowing people-pleasing and letting go as parents [14:13] Their daughters and family updates [17:08] When they realized their marriage was different [19:52] The power of intentional connection [23:34] Most impactful marriage advice [29:03] The importance of daily intentional conversation [31:06] If your marriage was a movie... [32:47] Most memorable gifts given [35:43] Encouragement for couples: 100/0, happiness, and personal growth [39:34] Wrap-up and how to connect

126: Five Powerful Questions for Your Marriage

What if the secret to a thriving marriage isn’t love—but asking the right questions? In this inspiring episode, Susan Money and Evan Money reveal the five powerful questions every couple must tackle to move from a “good” marriage to a truly “great” one—and why skipping these questions can cause even the strongest relationships to slowly drift apart. Drawing from personal stories, faith, and practical wisdom, they break down how intentionality, alignment, and reflection forge legendary relationships. From deciding who leads, to evaluating if your marital “process” is really working, you’ll discover transformative habits to strengthen your connection—for life. Timestamps Overview: 00:01 Welcome & Episode Hook: Five Powerful Questions for Your Marriage 00:31 Introduction from Susan Money and Evan Money 01:14 Why Does Your Marriage Exist? 04:16 The Power of Alignment and Multiplication in Marriage 05:41 Who is Leading This Marriage? 08:22 Navigating Disagreement and Decision-Making Roles 13:04 What is Our Philosophy? 14:43 The Drift Effect & Staying Intentionally Connected 17:16 Embracing Growth and Change Together 18:35 Highlights from Ritz Carlton & Rolls Royce Shout-Outs 18:42 What is Our Process and Is It Working? 21:00 Real-Life Guardrails and Adjustments 23:29 Timing Conversations Intentionally 25:57 What Have We Accomplished in Our Marriage? 28:34 Reflecting on Past Achievements and Future Goals 29:12 The Five Key Questions Recap & Final Challenge 30:47 Outro and Connect with the Show

125: Different Countries Same Marital Struggles

Join Evan and Susan Money for their Q&A from the recent Marriage of Greatness retreat in Uganda! In this episode, they dive deep into how couples worldwide face similar marital challenges—no matter where they're from. You’ll hear candid questions from retreat participants about navigating differences in decision-making speed, handling business setbacks with your spouse, respecting each other’s professional expertise, and building clear communication. Susan shares practical advice on setting tangible goals, understanding different ways of processing information, and why changing strategies is crucial when things aren’t working. The episode also addresses what happens when trust is broken in marriage, with insights on rebuilding love, setting guardrails, and coming back stronger than ever. Plus, celebrate with a couple freshly married for just 48 hours as they gain wisdom to start their journey on a firm foundation. Whether you’re newlyweds or seasoned partners, this heartfelt and honest episode offers encouragement and actionable advice for every marriage. 🔔 Subscribe for more inspiration and real talk about building a marriage of greatness! #MarriagePodcast #MaritalStruggles #RelationshipAdvice #MarriageOfGreatness #EvanAndSusanMoney

124: How To Make Your Marriage A Bed Of Roses All The Time

What if “happily ever after” isn’t something you find—but something you create, every single day? This episode of the Marriage of Greatness podcast with Evan Money unveils the daily choices and practical rituals that can keep your marriage a bed of roses, no matter the season or circumstances. Broadcasting a candid Q&A session from a marriage retreat in Uganda, Evan Money dives into the three things you can truly control in your marriage, breaks down the misunderstood secret to lasting intimacy, and shares the inspiration behind getting remarried—and honeymooning—every year with his wife. From honest talk about sex lives and keeping romance alive on a budget, to actionable ways to support your partner’s dreams, this episode brims with genuine wisdom and fresh ideas for couples anywhere in the world. Timestamped Overview 00:00 Welcome and intro from Uganda marriage retreat 01:22 Three (bad) options people think exist for marriage 02:35 Real secret: You have to create happily ever after 03:48 The only 3 things you can control in life and marriage 06:14 Audience questions begin 06:43 How to keep your sex life exciting—beyond changing locations 08:16 Evan Money breaks down the 3 “I”s every man struggles with (Intimacy, Integrity, Identity) 10:06 Why emotional intimacy supercharges physical intimacy 12:34 Busting the myth of “they should just know what I want” 13:55 Insights from Evan Money’s wife about physical vs emotional intimacy 16:07 Why does Evan Money call his wife “bride” after all these years? 18:10 Annual weddings and creative honeymoons—how and why 19:34 Don’t throw out the roses—keep romance alive 20:50 Creativity and mindset over money 23:28 Spontaneous, meaningful vow renewals 24:13 Dedication, not destination, is what matters 25:06 Breaking the “if, then” cycle 26:44 Focus on your own “room for improvement” 28:17 Proverbs 31 inspiration and mutual uplifting 30:00 How being supportive fueled their entrepreneurial journey 32:12 “Love tank” check-ins and five love languages 34:36 Early days: budgeting, tough moments, staying creative 36:18 Passion vs profession—finding fulfillment and provision 37:49 Doors that open when you live intentionally as partners 38:11 Episode wrap-up and where to follow their journey