Shot At Love

The Mindset Shift That Makes Dating Easier: With Julie Lokun

A Candid Conversation on Modern Love with Julie Lokun This week’s episode flips the script. Instead of hosting, I’m the one being interviewed. Julie Lokun, host of the Get Obsessed podcast, sits down with me for an honest, heartfelt conversation about what dating really looks like today. If you’re starting over, navigating dating apps, or trying to make sense of modern connection, this conversation was created to give you clarity, strategy, and a renewed sense of hope. Julie and I explore the questions so many singles quietly struggle with: • Does real love still exist • Do dating apps actually work • How do you recognize red flags early • What should you do differently on a first date • How do you stay open to love without lowering your standards We discuss: • How love evolves from early romance to meaningful partnership • Why belief in love matters at every stage of life • How to use dating apps strategically instead of reactively • The difference between chemistry and compatibility • Red flags, green flags, and the signals people reveal immediately • Texting etiquette, ghosting, first-date dynamics, and connection basics • How presentation and profile photos influence attraction and success You’ll also hear how my background as a celebrity photographer influences the way I guide people through dating—especially when it comes to creating an authentic, compelling online presence that truly reflects who you are. If you’re overwhelmed by today’s dating landscape or looking for practical strategies you can use right now, this episode offers clear takeaways and mindset shifts that make modern dating feel more manageable. ABOUT TODAY’S GUEST Julie Lokun is the creator and host of Get Obsessed, a podcast centered on growth, possibility, and helping people elevate their lives and relationships. She is a dynamic interviewer and a passionate advocate for empowering others. WHERE TO FIND KERRY Website: www.shotatlovebook.com www.kerrybrett.com [http://www.kerrybrett.com] Podcast: Shot At Love on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and BLEAV Instagram: @kerry_brett @shotatlovepodcast Facebook: Shot At Love Podcast TikTok: @shotatlove LinkedIn: Kerry Brett Substack: https://shotatlove.substack.com YouTube: Shot At Love with Kerry Brett Book: Shot@Love: A Celebrity Photographer’s Lens on Dating and Finding Love, available on Amazon Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com [https://pcm.adswizz.com] for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Great Scott! A Hero's Journey to Love: Chapter 17

Great Scott! A Hero’s Journey to Love In the final chapter of Shot@Love: A Celebrity Photographer’s Unfiltered Lens on Dating and Finding Love, we wrap up the story with heart, humor, and hope. Kerry Brett reflects on her own Hero’s Journey—one that mirrors Marty McFly’s in Back to the Future—filled with setbacks, mentors, lessons, and ultimately transformation through love. This episode is about believing in divine timing, trusting the bigger picture, and having faith that the right person shows up when you’ve done the inner work. Kerry shares how her “Great Scott” moment came when she found love on Tinder, and how every heartbreak, misstep, and “Biff” along the way shaped her into someone ready for a healthy, lasting relationship. Through pop culture parallels, wisdom from her mentor Jeff Lubin, and her signature storytelling style, Kerry ties it all together—reminding listeners that everyone’s path to love is their own version of the Hero’s Journey. It’s about choosing courage over comfort, learning to love yourself first, and understanding that each swipe, each setback, and each lesson gets you closer to your own “Great Scott” moment. If you’ve ever doubted that love is possible after heartbreak, this episode will inspire you to believe again. Because when you trust in the bigger picture and take your shot, you just might find the one who was meant for you all along. Listen now at www.shotatlovebook.com and follow Kerry Brett on Instagram @kerry_brett, @shotatlovepodcast, Facebook, LinkedIn, and on Substack at https://shotatlove.substack.com/p/shot-at-love-the-edit?r=20nzan&utm_medium=ios&utm_source=notes-share-action Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com [https://pcm.adswizz.com] for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Finding Love On the Rails, Risky Business Style: Chapter 16

In this episode of Shot At Love, host Kerry Brett shares her unforgettable story of finding love on the commuter rail. This journey starts with a swipe and turns into a cinematic night worthy of Risky Business and Dirty Dancing. What begins as a spontaneous Tinder date with a man named Scott evolves into a hilarious and heartfelt adventure about courage, connection, and the power of showing up even when it’s uncomfortable. From lip gloss disasters and “walks of shame” to lessons in faith, mindset, and perseverance, Kerry reminds listeners that taking chances in love — and life — often comes with a few unexpected detours. But when you stay open, trust yourself, and keep believing, miracles can happen… even on the rails. By the end, Kerry reveals how this once “risky” date led to her real-life love story and how her journey on Tinder became proof that manifestation works — if you’re willing to believe, take action, and never quit. Follow on Instagram @kerry_brett and @shotatlovepodcast Find Kerry on Facebook and LinkedIn Subscribe to her Substack: Shot At Love: The Edit Visit www.shotatlovebook.com [https://www.shotatlovebook.com] to learn more about her book Shot@Love: A Celebrity Photographer’s Unfiltered Lens on Dating and Finding Love. ---------------------------------------- Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com [https://pcm.adswizz.com] for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

My Dating Breakthrough: Chapter 15

My Dating Breakthrough — Chapter 15 In this heartfelt and full-circle episode titled My Dating Breakthrough, Kerry Brett shares the transformative story behind her biggest dating and personal turning point—one that began with a mantra and led to meeting her boyfriend, Scott. This chapter is about mentorship, mindset, and the courage to change the pattern. Kerry reflects on her 25-year mentorship with renowned portrait artist Jeff Lubin, a silver-haired visionary who taught her everything about confidence, value, and human connection—lessons that eventually translated into her dating life. Through humor and honesty, she reveals how Jeff’s tough love, wisdom, and one unforgettable lecture helped her rebuild self-worth and learn to believe in love again. From heartbreak in Florida to a life-changing “aha” moment back in Boston, Kerry explains how her mentor’s voice became the inner compass that guided her out of self-doubt and back into alignment. Because sometimes, the greatest leap of faith isn’t swiping right—it’s believing in yourself again. Key themes • The Kubera Gayatri mantra and the power of asking for what you want • How mentorship mirrors love and self-belief • Lessons from Jeff Lubin on value, confidence, and resilience • Overcoming heartbreak and reclaiming self-worth • The “Quasimodo rule”—breaking patterns and choosing better • Finding faith, trust, and home in Boston once again Listen, learn, and love better This episode reminds us that breakthroughs happen when you stop playing small, take the leap, and believe that the best is yet to come. Connect with Kerry Brett Instagram: @kerry_brett, @shotatlovepodcast Facebook and LinkedIn: Kerry Brett Substack: https://shotatlove.substack.com/p/shot-at-love-the-edit Website: www.shotatlovebook.com Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com [https://pcm.adswizz.com] for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Finding Your Match Made in Heaven: Chapter 14

Finding Your Match Made in Heaven, Chapter 14 of Shot@Love, A Celebrity Photograph's Unfiltered Lens on Dating and Finding Love This episode explores how faith, vibration, and belief play a powerful role in attracting love. Kerry shares her experiences learning about the Law of Attraction from Michael Losier—author of Law of Attraction—and how his teachings on deliberate creation helped her shift from doubt to trust. When heartbreak and online dating fatigue set in, Kerry turned to spiritual practices and divine connections for guidance—from chanting the Lakshmi Gayatri mantra for love and abundance to conversations with her intuitive friends Maureen Hancock and Jill Jardine. Through humor and honesty, Kerry reveals how psychic predictions, astrology, and even a few matchmaking misfires ultimately led to powerful lessons about faith, karma, and timing. You’ll also hear the inspiring story of Rosie Dalton, Maureen’s sister, who found her “match made in heaven” after years of loss—proof that love can bloom again, even after heartbreak. This chapter reminds us that believing love is possible is the first step to receiving it. Follow along as Kerry learns to let go of control, trust divine timing, and keep her vibration high—because your match made in heaven might just be closer than you think. Find Kerry on Instagram @kerry_brett and @shotatlovepodcast, on Facebook and LinkedIn, and join the community at www.shotatlovebook.com. You can also read Shot@Love: The Edit on Substack at shotatlove.substack.com. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com [https://pcm.adswizz.com] for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.