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EP 18 | When Stepmom Becomes The Enemy — Loyalty Binds and Parental Alienation Explained

1 h 2 min · 29 de abr de 2026
Portada del episodio EP 18 | When Stepmom Becomes The Enemy — Loyalty Binds and Parental Alienation Explained

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What happens when the person who is supposed to co-parent with you becomes your biggest source of conflict and your stepkids are caught in the middle? In this episode, Lina Shine sits down with Nika Chadwick — high-conflict coparenting and stepfamily dynamics coach — for one of the most honest conversations we have had on this podcast. Because loyalty binds and bio mom conflict are two of the most painful and least talked about realities of blended family life. And if you are living it right now, you already know how isolating it can feel. Nika brings her expertise in high-conflict coparenting and stepfamily dynamics to break down what is actually happening when your stepkids seem torn between loving you and pulling away — and what it looks like when bio mom's conflict with you starts showing up in the children.

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What happens when the person who is supposed to co-parent with you becomes your biggest source of conflict and your stepkids are caught in the middle? In this episode, Lina Shine sits down with Nika Chadwick — high-conflict coparenting and stepfamily dynamics coach — for one of the most honest conversations we have had on this podcast. Because loyalty binds and bio mom conflict are two of the most painful and least talked about realities of blended family life. And if you are living it right now, you already know how isolating it can feel. Nika brings her expertise in high-conflict coparenting and stepfamily dynamics to break down what is actually happening when your stepkids seem torn between loving you and pulling away — and what it looks like when bio mom's conflict with you starts showing up in the children.

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