The Influence Gap with Bernadette McClelland

03: Colleen Stanley: Be The Mentor Who Mattered

41 min · 20. Mai 2026
Episode 03: Colleen Stanley: Be The Mentor Who Mattered Cover

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What if the true secret to success in sales and leadership isn’t about being the best—it's about being there for someone else? In this episode of The Influence Gap, Bernadette McClelland sits down with the #1 global sales guru of 2024, Colleen Stanley, to uncover the real power behind mentorship. Drawing from her farm-town roots and her groundbreaking book Be the Mentor Who Mattered, Colleen Stanley shares how small acts of guidance, risk-taking, and paying attention can turn ordinary leaders and professionals into transformational figures. Key highlights include: * A raw exploration of how personal tragedy shaped Colleen Stanley's mentorship mindset * Why informal, "in-the-moment" mentor moments are more powerful than formal programs * How technology and self-absorption threaten human connection and what to do about it * Practical advice for leaders and aspiring mentors to foster genuine trust, resilience, and culture * Why everyone—regardless of titles or fame—has the ability to create lasting influence If you’re ready to learn how ordinary actions can have extraordinary impact, this is the influence conversation you can’t afford to miss. Connect with Colleen StanleyWebsite [http://salesleadershipdevelopment.com] LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/in/colleenstanleysli/]Colleen’s latest book: Be the Mentor Who Mattered: Make a Difference. Be the Difference [https://www.amazon.com/Be-Mentor-Who-Mattered-Difference/dp/1962834573] Timestamped Overview: 00:01 – Welcome & Setting the Stage 01:23 – Colleen Stanley's Global Recognition 02:46 – Small-Town Upbringing & Early Mentor Moments 05:51 – The Farming Metaphor & Mentorship 06:30 – The Origin Story of “Be the Mentor Who Mattered” 09:11 – Personal Loss and Community Support 12:04 – Flipping the Script: Finding a Mentee 13:34 – Emotional Intelligence & Self-Awareness for Leaders 15:26 – Everyone Has Value: Everyday Mentor Moments 17:48 – The Power of Asking Good Questions 21:17 – Real-world Mentor Moments Changing Lives 23:19 – Community Loss in Remote Work Era 25:01 – The Invisible Cost of Lack of Mentorship 27:17 – Trust, Stress, and the Human Side of Leadership 29:06 – Technology as the Elephant in the Room 31:26 – Presence, Multitasking, and True Teamwork 33:28 – What the Best Mentor-Leaders Do Differently 35:55 – Tough Love, Standards, and Multiplying Leadership 37:18 – Creating Cultures of Mentorship & Influence 39:55 – Rapid Fire: Mentorship, Connection, and Trust 40:08 – Where to Find Colleen Stanley & Her Work

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10: Mark Roberge: The Science of Scaling

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09: Dr. Margie Warrell: The Courage Gap

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08: Bob Burg: Go-Giver Mastery

In this energizing episode of The Influence Gap, Bernadette McClelland sits down with bestselling author Bob Burg, co-author of "The Go-Giver," to shatter common misconceptions around leadership, sales, and the real definition of value. Discover why leaders often struggle the most with receptivity, and how mastering the delicate dance between giving and receiving can completely transform your influence, compensation, and authentic impact. Key insights include the difference between price and value, why discovery is the most critical phase of the sales process, and how to never sacrifice your authenticity under pressure. Tune in for rapid-fire wisdom, stories that stick, and practical steps to close your own influence gap. Timestamped Overview [00:00] Welcome and Introductions [01:32] The Go-Giver's Origin Story [04:54] The Five Laws: Value, Compensation, Influence, Authenticity, Receptivity [06:14] Why Leaders Struggle with Receiving [09:18] Value vs. Price: Real-World Examples [14:30] Uncovering What Buyers Truly Value [16:53] Linking Value and Compensation [19:37] Authenticity vs. Congruence in Leadership [23:17] Overserving vs. Inappropriate Giving [26:32] Self-Value and Avoiding the Doormat Trap [27:04] The Power of Value in Sales [28:18] What Moves Good to Great in the Go-Giver Movement [30:08] Rapid-Fire Leadership Questions [32:33] Closing and Takeaways

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07: Outshining AI: The Human Edge in Wisdom, Influence and Leadership

What if everything you know—and have never said out loud—is actually your most valuable asset in the age of AI? In this powerful solo episode of The Influence Gap, discover why differentiating your value has never been more critical, even as technology automates and commoditizes expertise. The discussion explores how your lived experiences, earned wisdom, and unique observations create a form of influence that AI can never replicate. Key themes include three actionable strategies to make your wisdom visible: building structured frameworks, harnessing the power of storytelling, and leveraging your voice through speaking. Tune in for an uplifting perspective on how to stand out and lead in a world of disruption. Timestamped Overview [00:00:00] Welcome and episode introduction [00:01:38] What influence is—and what it is not [00:03:36] The disruption of AI and its impact on leaders [00:05:39] The irreplaceable human element: earned wisdom [00:08:19] Why your value must be made visible [00:10:54] The big question: what do you know that you haven't voiced? [00:13:22] Three ways to make your influence visible [00:17:33] Turning wisdom from valuable to visible [00:18:58] Closing thoughts and call to action

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