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She Stopped Wanting You & The Orgasm Gap Is Why (Here's the Fix!)

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/1692988/fan_mail/new] She Stopped Wanting You & The Orgasm Gap Is Why (Here's the Fix!) She didn't lose interest in sex. She lost interest in sex that never worked for her. Dr. Candice Nicole Hargons — award-winning psychologist, Emory University professor, and author of Good Sex — breaks down the real data behind the orgasm gap, why it slowly kills a woman's desire, and exactly what closes it. * Why 75% of women have faked it (and what that's really costing you) * The script both men AND women buy into that kills her desire over time * Why lesbians are finishing at 88% — and what straight couples can learn from it * The mental load connection nobody talks about * How mutual masturbation rewires the whole dynamic * What to do tonight to start closing the gap for good 📖 Good Sex: Stories, Science & Strategies for Sexual Liberation — available now  Find Dr. Hargons: https://www.instagram.com/dr.candicenicole/ [https://www.instagram.com/dr.candicenicole/] https://www.drcandicenicole.com/ [https://www.drcandicenicole.com/] My Guide to Best Couple's Sex Toys For Mutual Masturbation: https://talksexwithannette.com/the-best-couples-sex-toys-for-mutual-masturbation/ [https://talksexwithannette.com/the-best-couples-sex-toys-for-mutual-masturbation/] Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ [https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/] Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp] 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c [https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c] 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette [https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette] Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ [https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/] Use Code EXPLORES15 at Womanizer.com [https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer] for 15% off! 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti [https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti]  The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem [https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem] 🍋  Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti [https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti] Support the show [https://www.patreon.com/lockerroomtalkpodcast] Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti [https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti] Connect with us We are on all the socials: 1. TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnette [https://www.tiktok.com/@talksexwithannette] 2. Annette's Insta: @Annette Benedetti [https://www.instagram.com/annettebenedetti/] 3. My OF: @talksexwithannette [https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/] 4. FB: @TalksexwithAnnette [https://www.facebook.com/Talksexwithannette/] 5. Website: https://talksexwithannette.com [https://talksexwithannette.com/] Cheers!

7 Ways To Masturbate Together That Upgrade Your Sex Life Instantly!

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/1692988/fan_mail/new] It's Masturbation May — and I'm giving you the practice that will upgrade your sex life more than any new position, any new toy, any new technique. Mutual masturbation. Touching yourselves at the same time, in the same bed, watching each other. It removes the pressure to deliver an orgasm. It builds the connection most couples are missing. It shows you exactly what works on each other's bodies. And it lets you both discover new pleasure together. What you'll learn:  ✔ Why this practice fixes the orgasm pressure problem most couples have ✔ The exact words to suggest it without making it weird  ✔ The starting position that makes it feel intimate instead of exposing  ✔ The face-to-face position that builds connection most couples are missing ✔ The hand-on-hand technique that teaches your partner's exact pressure and rhythm  ✔ How to use this practice to discover new types of orgasms together My Guide to Best Couple's Sex Toys For Mutual Masturbation: https://talksexwithannette.com/the-best-couples-sex-toys-for-mutual-masturbation/ [https://talksexwithannette.com/the-best-couples-sex-toys-for-mutual-masturbation/] Pair this with my 365 Days of Orgasms series for full tutorials on G-spot, A-spot, blended orgasms, and every other technique I reference:  Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ [https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/] Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp] 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c [https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c] 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Get your subscription for my After Hours audio-guided pleasure/intimate experience here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1692988/subscribe [https://www.buzzsprout.com/1692988/subscribe] Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ [https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/] Use Code EXPLORES15 at Womanizer.com [https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer] for 15% off! Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti [https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti] Support the show [https://www.patreon.com/lockerroomtalkpodcast] Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti [https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti] Connect with us We are on all the socials: 1. TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnette [https://www.tiktok.com/@talksexwithannette] 2. Annette's Insta: @Annette Benedetti [https://www.instagram.com/annettebenedetti/] 3. My OF: @talksexwithannette [https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/] 4. FB: @TalksexwithAnnette [https://www.facebook.com/Talksexwithannette/] 5. Website: https://talksexwithannette.com [https://talksexwithannette.com/] Cheers!

Please Stop F*cking Us Hard: The Truth About Sex and Dating After 60

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/1692988/fan_mail/new] Please stop fucking us hard. Seriously. That's the message — and if you heard it in Suzanne Noble's voice during this episode, you already know why it hit so hard. Suzanne is the host of Sex Advice for Seniors — nearly 200K followers, 180+ episodes, and the most unfiltered voice on intimacy and aging out there. She and I got into everything: why your arousal pattern changes after 50 and what to do about it, what men in their sixties are getting wrong in bed (and the one thing they could change tonight), why women who spent decades having duty sex are now retiring from it entirely, the swinging scene from a queer woman's perspective, dating younger men, and why the women having the best sex of their lives right now are the ones who finally stopped performing. If you're over 50, send this to a friend. If you're under 50, send it to yourself for later. Desire doesn't retire — unless you let it. Find Suzanne on Substack at: https://www.sexadviceforseniors.com/ Check out her website at: https://suzannenoble.co.uk/ 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c [https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c] 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Get your subscription for my After Hours audio-guided pleasure/intimate experience here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1692988/subscribe [https://www.buzzsprout.com/1692988/subscribe] Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ [https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/] Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ [https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/] Use Code EXPLORES15 at Womanizer.com [https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer] for 15% off! 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti [https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti]  The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem [https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem] 🍋  Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti [https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti] Support the show [https://www.patreon.com/lockerroomtalkpodcast] Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti [https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti] Connect with us We are on all the socials: 1. TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnette [https://www.tiktok.com/@talksexwithannette] 2. Annette's Insta: @Annette Benedetti [https://www.instagram.com/annettebenedetti/] 3. My OF: @talksexwithannette [https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/] 4. FB: @TalksexwithAnnette [https://www.facebook.com/Talksexwithannette/] 5. Website: https://talksexwithannette.com [https://talksexwithannette.com/] Cheers!

7 Hot Ways to Go Down On Her That Make You Unforgettable

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/1692988/fan_mail/new] Does she grab your hair like she forgot her own name? Does she text you at 2 AM the next day because her body won't stop replaying it? If not, the gap between what you're doing and what would make her lose her mind is just 7 moves nobody ever taught you. This episode gives you 7 moves she's never felt before. Not because they're complicated — because nobody teaches past the basics. What you'll learn: ✔ You're only hitting 20% of her nerve endings — the tongue fix that changes that ✔ Why your hands are either doing nothing or making it worse ✔ The counterintuitive pull-away that doubles her body's response ✔ A 30-second temperature trick with no toys and no planning ✔ The angle change she's never experienced in her entire life ✔ Why your silence is actively working against you ✔ One look — three seconds — that she'll remember longer than the orgasm itself 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c [https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c] 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Get your subscription for my After Hours audio-guided pleasure/intimate experience here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1692988/subscribe [https://www.buzzsprout.com/1692988/subscribe] Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ [https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/] Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ [https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/] Use Code EXPLORES15 at Womanizer.com [https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer] for 15% off! Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti [https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti] Support the show [https://www.patreon.com/lockerroomtalkpodcast] Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti [https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti] Connect with us We are on all the socials: 1. TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnette [https://www.tiktok.com/@talksexwithannette] 2. Annette's Insta: @Annette Benedetti [https://www.instagram.com/annettebenedetti/] 3. My OF: @talksexwithannette [https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/] 4. FB: @TalksexwithAnnette [https://www.facebook.com/Talksexwithannette/] 5. Website: https://talksexwithannette.com [https://talksexwithannette.com/] Cheers!

How To Have an Unforgettable one night Stand: From Pickup to Aftercare

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/1692988/fan_mail/new] There are one night stands you forget before you've brushed your teeth — and there are one night stands you're still thinking about years later. Today we're breaking down the difference. Zachary Zane — author of Boy Slut, Men's Health sex columnist, and Grindr's official sex and relationship expert — joins me to map out exactly how to have a one night stand that actually lives up to the fantasy. From the mental prep most people skip, to where to find the right person, to what happens in the room that makes it unforgettable — we're covering every stage. We get into:  → The honest conversation you need to have with yourself before you go out  → Where to find casual sex based on your gender, orientation, and vibe  → How to communicate what you want without killing the momentum  → Why one night stands can be MORE intimate than relationship sex  → The aftercare that turns a hookup into a core memory instead of a regret  → Safety tips every woman needs before leaving with a stranger Plus — we both share our own one night stand stories, because we've been there. A lot. 🔗 Find Zachary: @zachary_zane_ on Instagram | Substack: Boy Slut | Book: Boy Slut: A Memoir and Manifesto Website: https://www.zacharyzane.com/ 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c [https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c] 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Get your subscription for my After Hours audio-guided pleasure/intimate experience here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1692988/subscribe [https://www.buzzsprout.com/1692988/subscribe] Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ [https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/] Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ [https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/] Use Code EXPLORES15 at Womanizer.com [https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer] for 15% off! 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti [https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti]  The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem [https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem] 🍋  Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti [https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti] Support the show [https://www.patreon.com/lockerroomtalkpodcast] Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti [https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti] Connect with us We are on all the socials: 1. TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnette [https://www.tiktok.com/@talksexwithannette] 2. Annette's Insta: @Annette Benedetti [https://www.instagram.com/annettebenedetti/] 3. My OF: @talksexwithannette [https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/] 4. FB: @TalksexwithAnnette [https://www.facebook.com/Talksexwithannette/] 5. Website: https://talksexwithannette.com [https://talksexwithannette.com/] Cheers!