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Why we went 'no contact' with family Pt 2 (Chloe)

1 h 4 min · 15. Apr. 2026
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It's never an easy decision to go No Contact with family. Usually, there are a thousand tiny things that happen before the final straw pushes you over the edge: one final overstepped boundary, one last diminishment of your feelings... and the fallout can be emotionally and/or financially devastating. But sometimes, there is a positive other side to the decision. Today, Chloe walks you through her personal journey, and how cutting off toxic relationships and familial expectations helped her to figure out who she truly was. She shares how she came to her decision (one person at a time), why each transition was so difficult, and what has come of it--both good and bad. Follow our Patreon! Magic the Gathering games, BTS content, blooper reels, exclusive conversations, debates, and more!! https://www.patreon.com/cw/LadyandTheTransPodcast [https://www.patreon.com/cw/LadyandTheTransPodcast] 😍 00:00 Preview/Breakdown 0:02:38 It's not because I'm trans 0:06:36 Confirmation (the Sacrament) 0:10:44 Hellboy: The problem ain't me 0:15:55 Satanic LA: Bye, Dad 0:22:49 Unacceptance: Bye, Mom 0:25:29 How to set a boundary 0:32:55 Emotional Incest 0:40:47 Spankings? 0:45:30 Boomer Problems 0:54:07 CAUTION: Not for everyone Like, subscribe, and leave us a review (pleeeeease!) for more from The Lady and the Trans Podcast. New full episodes on Wednesdays! Follow our Patreon! Magic the Gathering games, BTS content, blooper reels, exclusive conversations, debates, and more!! https://www.patreon.com/cw/LadyandTheTransPodcast [https://www.patreon.com/cw/LadyandTheTransPodcast] 😍 If you have any feedback or questions, we'd love to hear from you! Email us or reach out on our socials: IG/Threads: @LadyAndTheTrans_ @nochlosbard @Laura_Canyon_ TikTok: @Laura_Canyon_  Email: LadyAndTheTransPodcast@gmail.com #nocontact #boomers #family #toughdecisions #livinglife #millennial

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