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In this powerful follow-up conversation, Britt Hartley returns to explore 10 practical and emotional steps to take during your faith deconstruction journey. From embracing anger and grief, to rediscovering your identity, setting boundaries, and finding peace in the unknown—this episode is a guide to healing, growth, and transformation. Whether you're newly questioning or deep in the process, these insights will help you navigate deconstruction with compassion and clarity. Topics include: * Grieving your old beliefs * Embracing uncertainty * Inner child & shadow work * Building authentic community * Setting loving boundaries * Learning to just be Join us as we unpack the deep emotional layers of deconstruction and the tools that can truly support your journey. 00:00:00 Introduction 00:04:17 First: Anger, grief phase, etc. Lean into the anger 00:12:12 Second: Embracing what you don’t know 00:20:36 Third: Dating yourself 00:29:52 Fourth: Inner child work 00:37:11 Fifth: Shadow work 00:44:35 Sixth: Deculting 00:50:38 Seventh: Vulnerably reaching out to others 00:57:00 How men are doing in deconstruction vs. how women are doing 01:01:32 Eighth: Exploring human development 01:08:15 Ninth: Boundaries from a place of love 01:14:33 Tenth: Learning how to just be 01:19:00 Closing remarks Show Notes [https://www.mormonstories.org/ten-things-to-do-in-your-faith-deconstruction/] YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IYmMroQiE4Y] Mormon Stories Thanks Our Generous Donors! Help us continue to deliver quality content by becoming a donor today: * One-time or recurring donation through Donorbox [https://donorbox.org/mormon-stories?default_interval=m] * Support us on Patreon [https://www.patreon.com/mormonstories] * PayPal [https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/mormonstories] * Venmo [https://account.venmo.com/u/mormonstories] Our Platforms: * YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/mormonstories?sub_confirmation=1] * Patreon [https://www.patreon.com/mormonstories] * Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/4sDzk7dRjODTSEqzZKZJzk?si=148b0efc1ccc4404] * Apple Podcasts [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mormon-stories-lds/id312094772] Contact us: MormonStories@gmail.com PO Box 171085, Salt Lake City, UT 84117 Social Media: * Insta: @mormstories [https://www.instagram.com/mormstories] * TikTok: @mormonstoriespodcast [https://www.tiktok.com/@mormonstoriespodcast] * Join the Discord [https://discord.com/invite/kuX5p6yyjF]

Jennifer Wilson shares her deeply personal journey from growing up in a devout Mormon family to questioning, deconstructing, and ultimately leaving her faith. She opens up about her family's polygamist history, her mission experience, marriage, leadership roles in the church, and the struggles that came with navigating faith transitions. From grappling with church expectations to finding newfound freedom and clarity, Jennifer reflects on how this journey has reshaped her identity, marriage, and parenting.Key Topics Covered: Growing up in a Mormon household & family history, missionary experiences & gender expectations in the church, marriage, motherhood & church leadership roles, doubts, faith crisis & leaving the church, Raising kids outside of Mormonism & rediscovering identity.Join us for an honest, heartfelt conversation about faith, change, and self-discovery. Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share your thoughts in the comments!___________________At Mormon Stories we explore, celebrate, and challenge Mormon culture through in-depth stories told by members and former members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints as well as scholars, authors, LDS apologists, and other professionals. Our overall mission is to: 1. Facilitate informed consent amongst LDS Church members, investigators, and non-members regarding Mormon history, doctrine, and theology2. Support Mormons (and members of other high-demand religions) who are experiencing a religious faith crisis3. Promote healing, growth and community for those who choose to leave the LDS Church or other high demand religions🤝Help us continue to deliver quality content by becoming a donor todayOne-time or recurring donations: https://donorbox.org/mormon-stories?default_interval=m Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/mormonstories Venmo: https://account.venmo.com/u/mormonstories Paypal: https://paypal.me/mormonstories Join this channel to get access to perks:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCx6OgmoqJbOVRq-Lv1P7SzA/joinOur Platforms:🌐Mormon Stories Blog: https://www.mormonstories.org/episodes 🎙️Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/mormonstories ✳️Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4sDzk7dRjODTSEqzZKZJzk?si=148b0efc1ccc4404&nd=1 🍎Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mormon-stories-lds/id312094772 🖼️Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mormstories 📱TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mormonstoriespodcast 🎮Discord: https://discord.com/invite/kuX5p6yyjF Contact us:📧 MormonStories@gmail.com📬PO Box 171085, Salt Lake City, UT 84117

In this episode, we explore 10 common pitfalls people face during religious deconstruction. From navigating relationships and parenting outside of organized religion to the challenges of psychedelics, intellectualism, and identity loss—this is a raw, honest conversation about life after faith. Whether you're just beginning your journey or deep in it, this discussion offers insight, validation, and guidance. Key topics covered: * Why opening your marriage right after leaving religion may backfire * How to provide structure for your kids without religion * The psychedelic trap & chasing spiritual highs * The “missionary phase” of ex-belief systems * Finding meaning beyond religion, without clinging to new dogmas * The lifelong process of deconstruction * And much more, including Gen Z dating, chakras, free will, and dreams Don’t miss her reflections on what she’s learned, what to avoid, and how to move forward with integrity and openness. Show Notes [https://www.mormonstories.org/ten-things-not-to-do-in-faith-deconstruction/] YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_T13dVy3izM] 00:00:00 Introduction 00:04:44 These are things she's learned to be aware of as you are in the mess of religious deconstruction; it’s not a same thing 00:08:04 The first thing you should avoid: Opening your marriage soon after leaving your faith 00:16:32 Second: Providing order and structure for kids 00:22:37 Do kids need religion for structure and order? 00:34:15 Third: Psychedelic chasing 00:39:45 Four: Clinging to new beliefs 00:45:32 Reality is more magical than how we view reality 00:50:28 Five: Avoid the Missionary Phase. Sam Harris says: “No one is more ardent in their atheism than exMormons” 00:57:01 Six: Not recognizing the good in religion  01:04:57 Seven: Underestimating the hard work it is to replace religion 01:12:32 Eight: Underestimating that deconstruction is a lifelong process 01:18:11 Do we have free will?  01:28:32 Nine: Avoid finding new prophets 01:35:45 Ten: Overemphasis on intellectualism 01:42:53 Final thoughts Mormon Stories Thanks Our Generous Donors! Help us continue to deliver quality content by becoming a donor today: * One-time or recurring donation through Donorbox [https://donorbox.org/mormon-stories?default_interval=m] * Support us on Patreon [https://www.patreon.com/mormonstories] * PayPal [https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/mormonstories] * Venmo [https://account.venmo.com/u/mormonstories] Our Platforms: * YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/mormonstories?sub_confirmation=1] * Patreon [https://www.patreon.com/mormonstories] * Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/4sDzk7dRjODTSEqzZKZJzk?si=148b0efc1ccc4404] * Apple Podcasts [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mormon-stories-lds/id312094772] Contact us: MormonStories@gmail.com PO Box 171085, Salt Lake City, UT 84117 Social Media: * Insta: @mormstories [https://www.instagram.com/mormstories] * TikTok: @mormonstoriespodcast [https://www.tiktok.com/@mormonstoriespodcast] * Join the Discord [https://discord.com/invite/kuX5p6yyjF]

After nearly two centuries of strict modesty standards, the Mormon Church has made a historic change—women’s garments now allow for exposed shoulders. In this in-depth panel, Mormon women unpack the significance of this shift. From the garments' Masonic roots and historical designs to the ways they’ve shaped modesty culture, sexuality, and control over women's bodies, this conversation dives deep. The panel also explores the social media response, health concerns, and the ongoing discomfort many women still face. With personal stories, historical context, and commentary on the new designs, this is a must-watch discussion on a topic rarely spoken about so openly. Show Notes [https://www.mormonstories.org/mormon-women-ecstatic-about-garment-changes/] YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k9sg5hDZ16I] 00:00:00 Introductions 00:18:15 Rules around garments 00:26:32 Modesty culture shaped by garments 00:34:10 Church doctrine around garments 00:39:50 Modesty policing among members - “garment checking” 01:06:00 The effect of garments on a couple’s sex life 01:25:00 Photos of the new garment designs 01:32:00 How would they have received this info as an active believer? 01:51:00 Nancy’s final comments 02:02:35 @AndreaFausett video 02:09:28 @VikaFroclieh video 02:18:00 Video of woman walking into church in new garments 02:25:25 Discussion on if tight fitting clothing is okay 02:27:00 “Gen Z is different” 02:28:10 Third @AndreaFausett video 02:332:26 Sharing superchat comments 02:34:54 @NicoleEversten video 02:36:25 Second @VikaFroclieh video 02:42:30 @Haleyrawle video 02:51:20 @Exponentii_blog video (Abby’s video) 02:55:32 Final thoughts Mormon Stories Thanks Our Generous Donors! Help us continue to deliver quality content by becoming a donor today: * One-time or recurring donation through Donorbox [https://donorbox.org/mormon-stories?default_interval=m] * Support us on Patreon [https://www.patreon.com/mormonstories] * PayPal [https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/mormonstories] * Venmo [https://account.venmo.com/u/mormonstories] Our Platforms: * YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/mormonstories?sub_confirmation=1] * Patreon [https://www.patreon.com/mormonstories] * Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/4sDzk7dRjODTSEqzZKZJzk?si=148b0efc1ccc4404] * Apple Podcasts [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mormon-stories-lds/id312094772] Contact us: MormonStories@gmail.com PO Box 171085, Salt Lake City, UT 84117 Social Media: * Insta: @mormstories [https://www.instagram.com/mormstories] * TikTok: @mormonstoriespodcast [https://www.tiktok.com/@mormonstoriespodcast] * Join the Discord [https://discord.com/invite/kuX5p6yyjF]

In Part 2 of our story, Kyle opens up about his life growing up in the Two by Twos faith — from a childhood shaped by pressure to "uphold the family name," to navigating chronic illness and suppressing his passions for music and basketball in order to prioritize church. We talk about the expectations around professing young, the control over dating, marriage, and even parenting — including the harmful encouragement of corporal punishment. As cracks began to form during the COVID-19 pandemic, Kyle and Kari found themselves questioning everything they believed. From hidden doubts, religious trauma, and Kari’s journey of discovering her bisexuality, to the couple’s darkest moments and eventual transformation, this episode dives deep into how they began rebuilding their lives outside the 2x2 world. We also discuss the emerging abuse allegations within the Two by Twos church, the beginnings of their Ex-Two by Two support group, and the broader fight for transparency and accountability in a faith that claims to have no organization at all. This is a raw, emotional, and revealing chapter of their deconstruction journey. Show Notes [https://www.mormonstories.org/taking-down-the-two-by-twos-cult/] YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_T13dVy3izM] 00:00:00 Introduction 00:04:02 Kyle’s background & upbringing as a 2x2 00:16:17 What happens when a child “professes”? 00:29:06 Feeling immense pressure to stick to the gospel 00:34:21 His views on dating at the time 00:44:40 2x2 Wedding 00:48:23 Were told by multiple people the needed to “break their kids” - corporal punishment very big among 2x2 00:56:40 How did 2x2 members look at covid/the vaccine/masks? 01:12:49 Kari told Kyle she was atheist  01:26:24 Kyle had the feeling that he just ran off a cliff 01:37:21 Kari realized, if it feels like the only way out is death, it is not a healthy religion - realized he was giving too much to something that was not giving back 01:46:09 Kari got her ears pierced for the first time - was a very liberating experience  01:47:15 “The Ex 2x2 Support Group” 01:53:38 Highly respected overseer found dead in a hotel room  02:15:25 “If there is no organization, there is no organization to sue” 02:29:55 ‘How do you shut down an organization that doesn't exist?” 02:35:02 How much money does the 2x2 church have? How can it be tracked? 02:42:00 How do they try to gather with ex-members? 02:53:15 Conclusion Mormon Stories Thanks Our Generous Donors! Help us continue to deliver quality content by becoming a donor today: * One-time or recurring donation through Donorbox [https://donorbox.org/mormon-stories?default_interval=m] * Support us on Patreon [https://www.patreon.com/mormonstories] * PayPal [https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/mormonstories] * Venmo [https://account.venmo.com/u/mormonstories] Our Platforms: * YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/mormonstories?sub_confirmation=1] * Patreon [https://www.patreon.com/mormonstories] * Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/4sDzk7dRjODTSEqzZKZJzk?si=148b0efc1ccc4404] * Apple Podcasts [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mormon-stories-lds/id312094772] Contact us: MormonStories@gmail.com PO Box 171085, Salt Lake City, UT 84117 Social Media: * Insta: @mormstories [https://www.instagram.com/mormstories] * TikTok: @mormonstoriespodcast [https://www.tiktok.com/@mormonstoriespodcast] * Join the Discord [https://discord.com/invite/kuX5p6yyjF]