So You Think You Can Date

Podcast by Nicki Pappas

English

Health & personal development

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About So You Think You Can Date

So You Think You Can Date is a podcast for those ready to do dating differently. I'm Nicki Pappas, a queer, poly, millennial mom who is dating again for the first time in 15 years. You don't have to hold the identities I hold to benefit from the life experiences I share here. Let's talk about communication, connection, and consent, regardless of what type of relationship you are in or looking for. With vulnerability, authenticity, and curiosity, I'm exploring unfamiliar terrain and would love for you to join me.

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10 episodes

10. So You Had a Bad Date

In the tenth (and potentially final) episode of So You Think You Can Date, I talk about bad dates. Resources "8. So You Want to Stop F*cking with F*ckboys" episode [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/8-so-you-want-to-stop-f-cking-with-f-ckboys/id1805343926?i=1000708824412] ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠“Coming Alive” Substack⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://comingalive.substack.com/] ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Coming of Age and Coming Out: Stories of Repressed and Reclaimed Sexual Desire⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [http://nickipappas.com/product-page/coming-of-age] by Nicki Pappas - Available now! With your purchase of a signed copy, you will receive a free download of the “Come Alive” guide in your inbox! Connect with Nicki Pappas Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠nickipappas.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.nickipappas.com/] IG: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@broadeningthenarrative⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/broadeningthenarrative/] YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠youtube.com/@SoYouThinkYouCanDatePodcast [https://www.youtube.com/@SoYouThinkYouCanDatePodcast]

31 May 2025 - 15 min

9. So You’ve Been Stood Up

In the ninth episode of So You Think You Can Date, I talk about being stood up for a date. Resources ⁠⁠⁠⁠“Coming Alive” Substack⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://comingalive.substack.com/] ⁠⁠⁠⁠Coming of Age and Coming Out: Stories of Repressed and Reclaimed Sexual Desire⁠⁠⁠⁠ [http://nickipappas.com/product-page/coming-of-age] by Nicki Pappas - Pending release June 2025. With your preorder purchase, you will receive a free download of the “Come Alive” guide in your inbox! Connect with Nicki Pappas Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠nickipappas.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.nickipappas.com/] IG: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@broadeningthenarrative⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/broadeningthenarrative/] YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠youtube.com/@SoYouThinkYouCanDatePodcast [https://www.youtube.com/@SoYouThinkYouCanDatePodcast]

24 May 2025 - 6 min

8. So You Want to Stop F*cking with F*ckboys

In the eighth episode of So You Think You Can Date, I talk about how to stop f*cking with f*ckboys. Resources ⁠⁠⁠“Coming Alive” Substack⁠⁠⁠ [https://comingalive.substack.com/] ⁠⁠⁠Coming of Age and Coming Out: Stories of Repressed and Reclaimed Sexual Desire⁠⁠⁠ [http://nickipappas.com/product-page/coming-of-age] by Nicki Pappas - Pending release June 2025. With your preorder purchase, you will receive a free download of the “Come Alive” guide in your inbox! Connect with Nicki Pappas Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠nickipappas.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.nickipappas.com/] IG: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@broadeningthenarrative⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/broadeningthenarrative/] YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠youtube.com/@SoYouThinkYouCanDatePodcast [https://www.youtube.com/@SoYouThinkYouCanDatePodcast]

17 May 2025 - 12 min

7. So You Want to Flirt

In the seventh episode of So You Think You Can Date, I talk about flirting. More specifically, flirting responsibly for the fun of it. Resources "Uses of the Erotic: The Erotic as Power" [https://www.centraleurasia.org/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/audre_lorde_cool-beans.pdf] by Audre Lorde ⁠⁠“Coming Alive” Substack⁠⁠ [https://comingalive.substack.com/] ⁠⁠Coming of Age and Coming Out: Stories of Repressed and Reclaimed Sexual Desire⁠⁠ [http://nickipappas.com/product-page/coming-of-age] by Nicki Pappas - Pending release June 2025. With your preorder purchase, you will receive a free download of the “Come Alive” guide in your inbox! Connect with Nicki Pappas Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠nickipappas.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.nickipappas.com/] IG: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@broadeningthenarrative⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/broadeningthenarrative/] YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠youtube.com/@SoYouThinkYouCanDatePodcast [https://www.youtube.com/@SoYouThinkYouCanDatePodcast]

11 May 2025 - 19 min

6. So They Think You’re Intimidating

In the sixth episode of So You Think You Can Date, I talk about when the people you are dating or are interested in dating think that you are intimidating. Resources ⁠“Coming Alive” Substack⁠ [https://comingalive.substack.com/] ⁠Coming of Age and Coming Out: Stories of Repressed and Reclaimed Sexual Desire⁠ [http://nickipappas.com/product-page/coming-of-age] by Nicki Pappas - Pending release June 2025. With your preorder purchase, you will receive a free download of the “Come Alive” guide in your inbox! Connect with Nicki Pappas Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠nickipappas.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.nickipappas.com/] IG: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@broadeningthenarrative⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/broadeningthenarrative/] YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠youtube.com/@SoYouThinkYouCanDatePodcast [https://www.youtube.com/@SoYouThinkYouCanDatePodcast]

3 May 2025 - 8 min

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