Between continents and control: International sexwork decoded - with Sienna Carlisle

Why men pay 3000 Pound for a night - Part 2

Some men build fantasies. Some build entire lives. And some build both at the same time – so neatly separated that one half never knows about the other. In this second part of my journey through the nine need archetypes (the title remains a tribute to Vanessa Eden’s *Why Men Pay 2,000 Euros for One Night* – my slight price increase is due to the passage of time), I meet the Saviour, who calls his wall a liberation. The Self-Discoverer, who reveals a side of himself to me that he is not allowed to show anywhere else. The Pragmatist, who simply skips the whole tedious foreplay of dating. And one final archetype, where I know pretty much exactly what I’m talking about. With real encounters, an uncomfortable detour into the biology of monogamy, and a question from the audience at the end that stayed with me for days afterwards.

Why men pay 3000 Pound for a night - Part 1

What drives a man to pay €3,000 for a single night – and does it really have anything to do with sex? In this solo episode, I present my theory of the nine need archetypes – nine patterns of human desire that I have recognised time and again throughout my career. The title is a deliberate homage to Vanessa Eden’s book *Why Men Pay €2,000 for a Night* - with a small price increase to reflect the times. In this first part, you’ll get to know five of the nine archetypes – with case studies, psychological depth and the odd blunt self-revelation. The remaining four will be covered in part two. You know how it is with anticipation.

Why escort ruined dating for us - with Irina Le Fey

Two women who've seen behind the curtain sit down to talk about the thing nobody in this industry warns you about: what happens to your private dating life when work keeps raising the bar. Irina le Fey is back - former goldsmith, sociologist, agency founder, professional huntress a and this time, we're not talking about clients. We're talking about us. About gender roles reclaimed and confused, the provider question, what women actually bring to the table when kids aren't part of the equation, and whether one person could ever give you what this job does. We disagree. A lot. Irina believes in the fairytale and is willing to stop escorting for it. Elisa believes in the fairytale and is absolutely not willing to stop escorting for it. Somewhere between those two positions, something very honest happens - about desire, self-worth, and the strange paradox of an industry that makes you feel incredibly chosen while making normal dating feel like a punishment. One question neither of us had been asked quite this directly before: Are you actually happy? The answers might surprise you. Keep your hands clean. But your mind dirty.

The hypno kink - with Undine de Rivière

What if the most intimate thing someone can do to you has nothing to do with touch? In this episode, I sit down with Undine de Riviere – escort, erotic hypnotist, and one of the most fascinating personas I've had on this show. We talk about the fine line between surrender and control, why giving up your mind is a completely different game than giving up your body, and what it actually means to be conscious while someone rewires your desire. Spoiler: You stay awake. You just stop resisting. We also get into Undine as a constructed persona – who she is, where she ends, and whether that line even exists anymore. For those who think they know what hypnosis is: you probably don't. And that's exactly where this gets interesting.

Why I am (not) allowed to fall in love

Love is the biggest taboo in sex work. Not sex. Not money. But feelings. In this solo episode, I talk about what happens when the line between professional intimacy and real feelings becomes blurred. When does curated availability suddenly become... something that feels real? I talk about dates where I no longer knew whether I was being paid or whether it was just nice. About post-date blues that feel like heartbreak. And about an American in senior military service who taught me a lesson about non-monogamy and charisma. What makes a client dangerous? Not their appearance. But the way they listen. How they leave space. How they see your needs without you having to express them. And then the big question: can I even love as an escort? Am I allowed to? And if so, at what price? In the end, it's all about the Holy Grail: being emotionally available without becoming vulnerable. And why mastering this art leads to a rebirth of one's own self. Trigger warning: emotional depth, personal vulnerability, and quite a few uncomfortable truths about love, control and self-sufficiency.