Leading With Respect

When "Being Nice" Can Be Disrespectful | Episode #045 | Anju Choudhary

16 min · 29. Apr. 2026
Episode When "Being Nice" Can Be Disrespectful | Episode #045 | Anju Choudhary Cover

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In this week's episode of the Leading With Respect podcast, I had the pleasure of speaking with Anju Choudhary, Chief People Officer at Xoxoday. Her work centers on supporting leaders and teams as they navigate major change, digital transformation, and complexity. And her perspective on respect cuts straight to where most organizations get it wrong. You can be polite and still be disrespectful. Respect Is Not What Most of Us Were Taught One of the most consistent themes across this podcast is how often guests challenge the surface-level definition of respect. Real respect, in Anju's view, is built on three things: Fairness Clarity Consistency It shows up in how decisions are made, how feedback is given, how conflict is handled, and how leaders use power when no one is watching. Read the full article on LinkedIn. [https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/when-being-nice-can-disrespectful-bobby-bakshi-7qosc]

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