Get the Boots

89. Giving visibility to the trailing spouse - with Dominique Narciso Kim

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/872791/fan_mail/new] My guest today is a 6 times expat, podcaster, author, international keynote speaker, global purpose coach and business mentor, amongst other things! - meet Dominique Narciso Kim. If you've ever been upset to be called the "trailing spouse", or struggled with your identity shifts during a move abroad, our conversation is for you. Dom gives the term "trailing spouse" a new and definitely more positive spin. Find Dominique on LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/in/domnarcisokim/] or Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/domnarcisokim/] to follow her journey. Not only does she have a new country to move to, she also has tons more projects in the pipeline. More information about her work can be found on her website [https://domnarciso.mykajabi.com]. Books mentioned:  Tal Ben Shahar: The Pursuit of Perfect [https://www.amazon.com/Pursuit-Perfect-Chasing-Perfection-Happiness/dp/0071629033/ref=sr_1_1?crid=38B4CL9L5Y48A&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.VZmNkrMNYZFsIfPOr5oWuA9hT3dm5oMeEubUzEo4ovU0oUw0Co_jBy4e9bWEpzYmwrI3LQcXxRudWS1s25luID7s7IJTZ9XQQt9azkboDOoRrk6FD3E0riN6vS6DHyh-9qt965pb5MFbGkyzu5MFitfVruqVdW_dk0oulD5ThxTyki7HqJ6_bhiGwoAt5etE-fbzDiFtI-0BKYUTzRli4w57SJBgEDSJiFQLPhB20lk.PGFpy7bcUFUrC_EhpeR6hcG8yN5A6A-ZWopw2JpvETc&dib_tag=se&keywords=the+pursuit+of+perfect+tal+ben-shahar&qid=1779110383&sprefix=the+pursuit+of+perfect%2Caps%2C673&sr=8-1] Dominique Narciso-Kim: Live Your New Story: Discover Your Best Self and Live Your Best Life [https://www.amazon.com/Live-Your-New-Story-Discover-ebook/dp/B08PCBMC1W/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3F7RS4XPLVXV0&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.Z4ureed1vfeBdhWdXiLAZQ.XuIYbk6XtKcUvDxLVfokaT5dSFMQ8wz0zTJwp01ejT0&dib_tag=se&keywords=dominique+narciso&qid=1779110273&sprefix=dominique+narciso%2Caps%2C637&sr=8-1] We talked a little bit about the peace corps, for more information, head straight to their website [https://www.peacecorps.gov].  For more information about my memoir, Transcontinental Overload, head to my website [https://transcontinentaloverload.com/book/], or find my Substack, Steph Gets the Boots [https://stephaniexeniacook.substack.com].

88. The beautiful world of multilingualism - with Louise Sverud

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/872791/fan_mail/new] Today's guest brings a fresh breeze of energy and positive vibes! Louise, originally from Sweden, has lived in Lanzarote for over 25 years and has made the Spanish island her and her children's home. We discuss the wonders and challenges of multilingualism and what it looks like to try and raise your children with more than one language.  For more information about Louise, or maybe you're in need of a multilingual virtual assistant with a good dose of expat experience, head to LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/in/louise-sverud/] or Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/lsva_sverud/]. My book, "Transcontinental Overload - a Memoir of Movement, Meltdowns & Making a Life In Between", is widely available as paperback (ISBN 9798999488800) and Ebook. Audiobook and German edition will be out soon! Check my website [https://transcontinentaloverload.com/book/] for purchase links.

87. The beauty of solitude - with Megan Nicholls

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/872791/fan_mail/new] We have a special treat today: Megan from the UK is taking us on the Camino de Santiago! After working on cruise ships and then briefly back in England, Megan decided to head down to Portugal to walk the Camino - all by herself. To get clarity, to experience being alone, to test her limits.  If you've ever thought about walking the Camino yourself, or if you've never heard of it, this is the episode for you. Enjoy! You can find out more about Meg and her language-coaching business, Mega Language Coach, on her website [https://megalanguagecoach.com], or find her on LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/in/megan-nicholls-59a47077/], Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/megalanguagecoach/], YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/@megalanguagecoach] and TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@megalanguagecoach]. Find out more about me and my book on my website [https://transcontinentaloverload.com], Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/overloadedsteph/], or head straight to my all-encompassing Linktree [https://linktr.ee/stephaniexcook?utm_source=linktree_profile_share<sid=a761a677-0c3d-4bee-8b3f-d1165ce71252].

86. Globally Aware: how a week of volunteering can change your life - with Kimberly Haley-Coleman

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/872791/fan_mail/new] Today, we're heading all over the planet! My guest, Kimberly Haley-Coleman is the founder and Executive Director of Globe Aware, a US & Canada based nonprofit that leads and mobilizes volunteers for short-term service projects in over 25 countries worldwide. We talk about the concept of service, the importance of local knowledge and participation and why and how an experience like the ones Globe Aware provides can be transformational. As Kimberly puts it, it's a "win-win-win situation!" For more information on Globe Aware, head straight to the website [https://www.globeaware.org], or follow on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/globeaware/], LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimberlyglobeaware/], Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/globeaware], X [https://twitter.com/GlobeAware], etc.  Additional information about Kimberly: With a background in international business development and finance, she previously held leadership roles at global firms including CNBC.com [http://cnbc.com/], Space Services International, and Investtools. Kimberly holds an MBA in International Business, an MA in Art History, and a BA from Emory University. A multiple patent holder, SMU Guest Lecturer, and recipient of the Texas Business Hall of Fame Award and long-time Hall of Fame member, Chairman of the Executive Board for the International Volunteer Programs Association (IVPA) and actively engaged with organizations like the Building Bridges Coalition and United Nations ESOC Consultative Status Committee and variety of other nonprofit boards focused on international service, community development, and environmental improvement. My book, "Transcontinental Overload - a Memoir of Movement, Meltdowns and Making a Life In Between" is widely available as paperback or ebook. You can find international purchase links on my website [https://transcontinentaloverload.com/book/], or (if in the US) head straight to Barnes & Noble [https://www.barnesandnoble.com/s/transcontinental%20overload], Amazon [https://www.amazon.com/Transcontinental-Overload-Movement-Meltdowns-Between-ebook/dp/B0F6W4SCMR/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2R029ZLVG4ZUB&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.OeO6yMlwOCi-SaiZV9L4bQ.1eiwJ-Vl2KK1lx2DIUbHxwxobHU9LMI7yNwZpSiEaOc&dib_tag=se&keywords=transcontinental+overload+book&qid=1770839930&sprefix=transcontinental+over%2Caps%2C150&sr=8-1], or directly to the printer [https://shop.ingramspark.com/b/084?params=g1GAAv5gfVw8M9oihvYIvx07eSJPYHoZaLV8YrirFhm].

85. Too Sensitive? Think again - with Nadine Prager

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/872791/fan_mail/new] For the last episode of the year, I sit down with Nadine Prager to talk about burnout and what we can do, especially at the end of the year, to avoid it.  You can find Nadine via her website [https://www.nadineprager.com], or on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/_nadine_prager_/], or join her Telegram WhatsApp group, The Luxury of Sensitivity [https://t.me/TheLuxuryofSensitivity]. Also check out her wonderful podcast, Too Sensitive, My Ass! [https://open.spotify.com/show/7oxggE57GNN0WQj84OeYw3?si=Qe6vp23VSqSCz0-oCJVmkA&utm_source=ig&utm_medium=social&utm_content=link_in_bio&nd=1&dlsi=b162950647d641f7] which we didn't have time to talk about today, and keep your eyes peeled – Nadine has a book coming out in 2026! Another thing we didn't get to is astrocartography, a service Nadine offers that can help you find out which location in the world is beneficial for you and your goals in life. Sperrnächte ("Lockdown Nights"/"Dark Nights") refer to a spiritual time (December 8-21, culminating in Solstice) in Germanic traditions where people intentionally slow down, cease work, cleanse their homes, and reflect on the past year to prepare for the new, allowing for deep introspection and energetic clearing before the main "Magic Nights" (Rauhnächte) begin.  Rauhnächte (or "Rough Nights"/"Magic Nights") are 12 sacred nights between Christmas and Epiphany (Dec 25th - Jan 5th) in Central European folklore, a liminal time when the veil between worlds is thin, spirits roam, and people perform cleansing, introspective, and divinatory rituals like burning herbs (incense), journaling, and using the "13 Wishes" ritual to set intentions for the coming year, often involving quiet reflection and driving out bad energy.  A few links if you're interested in those traditions: Sperrnächte [https://www.instagram.com/reel/DSC6D6hjSBF/], End of year [https://www.sebastos.com/de-en/knowledge/rough-nights/], Rauhnacht [https://germangirlinamerica.com/what-is-rauhnacht/], end of year traditions [https://www.cosmicdeva.com/blogs/news/raunachte-magic-nights-the-twelve-nights-after-christmas?srsltid=AfmBOorm09x3qxeC3zU8a5C5G9nZAyiFyYauyMmtNbtFErRcvb9c-vb2], Rauhnächte [https://www.pharmos-natur.de/en/magazine/the-12-rauhnaechte.-a-magical-time.], 13 Wishes Ritual [https://www.anjapoehlmann.com/the-magic-of-13-wishes/]. The German publishing house Nadine works with is the Westermann Verlag [https://www.westermanngruppe.de/en/]: "The Westermann Gruppe is one of Germany’s leading providers of educational materials. Bringing together publishing houses, printing works and services, the Westermann Gruppe has a presence at every stage of the publishing process. Education is our passion and we produce educational materials for a lifetime of learning. Our publishing houses offer titles for pre-schools, primary schools and secondary schools, as well as vocational training and professional qualifications." --- My book, "Transcontinental Overload - a Memoir of Movement, Meltdowns & Making a Life In Between" is for sale at all major booksellers.  You can find a list of merchants here [https://transcontinentaloverload.com/book/]. Direct warehouse links: US customers [https://shop.ingramspark.com/b/084?params=g1GAAv5gfVw8M9oihvYIvx07eSJPYHoZaLV8YrirFhm], UK customers [https://shop.ingramspark.com/b/084?params=O5nqoz0pGbASHS5sih8hu03z1tAQrLJkriyTSc8wZGD]   To read and listen to my blog post, subscribe to my Substack [https://stephaniexeniacook.substack.com/?utm_campaign=profile_chips].