Rooted and Rising Healing After Betrayal
This question has the power to change how you show up in your healing: "What message does the way I show up in my relationship give to my husband about the status of the relationship?" If you're healing from betrayal trauma, the honest answer to that question might be uncomfortable. In this episode of Rooted and Rising Healing, we're talking about one of the most important — and most misunderstood — pieces of betrayal recovery: learning to say what you mean, mean what you say, and actually follow through. This is not about being harsh or issuing ultimatums. This is about becoming a woman whose words carry the full weight of her truth. If you've ever said something in anger and not followed through, stayed quiet while resentment built, or wondered why he doesn't take your words seriously — this episode will help you understand what's happening and what to do about it. This episode is for you if: * You find yourself saying things out of fear or anger but not following through * You've been suppressing your pain to keep the peace — and you're exhausted * You confuse boundaries with rules and feel powerless when he doesn't follow them * You're ready to stop reacting and start responding from a regulated, grounded place * You want to rebuild your voice, your self-trust, and your sense of personal power after betrayal Connect With Me + Continue Your Healing If today’s episode resonated with you, you don’t have to walk the healing journey after betrayal alone. I create trauma-informed resources, conversations, and learning experiences to support individuals and couples navigating infidelity, betrayal trauma, and relational repair. Here are a few ways to stay connected and continue your healing: Join me at a Retreat or Intensive If you’re craving deeper, in-person support and embodied healing, I’m helping facilitate upcoming experiences created specifically for betrayed partners. If you're ready for a deeper connection with your daughter(s), complete this interest list [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1Xi1vUJPyHfeFZx1XnWNwXmG7K6BnEDNIqSxUjsPNeYw/viewform?edit_requested=true] for more information about my upcoming retreat - Becoming Together: A Mother Daughter Retreat - hosted by myself and my two daughters in Sedona, Arizona on September 8 - 12th. Email Hali [haliroderickcoaching@gmail.com] to join the [https://docs.google.com/document/d/18-GJm84wM0kGzwEOw47fl91WVT-Y_Z3NMlpNA9bBzL0/edit?usp=sharing] Interest list for an upcoming course for parents called Intentional Parenting After Betrayal [https://docs.google.com/document/d/18-GJm84wM0kGzwEOw47fl91WVT-Y_Z3NMlpNA9bBzL0/edit?usp=sharing], hosted by Hali and her daughter, Morgan Ellsworth. Free Resources & Downloads Access free tools, guided practices, and educational resources designed to support nervous system regulation, self-trust, boundaries, and clarity after betrayal. 👉A Mini Guide to Mindful Healing After Betrayal [https://rootedandrisinghealing.mykajabi.com/pl/2148715906] 👉Your First Steps to Rising After Betrayal [https://rootedandrisinghealing.mykajabi.com/pl/2148714679] Upcoming Course: Reclaiming You After Betrayal If you’re ready for deeper guidance in a structured, supportive format, I am offering a course focused on healing after betrayal, rebuilding self-trust, and grounding into your values and identity—without rushing decisions about staying or leaving. This course is ideal for those who want support without individual coaching and at a pace that honors their nervous system. 👉 Join the Reclaiming You Waitlist to be the first to Register! [https://rootedandrisinghealing.mykajabi.com/rooted-and-rising-course] Listen to My Other Podcast If you are still in your relationship—or in the process of discerning whether you want to stay—I invite you to also follow my podcast, Choosing to Stay After Infidelity and Betrayal, where I speak to both partners about healing, accountability, and rebuilding trust. 👉 Choosing to Stay After Infidelity and Betrayal [https://open.spotify.com/show/5zV0oep3zEx178Vrcn0xQM] Join My Newsletter Stay connected through my newsletter, where I share reflections, trauma-informed insights, and updates on upcoming courses, workshops, retreats, and live experiences. 👉 Rooted and Rising Weekly [https://rootedandrisinghealing.mykajabi.com/rooted-and-rising-weekly] Connect With Me Between Episodes Join me on social media for continued conversation, encouragement, and resources between podcast episodes. 👉 Instagram: @rootedandrising.healing [https://www.instagram.com/rootedandrising.healing?igsh=MTJkY3FndW4wemc2aw%3D%3D&utm_source=qr] 👉 Facebook: Rooted and Rising Healing with Hali Roderick [https://www.facebook.com/share/1BKvTcoAKu/?mibextid=wwXIfr] 👉 Website: rootedandrisinghealing.mykajabi.com [https://rootedandrisinghealing.mykajabi.com/]
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