Devotional 24: When You Learned to Adapt to Belong

Grief Glitter

What if grief isn't only about what we've lost? What if it's also about what remains? In this episode, Kim explores the idea of "grief glitter"—the pieces of people we continue finding long after they're gone. Through stories about her father, her father-in-law, family traditions, lifelong friendships, faith, and community, she reflects on the ways people leave their fingerprints on our lives. Because sometimes the greatest gifts people leave behind aren't possessions. They're the values, stories, traditions, faith, and love that continue shaping us long after they're gone. Extended Show Notes Have you ever noticed that glitter never really goes away? You can clean it up. Vacuum it. Move houses. Throw things away. And somehow years later, another tiny piece shows up somewhere unexpected. In this episode, Kim explores why grief can feel similar. Not because grief is messy. But because the people we love leave pieces of themselves behind. Through stories about her father, Texas A&M Muster, family traditions, model homes, Christmas Eve brunches, lifelong friendships, and the people who helped carry her through difficult seasons, Kim reflects on the ways grief reveals not only what we've lost—but what remains. This conversation explores: • Why grief and gratitude often exist together • The traditions and stories that continue after loss • The influence people leave behind without realizing it • How faith, family, friendship, and community shape us • Why grief may be evidence that love mattered • The legacy we are leaving behind for others If you've ever lost someone you love, missed a familiar voice, held onto a meaningful tradition, or found yourself unexpectedly smiling through tears, this conversation is for you. Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2561189/fan_mail/new] Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2561189/support] Free Devotional: subscribepage.io/C63wGl [http://subscribepage.io/C63wGl] Want to stay connected throughout the week?  Come hang out with me on social media for daily encouragement, real-life stories, and the behind-the-scenes pieces of this healing journey. If you feel led to support the show, you can do so through the link in the show notes — and please know, your generosity means the world. You’re a gift.

Devotional 29: When God Sees More Than the Label

What if God sees far more than the labels you've been carrying? Throughout our lives, we collect labels. Some come from doctors. Some come from family. Some come from difficult experiences. Some come from our own thoughts. While many of those labels explain something real, they were never meant to become our identity. In this devotional, we'll explore how God consistently sees beyond the labels people carry. Through Scripture, personal reflection, and the reminder that a diagnosis is information—not an apology—we'll discover what it means to see ourselves through God's eyes instead of through the labels we've accumulated along the way. Because a label may describe a chapter. But it was never meant to become the title. BUZZSPROUT EXTENDED SHOW NOTES 📖 Scripture 1 Samuel 16:7 Isaiah 43:1 Ephesians 2:10 🌿 In This Devotional Many of us have collected labels throughout our lives. Some came through diagnoses. Some came through mistakes. Some came through grief. Some came through difficult seasons. And while those labels may explain something about our experiences, they were never meant to become our identity. In this devotional, we explore: • The difference between labels and identity • Why God consistently sees beyond what others see • The danger of allowing a label to become the title of our story • Why a diagnosis is information, not an apology • The freedom that comes from seeing ourselves through God's eyes • The reminder that God calls us by name, not by our labels 🌿 Continue the Journey This week's reflective workbook: at www.healerhopegiver.com [http://www.healerhopegiver.com] More Than The Story They Told Understanding the Difference Between Labels, Identity, and the Story God Is Still Writing Together, we'll explore the labels we've collected, the stories we've believed, and the identity God is inviting us to embrace. You'll also find previous episodes, devotionals, companion guides, reflective workbooks, and additional resources on the Healer & Hope Giver website. Because healing rarely happens in a single conversation. It's often built one insight, one reflection, and one faithful step at a time. Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2561189/fan_mail/new] Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2561189/support] Free Devotional: subscribepage.io/C63wGl [http://subscribepage.io/C63wGl] Want to stay connected throughout the week?  Come hang out with me on social media for daily encouragement, real-life stories, and the behind-the-scenes pieces of this healing journey. If you feel led to support the show, you can do so through the link in the show notes — and please know, your generosity means the world. You’re a gift.

The Diagnosis Didn't Change Me

At eighteen years old, a doctor looked at my bloodwork and told me I would never be thin because I had PCOS. Years later, another doctor burst into a room and announced that I wasn't pregnant—I had diabetes. Then came Moyamoya disease, brain surgeries, and years of learning how to navigate diagnoses, labels, assumptions, and stories that never seemed to tell the whole picture. In this deeply personal episode, we're exploring the difference between what explains us and what defines us. Because labels come from many places. Doctors. Family stories. Church experiences. Other people. Sometimes even ourselves. But none of them tell the whole story. If you've ever felt defined by a diagnosis, a mistake, a family narrative, or a label you've carried for years, this conversation is for you. A diagnosis can explain what is happening without defining who you are. A label can describe a chapter without becoming the title. EXTENDED SHOW NOTES What happens when a diagnosis becomes part of your identity? In this episode, Kim shares personal stories of receiving diagnoses like PCOS, Type 2 diabetes, and Moyamoya disease while exploring a deeper question many of us face: What happens when labels begin defining how we see ourselves? Through stories of infertility, chronic illness, family narratives, grief, faith, and healing, this conversation explores the difference between information and identity. Together we discuss: • The weight of labels handed to us by others  • When diagnoses become predictions about the future  • Learning to advocate for yourself when no one explains the whole story  • The labels we quietly give ourselves  • Inherited stories and misplaced shame  • What happens when the label isn't even true  • The difference between what God calls us and what the world calls us  • Why the chapter is not the title Whether the labels came from doctors, family stories, church experiences, relationships, or your own inner critic, this episode offers a reminder that God sees far more than any diagnosis, assumption, or chapter of your life. CONTINUE THE JOURNEY 💛 Episode 25: Some of What You Call Personality Began as Survival 💛 Episode 26: What Has Been Shaping You? 💛 Episode 27: Health Became Different When It Stopped Being About My Weight 💛 Episode 28: Some People Share a Season. Some Share a Life Resources: Available at www.healerhopegiver.com [http://www.healerhopegiver.com] 📖 More Than the Story They Told (Reflective Workbook) 📖 What Has Been Shaping You? (Reflective Workbook) 📖 Who Helps Carry Your Life? (Companion Guide) Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2561189/fan_mail/new] Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2561189/support] Free Devotional: subscribepage.io/C63wGl [http://subscribepage.io/C63wGl] Want to stay connected throughout the week?  Come hang out with me on social media for daily encouragement, real-life stories, and the behind-the-scenes pieces of this healing journey. If you feel led to support the show, you can do so through the link in the show notes — and please know, your generosity means the world. You’re a gift.

Devotional 28: When God Uses People to Carry You

What if one of the ways God answers our prayers is through people? Many of us want God to make us stronger, more resilient, and more capable. But throughout Scripture, God often provides something different. He places people in our lives to help carry burdens, offer encouragement, speak truth, and remind us that we were never meant to walk through difficult seasons alone. In this devotional, we'll explore what it means to receive the support God provides, why accepting help can sometimes feel harder than offering it, and how God's provision often arrives through ordinary people willing to show up and stay. Because sometimes God's answer doesn't look like removing the burden. Sometimes it looks like sending someone to help carry it. Expanded Show Notes Scripture 📖 Galatians 6:2 "Carry one another's burdens; in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ." 📖 Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 "Two are better than one..." 📖 Romans 12:15 "Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn." In This Devotional Many of us have learned to associate strength with independence. Being capable. Being self-sufficient. Being the one who helps everyone else. But Scripture paints a different picture. In this devotional, we explore: • Why some burdens were never meant to be carried alone • The difference between independence and strength • How God often provides help through people • Why receiving support can feel harder than offering it • Looking back and recognizing the people who helped carry our story • The gift of community in difficult seasons Continue the Journey If this devotional resonated with you, you may also enjoy: 🎧 Episode 28:  Some People Share a Season. Some Share a Life And this week's companion guide: 📘 Who Helps Carry Your Life? You'll also find additional episodes, devotionals, companion guides, reflective workbooks, and resources on the website. 🌿 HealerHopeGiver.com [http://www.healerhopegiver.com] New long-form episodes release on Mondays. New devotional episodes release on Thursdays. Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2561189/fan_mail/new] Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2561189/support] Free Devotional: subscribepage.io/C63wGl [http://subscribepage.io/C63wGl] Want to stay connected throughout the week?  Come hang out with me on social media for daily encouragement, real-life stories, and the behind-the-scenes pieces of this healing journey. If you feel led to support the show, you can do so through the link in the show notes — and please know, your generosity means the world. You’re a gift.

Some People Share a Season. Some Share a Life

Some relationships last a few months. Others last a lifetime. As we move through different seasons of life, the people around us often change. Friendships evolve. Circumstances shift. Some relationships naturally drift apart, while others grow deeper with time. In this episode, Kim reflects on the people who have walked through some of life's most significant chapters—from infertility and adoption to brain surgery, special needs parenting, grief, church transitions, and finding community again. Along the way, she explores what it means to build deep relationships, why some people are meant for a season, and how God often cares for us through the people He places in our lives. If you've ever grieved a friendship, wondered why certain relationships changed, or found yourself grateful for the people who continue showing up year after year, this conversation is for you. Because sometimes the relationships that shaped us weren't meant to last forever. And sometimes the people who become family weren't family to begin with. In This Episode * Why some relationships are meant for a season  * The difference between seasonal and lifelong friendships  * The isolation that can come with difficult life seasons  * Finding community after church hurt and life transitions  * How God uses people to help carry us through hard chapters  * Why grief and gratitude can exist together  * The importance of building deep, meaningful relationships  * What it means to be created for community rather than isolation  Key Takeaway Just because a relationship ended doesn't mean it failed. Sometimes it simply means the season changed. Some people share a season. Some share a life. Both are gifts. Continue the Journey Download the companion guide: Who Helps Carry Your Life? A reflective companion designed to help you identify the people who have shaped your story, supported you through difficult seasons, and helped carry your life along the way. Explore this and other resources at: HealerHopeGiver.com [http://www.healerhopegiver.com] Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2561189/fan_mail/new] Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2561189/support] Free Devotional: subscribepage.io/C63wGl [http://subscribepage.io/C63wGl] Want to stay connected throughout the week?  Come hang out with me on social media for daily encouragement, real-life stories, and the behind-the-scenes pieces of this healing journey. If you feel led to support the show, you can do so through the link in the show notes — and please know, your generosity means the world. You’re a gift.