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From Mute for Two Years to Winning on Stage | Matthew Malan

46 min · 27. Mai 2026
Episode From Mute for Two Years to Winning on Stage | Matthew Malan Cover

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(This video was originally posted on the "Speak Arizona" YouTube channel. Go check them out at speakarizona.com [https://speakarizona.com]) What changes when public speaking stops being about applause, trophies, or proving yourself? In this episode of Speak Arizona, host Rupesh Parbhoo talks with Don Ratliff and Matthew Malan about mentorship, belief, and learning to speak from the heart. Matthew shares how bullying, stuttering, and years of speech therapy shaped his relationship with his voice, while Don reflects on what it means to see potential in someone before they can see it in themselves. Together, they explore how coaching, encouragement, and service can transform a speaker from performer to messenger. Perfect for speakers, mentors, coaches, and leaders who want to communicate with more courage, connection, and purpose. Key Takeaways * Mentorship can help someone rebuild belief when their own confidence feels fragile. * A speaker grows faster when coaching includes both honest feedback and heart-centered encouragement. * Public speaking becomes more powerful when the goal shifts from performing to serving. * Speaking from the heart helps create real connection with an audience. * The best mentors do more than improve speeches. They help people see what is already inside them. Chapters * 00:00 - Cold open: The neck brace story and the power of eye contact * 00:19 - Speak Arizona intro * 00:56 - Host intro and episode setup * 01:14 - Matthew's voice, bullying, stuttering, and rebuilding trust * 02:02 - Why this story is also about mentorship * 02:49 - Don and Matthew join the conversation * 05:47 - Why mentorship and service matter in this story * 09:01 - What Don saw in Matthew * 10:14 - Don shares why he wanted to pass mentorship forward * 11:21 - Generational service and mentorship * 23:08 - Moving from performance to service * 23:15 - Speaking from the heart, not just the head * 43:53 - Advice for new public speakers Connect LinkedIn: Don Ratliff About the Guest Matthew Malan is a data-driven marketer and Marketing Manager at Vemo Smart Energy. He focuses on growth, experimentation, and performance, with experience leading digital acquisition across paid social, email, and content. His work combines analytics, campaign execution, and marketing systems to generate measurable business results. Connect Website: https://matthewmalan.com [https://matthewmalan.com]

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