This Naked Mind Podcast

Have you ever felt shame after drinking? Linda spent years trying to align her desire for authenticity with her ongoing battle with alcohol. Despite practicing yoga, meditation, and promoting holistic health, alcohol continued to be her way of coping, even though she felt deep cognitive dissonance. On the outside, she helped others find balance; on the inside, she struggled with shame after drinking. Her people-pleasing nature kept her in this tug-of-war. It wasn’t until she embraced The PATH that she found clarity, hope, and the courage to stop hiding. In this episode, Linda shares how she stopped feeling shame after drinking and began to embrace her true self. In this episode, Annie and Linda discuss : Struggling with authenticity while practicing yoga and holistic health, yet secretly battling alcohol Parenting her parents and siblings—Linda felt responsible for holding her family together Being encouraged to drink by her father, who believed alcohol was essential for connection People-pleasing tendencies that kept Linda stuck in unhealthy cycles, including her reliance on alcohol Drinking to fit in—how alcohol became a way to mask feelings of insecurity and inadequacy Feeling shame after drinking—how Linda struggled with self-judgment and guilt Joining The PATH and finding clarity, hope, and self-compassion as she shifted her mindset The shift from people-pleasing to setting boundaries, and how it helped her regain control Rediscovering her true self after years of using alcohol to cope Embracing emotional connection over numbing with alcohol, and how it deepened her relationships And much more... Episode links: This Naked Mind Institute - jointnmi.com [http://jointnmi.com] Good Vibration Coaching - https://www.goodvibrationcoaching.com/ [https://www.goodvibrationcoaching.com/] Related Episodes: How do I handle cravings and people pleasing? - Reader Question - E 272 - https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-272-reader-question-how-do-i-handle-cravings-and-people-pleasing/ [https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-272-reader-question-how-do-i-handle-cravings-and-people-pleasing/]  Naked Life Story – Where are they now? – Halima - E 703 - https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-703-naked-life-story-hayley-where-are-they-now-halima/ [https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-703-naked-life-story-hayley-where-are-they-now-halima/] The Cost of Fitting In - Alcohol Freedom Coaching - E785 - https://thisnakedmind.com/the-cost-of-fitting-in-alcohol-freedom-coaching-e785/ [https://thisnakedmind.com/the-cost-of-fitting-in-alcohol-freedom-coaching-e785/] Ready to take the next step on your journey?  Visit https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources [https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources] for free resources, programs, and more. Until next week, stay curious!

What if choosing compassion to change was the first step to breaking free from alcohol’s grip?  Many people struggle with shifting their relationship with alcohol, caught in a cycle of guilt and frustration. Coaches Zoe and Onowa share their journeys of transformation, where compassion, understanding, and questioning beliefs were key to creating lasting change. In this episode, they dive into how shifting from judgment to compassion helped them—and others—rewrite their stories and choose a new path toward freedom. In this episode, Coach Zoe and Coach Pam discuss: Layering of escapism- how using substances - cigarettes, alcohol, and recreational drugs, progressively "layered on" as she experienced more emotional pain and challenges, seeking to escapeHow the alcohol industry only portrays the "fun" and "glamorous" side of drinkingThe shock of not being able to stop drinking when she truly wanted toFalling in love with the ACT TechniqueGlimmers of hope from meditationEmbracing her authentic self…and more In this episode, Coach Onowa and Coach Pam discuss: Discovering the "third option" to freedomShifting the focus from "What's wrong with me?" to questioning alcohol itselfFinding freedom from alcohol's mental real estateUncovering inherited beliefsThe power of choosing compassion to changeEmbracing coaching as moving forwardThe healing opportunity of a judgment-free zoneThe safety in shared beliefs, unique stories…and more Coach Zoe is a Certified Naked Mind Senior Coach who brings her experience and understanding to help with the tricky parts of life’s big changes. Her coaching gives you an enjoyable, light-hearted, and safe environment to effortlessly take back control of alcohol so you can feel better physically, mentally, and spiritually. Zoe taught Pilates for 15 years. She has four adult children and more animals than the Ark ever had. Learn more about Coach Zoe: https://thisnakedmind.com/coach/zoe-ewart/  [https://thisnakedmind.com/coach/zoe-ewart/] Coach Onowa is a certified TNM Senior Coach with over 20 years of experience in teaching and coaching. She believes that self-compassion is key to creating a balanced relationship with alcohol. As a mom, Onowa is dedicated to healthy eating and living, and she helps other health-conscious moms take control of their relationship with alcohol and become their best selves. Learn more about Coach Onowa: https://thisnakedmind.com/coach/onowa-bjella/ [https://thisnakedmind.com/coach/onowa-bjella/] Episode links: nakedmindpath.com

Trigger Warning: This episode includes mention of pregnancy and child loss. What if finding fulfillment without alcohol was simpler than you think?  Cheryl first shared her alcohol-free journey in 2018, and today, five years later, she returns to talk about how living without alcohol continues to reshape her life. After years of using alcohol to cope with daily stress, Cheryl has learned how to truly embrace her health and happiness. In this episode, she shares the powerful lessons she’s learned about breaking free from alcohol’s grip and how we can all live with more intention and fulfillment, without needing a drink to get through life. In this episode, Coach Hayley and Cheryl discuss: How Cheryl shifted from daily drinking to living alcohol-free The impact of using alcohol to cope with stress and daily challenges Cheryl’s perspective on finding fulfillment without alcohol in family life The importance of living with intention and purpose instead of just pushing through life How alcohol’s role as a "reward" can lead to unhealthy patterns and how to break them How letting go of the idea of "forever" with alcohol can lead to lasting change The power of self-compassion and understanding in building a healthier relationship with alcohol Learning to move forward, even after returning to drinking, without judgment Why it’s important to model alcohol-free living for children and future generations The difference between quitting alcohol and finding true joy and fulfillment without it The benefits of not relying on alcohol for stress relief, relaxation, or self-care And other topics… Episode links: Cheryl’s Original Episode - https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-263-naked-life-story-cheryl/ [https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-263-naked-life-story-cheryl/] Cheryl’s Book: https://amzn.to/402gJrx [https://amzn.to/402gJrx] Cheryl’s Podcast: https://thehomeschoolhowto.com/ [https://thehomeschoolhowto.com/] Related Episodes: Why do I reward being alcohol free with a drink? - Reader Questions - E358 - https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-358-reader-question-why-do-i-reward-being-alcohol-free-with-a-drink/ [https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-358-reader-question-why-do-i-reward-being-alcohol-free-with-a-drink/] What can I substitute for alcohol to feel good? - Reader Questions - E478 - https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-478-reader-question-what-can-i-substitute-for-alcohol-to-feel-good/ [https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-478-reader-question-what-can-i-substitute-for-alcohol-to-feel-good/] How Drinking Again After a Break Helped Angela Find Clarity - Where Are They Now – Angela - E808 - https://thisnakedmind.com/drinking-again-after-a-break-e808/ [https://thisnakedmind.com/drinking-again-after-a-break-e808/] Ready to take the next step on your journey?  Visit https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources [https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources] for free resources, programs, and more. Until next week, stay curious! BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month at ⁠⁠http://BetterHelp.com/NAKEDMIND|BetterHelp.com/NAKEDMIND⁠⁠ [http://betterhelp.com/NAKEDMIND%7CBetterHelp.com/NAKEDMIND] Quince: For your next trip, treat yourself to the luxe upgrades you deserve from Quince. Go to ⁠⁠http://Quince.com/naked|Quince.com/naked⁠⁠ [http://quince.com/naked%7CQuince.com/naked] for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns Hungryroot: Get 40% off your first box + a free item for life at ⁠⁠http://Hungryroot.com/mind|Hungryroot.com/mind⁠⁠ [http://hungryroot.com/mind%7CHungryroot.com/mind] with code mind Shopify: Start your $1/month trial at ⁠⁠http://Shopify.com/mind|Shopify.com/mind⁠ [http://shopify.com/mind%7CShopify.com/mind]

What’s the secret to building genuine connections without alcohol? Delia and Chris both started their alcohol-free journeys in The Path with the common goal of connecting with others. For Delia, it was about fitting in and feeling accepted in social situations, while for Chris, it was overcoming deep emotional suppression and learning to trust others. In this episode, they share how they are learning to build genuine connections without alcohol, face their fears, and embrace emotional vulnerability. Tune in to hear how they’re navigating this journey and uncovering the truth about real connection. In Delia’s session: Confronting the belief that alcohol is essential for connection and fitting in Struggling with feelings of worthiness and self-acceptance in sobriety The fear of being the "odd one out" or disappointing others by not drinking Realizing alcohol dulls personality and hinders true presence Identifying superficial conversations fueled by alcohol versus genuine connection Acknowledging moments of true belonging and comfort without alcohol Reframing social drinking as simply "liquid in a glass" Standing in her truth about choosing not to drink Learning to observe social dynamics with "curiosity goggles" And more topics… In Chris’ session: Understanding that movement forward and backward are both learning opportunities Addressing childhood trauma and emotional suppression from boarding school Recognizing hyper-independence and difficulty forming genuine connections The challenge and beauty of feeling emotions after years of numbing with alcohol Learning to name and explore feelings beyond basic emotions Utilizing tools for building genuine connections without alcohol Connecting body sensations to emotional experiences Releasing resentment for a lighter emotional burden The profound realization that true healing requires feeling, not just talking And more… Pam McRae is a Certified TNM Coach, Master Life Coach, and Gray Area Drinking Coach. Since rethinking her relationship with alcohol in 2017, she considers herself a non-drinker. Pam empowers others through her Freedom Connection group coaching, where people support each other in their alcohol journeys. She also uses her experience and knowledge to guide you through tough times such as grief. Learn more about Coach Pam: https://thisnakedmind.com/coach/pam-mcrae/ [https://thisnakedmind.com/coach/pam-mcrae/] Episode links: Related Episodes: Building Authentic Connections: Gregory’s Naked Life | E739 - https://thisnakedmind.com/building-authentic-connections-gregorys-naked-life-e739/ [https://thisnakedmind.com/building-authentic-connections-gregorys-naked-life-e739/] Healing Emotional Pain Without Alcohol - Reader Questions - E706 - https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-706-readers-question-healing-emotional-pain-without-alcohol/ [https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-706-readers-question-healing-emotional-pain-without-alcohol/] The Art of Balancing Your Needs in a Relationship - Reader Questions - E636 - https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-636-readers-question-the-art-of-balancing-your-needs-in-a-relationship/ [https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-636-readers-question-the-art-of-balancing-your-needs-in-a-relationship/] Ready to take the next step on your journey?  Visit https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources [https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources] for free resources, programs, and more. Until next week, stay curious! BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month at ⁠⁠http://BetterHelp.com/NAKEDMIND|BetterHelp.com/NAKEDMIND⁠⁠ [http://betterhelp.com/NAKEDMIND%7CBetterHelp.com/NAKEDMIND] Quince: For your next trip, treat yourself to the luxe upgrades you deserve from Quince. Go to ⁠⁠http://Quince.com/naked|Quince.com/naked⁠⁠ [http://quince.com/naked%7CQuince.com/naked] for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns Hungryroot: Get 40% off your first box + a free item for life at ⁠⁠http://Hungryroot.com/mind|Hungryroot.com/mind⁠⁠ [http://hungryroot.com/mind%7CHungryroot.com/mind] with code mind Shopify: Start your $1/month trial at ⁠⁠http://Shopify.com/mind|Shopify.com/mind⁠ [http://shopify.com/mind%7CShopify.com/mind]

What if alcohol wasn’t the solution to feeling at peace with yourself? For Isabella, alcohol became a way to mask self-doubt and emotional turbulence, especially when balancing a demanding legal career and complex family dynamics. But through the process of exploring her emotions and connecting with her inner self, Isabella found that the path to finding internal validation and peace doesn’t require alcohol—it requires self-compassion and deep emotional healing. Join Annie as she talks with Isabella about her incredible journey to finding her internal strength and letting go of old coping mechanisms. In this episode, Annie and Isabella discuss: The early reliance on sugar for self-soothing and anxietyAlcohol as a "miracle cure" for self-doubt in adolescenceNavigating the "work hard, play hard" culture of law school and corporate lawThe unique stresses of being a stepmom and mother to four young childrenThe pivotal hospital experience and subsequent relief of seeking helpFinding internal validation and peace through challenging limiting beliefsOvercoming the shame and blame associated with seeking treatmentAdapting social life and recognizing comfortable social environmentsThe importance of internal strength and moving beyond external valueThe lasting impact of the This Naked Mind methodologyAnd other topics… Episode links: jointnmi.com [http://jointnmi.com]isabellaferguson.com.au [http://isabellaferguson.com.au] Related Episodes: Breaking Up with Sugar with Molly Carmel - Reader Questions - E269 - https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-269-breaking-up-with-sugar-with-molly-carmel/ [https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-269-breaking-up-with-sugar-with-molly-carmel/] Why is Alcohol In My Life - Meredith’s Naked Life - E29 - https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-29-naked-life-story-meredith/ [https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-29-naked-life-story-meredith/] Learning to Trust Yourself Again - Alcohol Freedom Coaching - E746 - https://thisnakedmind.com/learning-to-trust-yourself-again-alcohol-freedom-coaching-e746/ [https://thisnakedmind.com/learning-to-trust-yourself-again-alcohol-freedom-coaching-e746/] Ready to take the next step on your journey?  Visit https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources [https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources] for free resources, programs, and more. Until next week, stay curious! BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month at ⁠⁠http://BetterHelp.com/NAKEDMIND|BetterHelp.com/NAKEDMIND⁠⁠ [http://betterhelp.com/NAKEDMIND%7CBetterHelp.com/NAKEDMIND] Quince: For your next trip, treat yourself to the luxe upgrades you deserve from Quince. Go to ⁠⁠http://Quince.com/naked|Quince.com/naked⁠⁠ [http://quince.com/naked%7CQuince.com/naked] for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns Hungryroot: Get 40% off your first box + a free item for life at ⁠⁠http://Hungryroot.com/mind|Hungryroot.com/mind⁠⁠ [http://hungryroot.com/mind%7CHungryroot.com/mind] with code mind Shopify: Start your $1/month trial at ⁠⁠http://Shopify.com/mind|Shopify.com/mind⁠ [http://shopify.com/mind%7CShopify.com/mind]