PSR Podcast

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate [http://bebroken.org/donate]. Thank you for your support! ---------- In this episode, I welcome my friend and colleague, Dr. Stephen Cervantes, to our cozy new “barn office” studio for a real and raw conversation about breaking old, harmful habits—especially those rooted in childhood. Together, we explore how these habits form as coping mechanisms, the emotional battles involved in letting them go, and the importance of kindness toward our younger selves.  We discuss faith, the power of emotional connection, and practical steps for real change. Our desire is to help men grow in integrity and relationships. So, we invite you to join us as we encourage each other to pursue healthier, more loving ways of living. For daily thoughts from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org [http://doctormarriage.org]. Topics Covered in this Episode: * Discussion of old and potentially harmful habits developed from childhood experiences. * Exploration of habits as coping mechanisms for emotional and relational challenges. * The emotional impact of habits on personal growth and relationships. * The importance of self-compassion and kindness towards one's younger self. * The struggle involved in breaking free from ingrained habits. * The role of fear and survival in the formation of bad habits. * The necessity of replacing bad habits with healthier alternatives. * The significance of emotional connection and reciprocity in relationships. * The influence of community and shared experiences in overcoming bad habits. * Resources for personal growth and emotional development, particularly for men. More Resources: * Men's Integrity Webinar [https://www.bebroken.org/integrity-webinar-men] (free) * Critical Conversations online course [https://www.purelifeacademy.org/courses/conversations] (free) * 40 Days of Purity for Men [https://www.purelifeacademy.org/courses/40-days-of-purity] Related Podcasts: * Breaking Free from Your Secret Habit [https://vimeo.com/533598142] * Replacing Escaping and Hiding with Healthy Thoughts and Behaviors [https://vimeo.com/451520533] * Breaking Free with Russell Willingham [https://vimeo.com/644025901] ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pure-sex-radio/id174194853] Follow us on our Vimeo Channel [https://vimeo.com/channels/psrpodcast].

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate [http://bebroken.org/donate]. Thank you for your support! ---------- In today’s episode, I chat with Trevor Hanson, a marriage and family therapist who specializes in attachment issues. Trevor opens up about his personal journey, sharing how his own struggles inspired his work.  We discuss the origins and fluidity of attachment styles, practical steps to move from anxious to secure attachment, and the importance of self-compassion in healing. Trevor introduces his TEMPO framework and offers resources to help you take your next step toward secure attachments. I found it to be an insightful, encouraging conversation for anyone wanting to better understand themselves and build healthier relationships. To learn more about Trevor and his resources, visit TheArtofHealingbyTrevor.com [http://theartofhealingbytrevor.com]. Topics Covered in this Episode: * Personal journey of Trevor with anxious attachment * Influence of attachment styles on relationships * Overview of different attachment styles and their origins * Importance of understanding attachment dynamics in personal development * Fluidity of attachment styles and the potential for change * Signs and symptoms of anxious attachment * The cycle of anxious attachment and its impact on behavior * Strategies for moving from anxious to secure attachment * The role of emotional experiences in healing attachment issues * Resources and support for individuals seeking to address attachment-related challenges More Resources: * From Anxious to Secure [https://theartofhealingbytrevor.com/from-anxious-to-secure?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAacPrR00MlLn9gBgexdiClU_JqjoXJiow_MbRfh9ZiboEM8EpM9jtZL_Bb_bBg_aem_bL8HuhLV73rs1cISe9lyCA] (free seminar) * Sex and Anxiety [https://www.purelifeacademy.org/courses/sex-anxiety] (online course) * Know Your Boundaries [https://theartofhealingbytrevor.com/know-your-boundaries] (free workshop) Related Podcasts: * Understanding Your "Flipped Out" Brain [https://vimeo.com/557717640] * Moving from Being Fear-Driven to Love-Driven [https://vimeo.com/798774954] * How Early Development Trauma Shapes Addiction and Recovery [https://vimeo.com/1101635649] ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pure-sex-radio/id174194853] Follow us on our Vimeo Channel [https://vimeo.com/channels/psrpodcast].

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate [http://bebroken.org/donate]. Thank you for your support! ---------- In this episode, we have back with us on the program Dr. Eddie Capparucci, counselor and co-author of Going Deeper for the Betrayed Partner [https://amzn.to/456Ftl5].* Our topic of conversation is to explore the journey of healing from betrayal trauma, especially for women who have experienced infidelity.  Dr. Eddie shares his unique inner child model, helping us understand how past wounds shape our emotional responses today. Together, we discuss practical tools for managing difficult feelings, the importance of self-compassion, and how both partners can support each other on the path to recovery. It’s an honest, hopeful conversation about reclaiming your sense of self and finding healing after deep hurt. For more information about Dr. Eddie and his resources, visit AbundantLifeCounselingGA.com [http://abundantlifecounselingga.com] or search for “Going Deeper books” on Amazon.com. Topics Covered in this Episode: * Definition and significance of betrayal trauma, particularly in marital relationships. * The emotional impact of infidelity on individuals, especially women. * Introduction and explanation of the inner child model as a therapeutic approach. * The connection between unresolved childhood wounds and adult emotional responses. * Differentiation between sexual betrayal and other forms of betrayal (e.g., financial, emotional). * The importance of recognizing and nurturing the inner child for healing. * Strategies for managing emotions and shifting from emotional responses to rational thinking. * Addressing common objections and validating emotions while assessing their accuracy. * Encouragement for both partners in a relationship affected by betrayal to support each other. * Resources and tools for further exploration of betrayal trauma and inner child work. More Resources: * Going Deeper for the Betrayed Partner [https://amzn.to/456Ftl5]* * Going Deeper: How the Inner Child Impacts Your Sexual Addiction [https://amzn.to/4nP90qK]* * Wives Care Online Groups [https://www.bebroken.org/wives-care-groups] Related Podcasts: * Emotional Transformation Therapy for Betrayed Wives [https://vimeo.com/861293413] * Betrayal Trauma Healing [https://vimeo.com/showcase/11609967] (PSR Podcast Bundle) * Helping a Wife Heal [https://vimeo.com/389332700] *This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link. ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pure-sex-radio/id174194853] Follow us on our Vimeo Channel [https://vimeo.com/channels/psrpodcast].

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate [http://bebroken.org/donate]. Thank you for your support! ---------- In this episode, I sit down with one of our favorite guests, Cat Etherington from the Naked Truth Project to explore how early developmental trauma shapes addiction and relationships. Cat shares her personal recovery story and explains how childhood experiences—both big and small—can impact our sense of self and coping strategies.  We discuss the importance of understanding both our emotional memories and objective truths, and why healing means digging deep into our pasts. Together, we encourage listeners to move beyond blame and embrace the journey toward genuine healing and freedom. Visit NakedTruthProject.com [http://nakedtruthproject.com] for resources from Cat and her team. Topics Covered in this Episode: * Impact of early developmental trauma on addiction and relationships * Definition and categorization of developmental trauma: "big T" and "little t" traumas * Coping mechanisms developed in response to unresolved trauma * Connection between developmental trauma and addiction behaviors * Importance of identity formation in recovery from addiction * Navigating subjective versus objective realities in parenting and child development * The role of emotional experiences in shaping self-perception and behavior * Healing processes involving revisiting childhood experiences and narratives * Moving beyond blame to understand personal experiences and emotions * Encouragement for confronting past traumas as a pathway to healing and recovery More Resources: * Find a Counselor [https://www.bebroken.org/counselors] * Intensive for Men [https://www.bebroken.org/gateway-to-freedom] * Intensive for Women [https://www.bethesdaworkshops.org/workshops/healing-for-women/] Related Podcasts: * The Interplay of Body, Mind, and Spirit in Porn Addiction Recovery [https://vimeo.com/1090577158] * Addressing Childhood Trauma in Men [https://vimeo.com/872973742] * The Immanuel Approach in Recovery [https://vimeo.com/740031357] ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pure-sex-radio/id174194853] Follow us on our Vimeo Channel [https://vimeo.com/channels/psrpodcast].

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate [http://bebroken.org/donate]. Thank you for your support! ---------- In this episode, I sit down with Matt Cline from Restored Ministries to talk about what it means to have a Jesus-centered sexuality. We explore how inviting Jesus into our struggles with sexual brokenness—like addiction, infidelity, or shame—can lead to real healing and freedom.  Matt shares practical steps, personal stories, and encouragement for anyone feeling stuck, reminding us that Jesus offers hope, grace, and transformation. We also discuss the importance of open conversations in the church and share resources for those seeking support on their journey to wholeness. To learn more about Matt and the resources from his ministry, visit RestoredMinistries.ca [http://restoredministries.ca]. Topics Covered in this Episode: * Concept of "Jesus-centered sexuality" * Importance of placing Jesus at the core of sexual desires and experiences * Focus on helping individuals overcome sexual brokenness, including pornography addiction and infidelity * The role of emotional trauma in sexual struggles and the need for healing through a relationship with Jesus * Spiritual understanding of sexuality versus worldly perspectives * The significance of inviting Jesus into moments of temptation and desire * Practical steps for cultivating a Jesus-centered life, particularly in sexuality * The impact of shame and guilt on pursuing a Jesus-centered approach * The promise of freedom and hope in overcoming sexual sin * Resources and support available for individuals seeking healing and wholeness through faith More Resources: * 40 Days of Purity for Men [https://www.purelifeacademy.org/courses/40-days-of-purity] (online course) * 40 Days of Purity for Women [https://www.purelifeacademy.org/courses/40-days-for-women] (online course) * Church & Sexuality Survey [https://www.restoredministries.ca/survey] Related Podcasts: * Overcoming Shame and Embracing Your True Identity [https://vimeo.com/685967535] * Can the Church Be a Safe Place for Healing and Transformation? [https://vimeo.com/470260645] * The Power of Community [https://vimeo.com/415195497] ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pure-sex-radio/id174194853] Follow us on our Vimeo Channel [https://vimeo.com/channels/psrpodcast].