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At 11, Millie Almost Gave Up Now She’s Helping Others Heal

33 min · 21. Mai 2026
Episode At 11, Millie Almost Gave Up Now She’s Helping Others Heal Cover

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In this deeply honest episode of The Resilience Files: Unlocked, host Carrie Bernans sits down with 13-year-old Millie Waters to discuss her journey through bullying, depression, self-harm, and suicidal ideation after traumatic experiences beginning at just 11 years old. With incredible courage and vulnerability, Millie opens up about the emotional impact bullying had on her mental health, the long road toward healing, and the importance of having supportive people who truly listen and care. She also shares how creative outlets like theater, writing, and performance became a lifeline during some of her darkest moments. Now proudly seven months free from self-harm, Millie hopes her story reminds other young people that they are not alone and that healing, while not linear, is possible. This episode is a powerful conversation about resilience, youth mental health, recovery, creativity, self-acceptance, and finding hope again after pain. Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussions of bullying, self-harm, depression, suicidal ideation, and trauma. Key Takeaways * Sharing your story can help others feel less alone. * Healing is not linear and takes time, patience, and support. * Bullying can create long-lasting emotional wounds and trust issues. * Self-harm should be taken seriously and approached with compassion. * Creative outlets like theater, writing, and performance can support healing. * Supportive adults and safe relationships can make a life-changing difference. * Young people deserve to have their emotions validated and heard. * Recovery is possible, even after extremely dark moments. * Encouragement and gentle guidance matter more than perfection. * Embracing your uniqueness is part of learning to love yourself. Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2439957/support] 📅 New episodes every Tuesday and Thursday 🎧 Listen wherever you get your podcasts 📱 Follow us on Instagram: @theresiliencefiless

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