The Lape Soetan Audio Show

#96: How to make consent sexy and cool

HOW TO MAKE CONSENT SEXY AND COOL Sex is more fun when all involved are willing participants.  Even if the sex involves role-playing or fantasy-ideations like reluctance or restraint, it can only be fully-enjoyed if everyone involved has agreed to participate in the act or acts to follow. Sex never has to be about manipulation or force.  Fun, exciting sex can still be achieved when you get consent from the other person.  Consent can be cool and sexy.  Today, I’m going to be giving ideas that hopefully show that that is the case. Get details on my various coaching options and their prices ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://bit.ly/lapelovecoachpcdb]. I have a variety of e-courses to help you attract the person you want, communicate better with your partner, move on from past relationships and more on my blog. Check them out ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://bit.ly/lapescoursespcdb]. Check out my e-books on how to meet The One, living happily as an introvert woman, how to enjoy being single and more ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://bit.ly/lapesbookspcdb]. Find out how to reduce your IBS symptoms ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://bit.ly/lhypcdb]. Get regular tips on love and relationships by following me on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/lapesoetan/]. // WHAT TO DO NEXT ▸ Subscribe to my YouTube channel ⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠ [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠bit.ly/subscribetolapeonyoutube]. ▸ Check out my blog ⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠ [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.bit.ly/lapesoetan⁠]. // CONNECT WITH ME ON ▸Instagram|⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/lapesoetan⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/lapesoetan/] ▸ Twitter | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠twitter.com/lapesoetan⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [http://twitter.com/lapesoetan] ▸ YouTube | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.youtube.com/lapesoetan⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [http://www.youtube.com/lapesoetan] ▸ Facebook | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.facebook.com/lapesoetan⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [http://www.facebook.com/lapesoetan] ▸ Pinterest | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠pinterest.com/lapesoetan/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [http://pinterest.com/lapesoetan/] #relationshippodcast #relationships #consent #sexualconsent #dating #relationshipcoach #relationshipcoaching

#95: How to find the right person

If you’ve been searching high and low, online and in reallife for the right person for you but haven’t had much success then you’re in luck because in this episode of my podcast, I share my top tips on how to find the right romantic partner for you. Get details on my various coaching options and their prices ⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://bit.ly/lapelovecoachpcdb]. I have a variety of e-courses to help you attract the person you want, communicate better with your partner, move on from past relationships and more on my blog. Check them out ⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://bit.ly/lapescoursespcdb]. Check out my e-books on how to meet The One, living happily as an introvert woman, how to enjoy being single and more ⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://bit.ly/lapesbookspcdb]. Find out how to reduce your IBS symptoms ⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://bit.ly/lhypcdb]. Get regular tips on love and relationships by following me on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/lapesoetan/]. // WHAT TO DO NEXT ▸ Subscribe to my YouTube channel ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠ [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠bit.ly/subscribetolapeonyoutube]. ▸ Check out my blog ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠ [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.bit.ly/lapesoetan⁠]. // CONNECT WITH ME ON ▸Instagram|⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/lapesoetan⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/lapesoetan/] ▸ Twitter | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠twitter.com/lapesoetan⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [http://twitter.com/lapesoetan] ▸ YouTube | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.youtube.com/lapesoetan⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [http://www.youtube.com/lapesoetan] ▸ Facebook | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.facebook.com/lapesoetan⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [http://www.facebook.com/lapesoetan] ▸ Pinterest | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠pinterest.com/lapesoetan/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [http://pinterest.com/lapesoetan/] #relationshippodcast #relationships #spotifypodcast #spotify #dating #relationshipcoach #relationshipcoaching

#94: Coping with Christmas alone

Christmas may be the season to be jolly but if you’re single then, you can feel anything but.  If being in a relationship is priority number one for you and you’re single at Christmas, the season can be tough.  But! I’m here to make things easier for you.  In this episode of my podcast, I share tips on how to cope with Christmas if you’re single and don’t want to be. Enjoy! Get details on my various coaching options and their prices ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠ [https://bit.ly/lapelovecoachpcdb]. I have a variety of e-courses to help you attract the person you want, communicate better with your partner, move on from past relationships and more on my blog. Check them out ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠ [https://bit.ly/lapescoursespcdb]. Check out my e-books on how to meet The One, living happily as an introvert woman, how to enjoy being single and more ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠ [https://bit.ly/lapesbookspcdb]. Find out how to reduce your IBS symptoms ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠ [https://bit.ly/lhypcdb]. Get regular tips on love and relationships by following me on Instagram ⁠⁠here⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/lapesoetan/]. // WHAT TO DO NEXT ▸ Subscribe to my YouTube channel ⁠⁠here⁠⁠ [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠bit.ly/subscribetolapeonyoutube]. ▸ Check out my blog ⁠⁠here⁠⁠ [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.bit.ly/lapesoetan⁠]. // CONNECT WITH ME ON ▸Instagram|⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/lapesoetan⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/lapesoetan/] ▸ Twitter | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠twitter.com/lapesoetan⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [http://twitter.com/lapesoetan] ▸ YouTube | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.youtube.com/lapesoetan⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [http://www.youtube.com/lapesoetan] ▸ Facebook | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.facebook.com/lapesoetan⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [http://www.facebook.com/lapesoetan] ▸ Pinterest | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠pinterest.com/lapesoetan/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [http://pinterest.com/lapesoetan/] #relationshippodcast #relationships #spotifypodcast #spotify #christmas #christmas2025 #holidays #theholidays

#93: What it means when he says, "You're too good for me."

This is what it means when he says, "You're too good for me." Get details on my various coaching options and their prices ⁠⁠here⁠⁠ [https://bit.ly/lapelovecoachpcdb]. I have a variety of e-courses to help you attract the person you want, communicate better with your partner, move on from past relationships and more on my blog. Check them out ⁠⁠here⁠⁠ [https://bit.ly/lapescoursespcdb]. Check out my e-books on how to meet The One, living happily as an introvert woman, how to enjoy being single and more ⁠⁠here⁠⁠ [https://bit.ly/lapesbookspcdb]. Find out how to reduce your IBS symptoms ⁠⁠here⁠⁠ [https://bit.ly/lhypcdb]. Get regular tips on love and relationships by following me on Instagram ⁠here⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/lapesoetan/]. // WHAT TO DO NEXT ▸ Subscribe to my YouTube channel ⁠here⁠ [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠bit.ly/subscribetolapeonyoutube]. ▸ Check out my blog ⁠here⁠ [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.bit.ly/lapesoetan⁠]. // CONNECT WITH ME ON ▸Instagram| ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/lapesoetan⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/lapesoetan/] ▸ Twitter | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠twitter.com/lapesoetan⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [http://twitter.com/lapesoetan] ▸ YouTube | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.youtube.com/lapesoetan⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [http://www.youtube.com/lapesoetan] ▸ Facebook | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.facebook.com/lapesoetan⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [http://www.facebook.com/lapesoetan] ▸ Pinterest | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠pinterest.com/lapesoetan/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [http://pinterest.com/lapesoetan/] #relationshippodcast #relationships #spotifypodcast #spotify

#92: How to find love as an introvert woman

HOW TO FIND LOVE AS AN INTROVERT WOMAN Get details on my various coaching options and their prices ⁠here⁠ [https://bit.ly/lapelovecoachpcdb]. I have a variety of e-courses to help you attract the person you want, communicate better with your partner, move on from past relationships and more on my blog. Check them out ⁠here⁠ [https://bit.ly/lapescoursespcdb]. Check out my e-books on how to meet The One, living happily as an introvert woman, how to enjoy being single and more ⁠here⁠ [https://bit.ly/lapesbookspcdb]. Find out how to reduce your IBS symptoms ⁠here⁠ [https://bit.ly/lhypcdb]. Get regular tips on love and relationships by following me on Instagram here [https://www.instagram.com/lapesoetan/]. // WHAT TO DO NEXT ▸ Subscribe to my YouTube channel here [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠bit.ly/subscribetolapeonyoutube]. ▸ Check out my blog here [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.bit.ly/lapesoetan⁠]. // CONNECT WITH ME ON ▸ Instagram | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/lapesoetan⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [http://instagram.com/lapesoetan] ▸ Twitter | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠twitter.com/lapesoetan⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [http://twitter.com/lapesoetan] ▸ YouTube | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.youtube.com/lapesoetan⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [http://www.youtube.com/lapesoetan] ▸ Facebook | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.facebook.com/lapesoetan⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [http://www.facebook.com/lapesoetan] ▸ Pinterest | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠pinterest.com/lapesoetan/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [http://pinterest.com/lapesoetan/] #relationshippodcast #spotifypodcast #spotify