The Cliteral Truth Podcast

87. Sex Life Diagnostic: What's Working, What's Not (and What to Do About It)

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2392973/fan_mail/new] In this episode, we break down the three most common dynamics couples fall into: high quantity / low quality, high quality / low quantity, and low quality / low quantity sex. Then we give you a clear, honest diagnosis of what might actually be going on beneath the surface—and how to start shifting it. This isn’t about blame. It’s about awareness, communication, and learning how to create a sex life that actually feels good for you and your partner(s). If you’ve ever felt stuck, disconnected, or just “off” in your sexual relationship(s)… this conversation is for you.

86. The Ownership of Women Pt 2: Cringey Marriage Edition

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2392973/fan_mail/new] In this episode, we dive headfirst into the surprisingly dark and deeply patriarchal origins of modern marriage traditions. From why the “best man” was originally armed, to the real purpose of bridesmaids, to the uncomfortable history behind asking a father for his daughter’s hand in marriage—we unpack the cringey, controlling roots hidden beneath customs many people still celebrate today.  This episode challenges outdated ideas about love, ownership, gender roles, autonomy, and partnership while exploring what conscious, modern relationships can look like instead. If you’re into relationship psychology, feminism, marriage history, sex-positive conversations, and questioning social conditioning, this one’s for you.

85. Developing Your Sexual Identity

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2392973/fan_mail/new] What does it really mean to develop your sexual identity—and why do so many people skip this step? In this episode, we explore how your sexual identity isn’t something you find… it’s something you build. And you can’t build it without knowing who you are first. We talk about the connection between self-awareness, autonomy, and sexual freedom—why understanding your desires, boundaries, and values is essential before (and during) any relationship. Because if you don’t know what you want, it’s easy to default to someone else’s script.

84. Novelty

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2392973/fan_mail/new] What keeps desire alive long-term: endless novelty or true sexual compatibility? In this episode, we unpack the tension between chasing new partners, keeping options open, and building a stable relationship where attraction, chemistry, and connection can deepen over time. We also explore how committed couples can create sexual novelty inside the relationship through play, curiosity, communication, and intentional growth. If you’ve ever wondered whether passion comes from newness or from knowing the right person deeply, this one’s for you.

83. How Do You Know She Actually Likes Sex?

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2392973/fan_mail/new] Is she genuinely into sex… or is it just a means to a different end? In this episode, we dig into the classic sex-for-commitment dynamic (what we call the Relationship/Sex Trope™) and flip the script. If she’s leading with sex, how do you know it’s real desire—and not currency to secure a relationship? And if you’re leading with commitment, are you offering it authentically… or trading it to get what you want? We use men and women in a hetero dynamic to make our point, but the concept is the same for any realtionship type or dynamic.  We break down the subtle cues, mixed signals, and hard truths behind sexual chemistry vs. strategy—so you can stop guessing and start seeing what’s actually there.