13. If She Can Have It, So Can You! Dating over 40 — the honest conversation about patterns, desire and finding love after divorce

19. What To Do If He Says He Doesn't Love You Anymore

What To Do If He Says He Doesn't Love You Anymore Why "I don't love you anymore" isn't always the end — and how to respond with strength Hearing the words "I don't think I love you anymore" from a long-term partner or spouse can be utterly devastating. But those words don't always mean what you think they mean — and they don't necessarily mean the end of your relationship. In this episode, relationship coach for women Naomie Thompson offers a different, more emotionally mature way to respond when a partner says they've fallen out of love. One that takes the pressure off, protects your dignity, and gives your partner the space to discover what they're really feeling. Because sometimes, when someone says they've fallen out of love with you, it’s possible what they've actually fallen out of love with is their own life. They feel lost and low, and they're projecting it onto the person closest to them — you. Naomie shares the exact words you might use, why giving space works when grabbing on doesn't, and how this painful experience can become a powerful opportunity to grow your inner strength, self-love and self-respect. ****IMPORTANT!: this episode is about fundamentally good, long-term relationships going through a low. If your relationship is abusive, hostile, or unfaithful, the priority is your safety and wellbeing — Respect and kindness from a partner are always non-negotiable as a bare minimum in any relationship.***** We cover: * Why feelings of love naturally fluctuate in every long-term relationship * What your partner might really be saying when they say they don't love you anymore * How projection works — and why it might not be about you at all * The instinctive reaction most of us have — and why it usually backfires * A template for what to say instead, with strength and grace * Why taking the pressure off gives your relationship the best chance * How to let go of attachment to the outcome while still living fully * Why respect and kindness are the non-negotiable minimum, always * How to grow the kind of inner strength that means you'll be okay no matter what Work with Naomie: 🎁 Get the FREE 9 Aspects of the Adored Woman training → https://naomiethompson.com/home#freetraining [https://naomiethompson.com/home#freetraining] 📞 Book a free intro call with Naomie → https://calendly.com/naomiethompsoncoaching/loveplan-call [https://calendly.com/naomiethompsoncoaching/loveplan-call]

18. What To Do When A Man Pulls Away

What To Do When He Pulls Away. How to handle it when a man goes distant in dating — and what his behaviour is really telling you That sinking feeling when a man who's been coming on strong suddenly goes quiet — it's one of the most destabilising experiences in dating. And the instinct to reach out, to chase, to do something about it is completely natural. But it's usually making things worse. In this episode, relationship coach for women Naomie Thompson shares what's really happening when a man pulls away in early dating, the three most common reasons it happens, and what to do instead — including the counterintuitive move that actually works. Drawing on her own experience of chasing a man who kept disappearing — and the link she eventually traced back to her relationship with her father — Naomie also shares a beautiful client story about a man who went quiet for a whole weekend, and what was really going on. Because there's a world of difference between a man who's processing something and a man who's simply hot and cold. Whether you're dating after divorce, navigating online dating in your 40s, or trying to break unhealthy relationship patterns — this episode will help you understand what his behaviour is really telling you and how to respond in a way that actually serves you. We cover: * The three most common reasons a man pulls away in dating — and how to tell them apart * Why avoidant men are often drawn to you when your guard is up — and pull back when you open up * Why we unconsciously choose partners with the same tolerance for intimacy * The chasing traps that feel like love but push him further away * Why men fall in love through what they give being received * What to do instead of chasing — and how to redirect an overthinking mind * What his disappearing act is really telling you about who he is * Why the right man won't risk losing you — and what that actually feels like Work with Naomie: 🎁 Get the FREE 9 Aspects of the Adored Woman training → https://naomiethompson.com/home#freetraining [https://naomiethompson.com/home#freetraining] 😍 Chat with Naomie → https://naomiethompson.com/contact 📞 Book a free intro call with Naomie → https://calendly.com/naomiethompsoncoaching/loveplan-call [https://calendly.com/naomiethompsoncoaching/loveplan-call]

17. I'm A Recovering Needy Girl- Why You Feel So Needy In Relationships — And 3 Ways To Finally Feel Secure

I Am A Recovering Needy Girl How to overcome neediness in relationships and finally feel secure in love Do you constantly seek reassurance in relationships? Feel anxious when he doesn't reply? Find yourself doing too much, giving too much, and still never feeling quite secure enough? There's nothing wrong with you — and this episode will show you why. Relationship coach for women Naomie Thompson opens up about her own experience of neediness and deep sensitivity — and shares the three things that genuinely shifted it. Not just theory.....real tools from a woman who's lived it. Whether you're dating in your 40s, struggling with anxious attachment, or simply tired of feeling like you're too much — this episode will change how you see yourself and what's actually been going on. We cover: * What neediness really is — and why it's not a flaw but a sign * Why sometimes the feelings you're having are actually a sign you're with the wrong person * How unmet needs from childhood show up in your adult relationships * The rejection detective — and how to put down the magnifying glass * Why a man can never fully quench the thirst of your unmet needs — and who can * Three ways to finally feel more secure in life and love * The mirror practice that changed everything — and started attracting verbally affectionate men almost immediately * How to become your own cheerleader so you stop pushing love away and start letting it in * Why doing this work means you'll naturally stop being attracted to emotionally unavailable men — you'll just get bored of them Work with Naomie: 🎁 Get the FREE 9 Aspects of the Adored Woman training → https://naomiethompson.com/home#freetraining [https://naomiethompson.com/home#freetraining] 📞 Book a free intro call with Naomie → https://calendly.com/naomiethompsoncoaching/loveplan-call

16. Is He Emotionally Available? 8 Signs He Is

Is He Emotionally Available? 8 Signs He Is How to tell if the man you're dating is genuinely ready for a real relationship Dating in your 40s and struggling to tell the difference between genuine connection and old patterns repeating themselves? This episode will change how you see every man you date from here on. Relationship coach for women Naomie Thompson shares eight clear, practical signs that the man you're getting to know is genuinely emotionally available and relationship ready — not just exciting in the way that has always left you feeling anxious and let down. Because here's the truth: instant chemistry is not a reliable indicator of compatibility. But you know you're on to a good thing when compatibility leads and chemistry grows. Whether you're dating after divorce, navigating online dating in your 40s, or trying to break patterns with emotionally unavailable men once and for all — this episode gives you the tools to be discerning, trust yourself, and choose better. You'll learn the 8 signs Plus — practical advice on online dating, making the first move on Bumble, and why the video call is non-negotiable. Work with Naomie: 🎁 Get the FREE 9 Aspects of the Adored Woman training → naomiethompson.com/home#freetraining 📞 Book a free intro call with Naomie → calendly.com/naomiethompsoncoaching/loveplan-call

15. She Just Wanted To Get Past Date 3 — She Got A Husband

She Just Wanted To Get Past Date 3 A real conversation with a former client who went from stuck to married Dating in your 40s and wondering if it's really going to happen for you? This episode is your answer. Relationship coach for women Naomie Thompson sits down with her former client Anne McHale, a Master of Wine and online business owner, who came to coaching in 2018 with one simple goal — to get past date 3. She'd been stuck in the same cycle for two and a half years. She knew all the theory. She was going on dates. Nothing was working. Then everything changed — and she's now happily married. This is the honest, practical, hopeful conversation about what it actually takes to break unhealthy relationship patterns and go from stuck to the relationship you always wanted — told by a woman who lived it. Whether you're frustrated after years of online dating, wondering why knowing all the theory isn't enough, or simply need someone to tell you it's possible — Anne's story will give you exactly what you need to keep going. We cover: * Why group programmes and courses alone weren't enough — and what one-to-one coaching gave her that nothing else could * The practical dating system that made two to three dates a week completely manageable * Why setting standards for where and how you meet isn't entitled — it's essential * How a man's response to a simple request tells you everything about who he is * The mindset shift that kept her going through hundreds of first dates * What her life looks like now — and why attracting healthy relationships changed everything Work with Naomie:🎁 Get the FREE 9 Aspects of the Adored Woman training → naomiethompson.com/home#freetraining📞 Book a free intro call with Naomie → calendly.com/naomiethompsoncoaching/loveplan-call Connect with Anne McHale:📸 Instagram: @annemchalewine — wine lifestyle content and behind the scenes