Not Yet Tarzan

Canary Update

A quick Canary update. This week marks a pretty exciting milestone. When I started HerCanary, it was just an idea, a microphone, and a hope that maybe a few people would find something meaningful in these conversations. Somehow, it's grown into something much bigger than that. Because of that growth, episodes will be moving to a bi-weekly schedule. Not because we're slowing down. Because we're building. The podcast has always been one piece of a much larger vision, and as more of that vision starts taking shape, I want to make sure each episode gets the care, attention, and intention it deserves. So think of this less as a change and more as a sign that we're growing. The conversations aren't stopping. The story isn't ending. If anything, we're getting closer to the reason all of this started in the first place. Thank you for being here while HerCanary finds its wings. And if you've been paying close attention, you've probably noticed that some things have a habit of appearing more than once. That's all I'll say for now. 🌻

A Map Made of Stars

Artemis. Cassiopeia. Gravel roads. Little sisters. A conversation on mythology, instinct, protection, and the strange ways women hand each other survival stories without realizing they’re leaving instructions. Maybe this issue really is as old as time. Maybe it’s written in the stars. ⭐ If you’ve got stories, questions, or warnings you wish someone handed you sooner— 📩 hercanarypodcast@hercanary.com [hercanarypodcast@hercanary.com] Anonymous submissions are always welcome. And if you aren’t ready to sing yet… I’ll be your voice until you find your own. 🐤⭐

Ready Player Two?

A Tinder date once agreed to solve riddles across multiple bars to find me… which means ; player two accepted a side quest. 🎮🧩 There were bartenders 🍻 A required rock 🪨 Girls’ night 💅 A cow costume 🐄✨ This episode kind of wandered into: dating, confidence, awkwardness, friendships, maps 🌻character building 🌻 and whether some of us got so focused on reaching the next level… that we forgot to enjoy the game. Anyway… choose your players carefully. 🐤 Got a weird date story? A side quest? A friendship that started as attraction? A scavenger hunt I’d approve of? Send your stories (anonymous or not): 📩 ⁠hercanarypodcast@hercanary.com⁠ [hercanarypodcast@hercanary.com] I read them.They become thoughts.Sometimes episodes.. 🧩

The Elk-Hunting Delusion🎣

EPISODE 3:🎣 ..... was supposed to be about where to meet people… …but somehow turned into nervous systems, emotional grocery shopping, object constancy, red flags, green flags, relationship ecosystems, elk hunting, and asking ourselves a much bigger question: “What do I actually want?” This episode dives into familiar patterns, boundaries, why some relationships feel peaceful while others feel like survival mode, and how sometimes we keep dating the same person in different skin suits. Also: Im starting to think... relationships now require a food pyramid. 😉Welcome back to the dating series. 🐤 hercanary.com Share your stories with me: hercanarypodcast@hercanary.com [hercanarypodcast@hercanary.com] 😉

Your Landing System

EPISODE 2: PHASE TWO — YOUR LANDING SYSTEM Phase Two is about your landing system—the people in your life who hold you steady when dating (or life) doesn’t go the way you hoped. Because it’s not just what happens to you…it’s what you land on after that shapes you. In this episode: * Why friendships are the foundation, not the side story * How support systems protect your sense of self * What happens when you expect one person to be everythingAnd how real connection changes what you tolerate You’re not just building relationships—you’re building a life that can hold them. 🐤 🌻 💛 🟣 Take what resonates. Leave what doesn’t. 📩 Send your stories: hercanarypodcast@hercanary.com