Ep. 25 - Raising Little Learners with Melissa Markus, The Kindergarten Mom
In this heartfelt and practical episode, Frances sits down with educator, creator, and content powerhouse Melissa Markus, known online as The Kindergarten Mom. A former dance friend turned inspiring voice for parents and teachers, Melissa shares how her platform began, what continues to drive her, and why the kindergarten years are some of the most important in a child’s development.
Together, they explore the beauty and complexity of early childhood education, the power of movement and routine, the importance of advocating for children, and what it means to truly meet kids where they are. This conversation is filled with wisdom for parents, educators, and anyone who wants to better understand how young children learn, grow, and thrive.
Show notes
In this episode of The Playbase, Frances reconnects with old friend Melissa Markus, educator, creator, and the voice behind The Kindergarten Mom.
Melissa shares how her online platform was born out of a season of change, motherhood, and a deep desire to continue contributing meaningfully to families and children outside the classroom. What started as a way to share ideas and support others grew into a trusted space where parents and teachers can find practical resources, honest insight, and encouragement.
Frances and Melissa dive into the early years of childhood development, why kindergarten matters so much, how movement supports learning, and what teachers are really balancing behind the scenes. They also talk about advocacy, communication between parents and educators, and how to support children without forcing them into a box.
This episode is a beautiful reminder that children do not all learn the same way, and that when we slow down, observe, and respond with intention, we create space for them to thrive.
In this episode, we talk about:
* How Melissa created The Kindergarten Mom
* The joy and challenges of being both a teacher and a mom
* Why the kindergarten years are so foundational
* Play based learning and the role of explicit instruction
* How movement supports attention, regulation, and learning
* Why calm corners and flexible classroom supports matter
* The importance of parent teacher partnership
* How to advocate for your child respectfully and effectively
* Looking beyond behavior to understand what a child truly needs
Key takeaways
* Kindergarten is not just babysitting. It is a deeply important stage of development
* Movement is not extra. It is often essential for learning and regulation
* Children do better when they feel safe, supported, and understood
* A child’s behavior is communication, not a character flaw
* Parents know their children deeply, and respectful advocacy matters
* Teachers and parents work best when they see each other as teammates
* There is no one right way to learn, engage, or grow
Memorable themes from the episode
Meeting kids where they are
Not every child learns, sits, processes, or participates in the same way, and that is okay.
Regulate before you react
Children need adults who can pause, zoom out, and respond with intention.
Support over shame
The goal is never to force children into a mold, but to understand them and give them the tools they need to thrive.
Connect with Melissa Markus
📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thekindergartenmom/
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