Letters to the Sky

Awakening Without Bypassing: Integration, Emotions, and the Ground of Safety

Send a text [https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1149104/open_sms] In this episode of Letters to the Sky, Stephan and Adam speak with Dave Biggs, a UK-based nondual teacher whose path grew out of a highly controlled religious upbringing, childhood trauma, and years of anxiety, panic disorder, addiction, and a bipolar diagnosis. Drawing on his experience supporting others in distress through the NHS and Samaritans, Dave explores why awakening can become a subtle escape when intense suffering makes the idea of “no self” feel like a final hope—and how that denial eventually crashes. Together, they unpack the overlooked work of post-awakening integration: the way emotions can become more raw and intense when resistance falls away, why kindness and gentleness still matter, and how labeling and story-making can trap sensations instead of letting them move through. Dave describes an “absolute” ground of unconditioned awareness as a stabilizing landing pad—like a starter before the main course—that makes it possible to face trauma without bypassing the human experience. The conversation closes with Dave sharing brief details of his childhood split between Jehovah’s Witness fear and his father’s atheism, his long search to disprove a malicious God, and the eventual recognition of an unconditionally loving presence, along with ways to connect with him at dualitydetox.com. 00:00 Welcome  01:00 How They Met Dave: Voice Memos, Nonduality Groups & Shared Language 02:07 Dave’s Background: Trauma, Mental Health, and Teaching Without Bypassing 05:53 The Trap of ‘No One Here’: Spiritual Bypassing, Denial, and the Crash 11:54 Real Self-Realization: Ordinary, Subtle, and Noticed by the Absence of Suffering 13:46 Integration Mechanics: Momentum After Awakening & the ‘Last 5%’ of Work 16:41 Emotions After Awakening: Anger, Grief, Tears, and Feeling It Fully 19:24 Letting Emotions Move: Disney Tears, Accessibility, and Dropping the Labels 22:58 The ‘Child Catcher’ Metaphor: Stop Netting Feelings and Naming Them 27:02 Mind’s Story-Making vs Witnessing: Grasping, Aversion, and Waves Passing Through 30:18 Groundlessness & Ultimate Truth: Returning to What We Are 32:00 The “Landing Pad”: Unconditioned Awareness as the Base 34:08 Starter vs Main Course: Letting Experience Move Through You 37:02 Macbeth, Despair, and Finding the Ground Beneath the “Sound and Fury” 40:32 Post-Awakening Reality Check: Emotions Don’t Disappear 41:49 Why the Ground Makes Healing Possible (and the Hand Analogy Explained) 44:14 Healing Is Reachable: Safety, Integration, and Trauma Unraveling 46:23 When Pain Becomes Identity: The MS Patient Story 49:30 Dave’s Lived-Experience Work & Dropping the Trauma “Performance” 54:40 Dave’s Childhood & Awakening Turning Point (High-Level Story) 59:27 Wrap-Up: Keep Doing the Work + Where to Find Dave Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/1149104/support] Copyright 2025 by Letters to the Sky

Pema Chodron's Comfortable With Uncertainty

Send us a text [https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1149104/open_sms] Embracing Discomfort: The Practice of Tonglen and Pema Chödrön's Teachings In this episode of Letters to the Sky, Stephan and Adam delve into the transformative teachings of Pema Chödrön's book, 'Comfortable with Uncertainty.' They explore the profound practice of Tonglen and how it serves as a tool for spiritual awakening and a deepening connection to all beings. With heartfelt reflections and guided meditations, they discuss the existential discomfort inherent in being human and the importance of equanimity in facing life's challenges. Join them for a meaningful conversation that touches on the core of waking up and embracing the full spectrum of human experience. 00:47 Discussing Pema Chödrön's Comfortable with Uncertainty 02:41 Exploring Lojong and Mind Training 08:45 Understanding Tonglen Practice 19:04 The Path of the Bodhisattva 29:32 Understanding Resistance and Ego 29:51 Meditation and Letting Go 30:58 Weather as a Metaphor for Life 32:24 The Illusion of Perfection 33:59 Exploring the Six Realms of Being 37:14 Heaven and Hell: A Zen Perspective 41:27 Practicing Tonglen Meditation 50:15 Personal Reflections on Tonglen 55:07 Final Thoughts and Takeaways Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/1149104/support] Copyright 2025 by Letters to the Sky

Love Does Not Know Death by Adam Rizvi

Send us a text [https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1149104/open_sms] In this special episode, Adam takes the spotlight as Stephan interviews him about his newly published book, 'Love Does Not Know Death.'  The conversation delves deep into Adam's unique perspective as a neurocritical care doctor who has seen countless patients at the end of their lives. They discuss the inspiration behind the book, touching on themes of spiritual transformation, the physical and emotional aspects of dying, and the profound insights that have come not only to Adam in his practice, but to the patients themselves as they reach the end of their lives.  Stephan and Adam also explore the challenging yet rewarding process of writing the book, offering a glimpse into Adam's own spiritual journey and how he uses storytelling to convey powerful truths. An enlightening discussion for anyone intrigued by the intersections of medicine, spirituality, and the human experience of death. Here's a link to purchase your own copy of Adam's book: https://a.co/d/5FZ6r7e [https://a.co/d/5FZ6r7e] 00:00 Introduction and Greetings 00:49 Adam's New Book: Love Does Not Know Death 04:30 The Journey of Writing a Book 05:24 A Memorable Patient Story 09:44 Lessons from Death and Forgiveness 14:02 Challenges in Healthcare and Healing 19:10 The Deeper Meaning of Healing 23:10 Facing Mortality and Embracing Life 31:09 Embracing the Messiness of Terminal Diagnoses 33:03 Healthy Responses to Death 34:35 Guilt and Burden in Facing Death 37:40 The Power of Self-Love in Facing Death 38:45 The Transformative Process of Writing 45:24 Insights on Writing and Creativity 53:55 Conclusion Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/1149104/support] Copyright 2025 by Letters to the Sky

Where Does Spiritual Authority Come From?

Send us a text [https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1149104/open_sms] In this episode, Stephan and Adam crack open one of the trickiest questions on the spiritual path: Who gets to claim authority — and why do we keep giving it away?  From childhood conditioning to teacher-student dynamics, we explore how spiritual authority forms, how it collapses, and how it can finally return to its rightful place: your own direct knowing. With warmth, humor, and a few gentle provocations, we look at the subtle ways we outsource our inner clarity and how to recognize the voice that was always yours. A grounded, liberating conversation for anyone walking the line between devotion, discernment, and awakening. Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/1149104/support] Copyright 2025 by Letters to the Sky

Embody Enlightenment Now with Adyashanti's The End of Your World

Send a text [https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1149104/open_sms] Exploring Adyashanti's 'The End of Your World' Stephan and Adam dive into Adyashanti's 'The End of Your World' and share their honest thoughts and personal experiences about the long process of embodying enlightenment after moments of realization. From the pitfalls of spiritual awakening to the simple beauty of being present, they cover it all with warmth, humor, and a sprinkle of cheekiness. Tune in to find out what it's like when spiritual journeys go off script and how honesty can be the game-changer you didn't know you needed. Grab your favorite drink, sit back, and enjoy this adventure through the world of spirituality with a side of laughs. 00:00 Reconnecting 00:54 Discussing 'The End of Your World' by Adyashanti 03:10 Dissolution and Reality 05:08 Challenges and Realizations in Awakening 09:37 Waking Up is Like a Rocket 11:14 Personal Awakening Experiences 16:57 The Importance of Honesty 26:38 Traps and Pitfalls on the Spiritual Path 31:58 The Ego's Voice: Convincing You That Now is Not Okay 32:43 The Simplicity of 'I Am': Insights from Adyashanti 33:31 Questioning Reincarnation: A Personal Reflection 35:23 The Trap of Concepts: How They Shape Our Lives 36:40 Understanding Adyashanti: Background and Teachings 40:42 Awakening in the Present Moment 43:06 The Impact of Future Obsession on the Present 46:36 Practical Advice for Overcoming Future Obsession 54:45 Final Thoughts and Reflections Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/1149104/support] Copyright 2025 by Letters to the Sky