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A Gay and A NonGay

In a time where we're all threatened by a rhetoric of hate from the people in power; A Gay And A NonGay challenges many of our differences head on and promises that no matter who you are, or what you're into (Bruce Springsteen or Britney), love is love and gay and nongays can be friends.An independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@DanHudson). Contact us on Twitter, IG or Facebook @gaynongay

Latest episodes in A Gay and A NonGay

26/10 2020 • 13 MIN

Ace and Base

A Gay and A NonGay
James is unhappy to discover his dog's sexuality and Dan's collection of asexual teddies are moving out. Please support our podcast,...
Ace and Base
18/10 2020 • 17 MIN

Devil Horns 🤘

A Gay and A NonGay
Dan is offended by James' attempts to ‘support’ heavy metal. Would you rate someone you’d slept with? And do nongays have...
Devil Horns 🤘
11/10 2020 • 27 MIN

Confessions of a gay Metal God with Rob Halford

A Gay and A NonGay
Happy International Metal Day. Today on the podcast we are joined by the rainbow of metal, the Metal God himself, Rob...
Confessions of a gay Metal God with Rob Halford
4/10 2020 • 11 MIN

You're cheap and you're haggard

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James is celebrating the all new non-homophobic version of Fairytale of New York but Dan has a questions. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for...
You're cheap and you're haggard
28/9 2020 • 13 MIN

Pope Week

A Gay and A NonGay
Pope Francis has endorsed gays! Or has he? And we catch up with a listener who allegedly spills the tea on...
Pope Week
21/9 2020 • 12 MIN

Musings

A Gay and A NonGay
James wants to talk about his love life but Dan has a lot of musings. It's international pronouns day! Here's...
Musings
14/9 2020 • 15 MIN

Slayer

A Gay and A NonGay
My Metal God Wrote A Porno. Dan has booked a legend onto the show for International Metal Day, but it’s...
Slayer
8/9 2020 • 12 MIN

World Mental Health Day

A Gay and A NonGay
Dan needs to say sorry to Will Young, there's a 'Things Dan Cannot Say - World Mental Health Day special'...
World Mental Health Day
30/8 2020 • 27 MIN

Overcoming Gay Shame with Will Young

A Gay and A NonGay
James and Dan are joined by singer, actor and author Will Young. We talk about how to overcome gay shame...
Overcoming Gay Shame with Will Young
23/8 2020 • 30 MIN

Live from Manchester’s Alternative Pride Festival with Bright Light Bright Light

A Gay and A NonGay
Dan and James catch up with Bright Light Bright Light and Mark Fletcher, the CEO of Manchester Pride. Mark opens up...
Live from Manchester’s Alternative Pride Festival with Bright Light Bright Light
16/8 2020 • 15 MIN

#IKnewIWasLGBTQ

A Gay and A NonGay
When did James know he was gay? When did Dan know he was nongay? And why did Dan say goodbye...
#IKnewIWasLGBTQ
9/8 2020 • 14 MIN

Trolls

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James’ birthday is ruined by trolls. Plus Dan now thinks he looks like Hollywood heartthrob Robert Pattinson (??) Is Dan delusional? Let...
Trolls
1/8 2020 • 20 MIN

Chaz Bono on A Gay and A NonGay

A Gay and A NonGay
On today's show we welcome actor and transgender man Chaz Bono to the show. In his own words he wanted to talk...
Chaz Bono on A Gay and A NonGay
26/7 2020 • 19 MIN

Debbie Downer

A Gay and A NonGay
James is back from his camping trip and he's got a PSA, trim your bush! Plus is Dan a ‘Debbie Downer?’  Please...
Debbie Downer
19/7 2020 • 13 MIN

Erasure

A Gay and A NonGay
With so much erasure in the world, we felt it was time to catch up with British electronic pop legends...
Erasure
12/7 2020 • 16 MIN

YMCA

A Gay and A NonGay
Trump follows Boris Johnson by stealing one of Dan’s catchphrases, and why on earth is YMCA his walk-off music? Also this...
YMCA
5/7 2020 • 13 MIN

Tomfoolery... and Dan The Poet

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There’s two exclusives this week. After his viral sensation The Great Realisation, the boys welcome incredible poet Tomfoolery onto the podcast to hear his...
Tomfoolery... and Dan The Poet
29/6 2020 • 18 MIN

Dan's Buns

A Gay and A NonGay
What do cooking pasta, crossing your legs and going to Paris have in common? Plus Dan’s been chased down the...
Dan's Buns
22/6 2020 • 25 MIN

Welcome To Chechnya with David France

A Gay and A NonGay
This is a very difficult, upsetting and triggering episode. Today we’re joined by director David France to talk about his...
Welcome To Chechnya with David France
15/6 2020 • 12 MIN

Dan's Beard

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Dan's beard pics are getting all of the likes on instagram, James is annoyed. Do straight men enjoy thirsty attention...
Dan's Beard
8/6 2020 • 24 MIN

Life After Hate with Christian Picciolini

A Gay and A NonGay
JK Rowling. Donald Trump. Central Park Karen. There's a lot of hate attacking our community and friends right now. Should...
Life After Hate with Christian Picciolini
1/6 2020 • 14 MIN

Pride 2020

A Gay and A NonGay
Why is Britney a gay icon? Plus Dan's getting a drilling and James tells us his feelings on Pride 2020...
Pride 2020
24/5 2020 • 27 MIN

Dating Amber with Lola Petticrew

A Gay and A NonGay
A year after our BBC Radio 1 documentary about so-called 'gay conversion therapy' in Northern Ireland, the boys have an...
Dating Amber with Lola Petticrew
18/5 2020 • 14 MIN

Love Supreme

A Gay and A NonGay
We discuss the long overdue US Supreme Court's landmark decision on LGBTQ+ rights in the workplace. Plus with transphobia and...
Love Supreme
10/5 2020 • 22 MIN

Smells Like Mean Spirit

A Gay and A NonGay
James is upset with JK Rowling’s transphobia, Dan is fed up with Nirvana’s Krist Novoselic after his pro-Trump status and...
Smells Like Mean Spirit
3/5 2020 • 2 MIN

Black Lives Matter

A Gay and A NonGay
A small audio note from us this week & some links For ways you can support Black Lives Matter visit https://blacklivesmatters.carrd.co/. Plus: Anti-racism resources...
Black Lives Matter
27/4 2020 • 21 MIN

Circus of Books with Rachel Mason

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Have you ever wondered what it would be like if your parents owned a gay porn empire? 🍆💦. James and...
Circus of Books with Rachel Mason
21/4 2020 • 20 MIN

Masc 4 Mask

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The boys are back and after weeks of amazing guests, it's just family this week. James & Dan chat about...
Masc 4 Mask
13/4 2020 • 22 MIN

The London Patient: A Cure for HIV? Part 2

A Gay and A NonGay
"I remember all the people who died with HIV, they’re always in my heart and I want to be their...
The London Patient: A Cure for HIV? Part 2
6/4 2020 • 20 MIN

The London Patient: A Cure for HIV? Part 1

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We've heard about 'expendable' populations before, but last time they meant gay people. 32 million people have died of AIDS related...
The London Patient: A Cure for HIV? Part 1
29/3 2020 • 19 MIN

Owain Wyn Evans

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Famous for drumming to the BBC News Theme and throwing shade in his infamous drag queen weather, welsh weather presenter...
Owain Wyn Evans
22/3 2020 • 33 MIN

Love Lives Here with Amanda Jetté Knox

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It's lesbian visibility week and the boys are joined from Ottawa, Canada by LGBTQ/mental health advocate and trans ally Amanda...
Love Lives Here with Amanda Jetté Knox
16/3 2020 • 21 MIN

Camp

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James and Dan chat about an Australian interview with Tiger King's John Finlay, and we discuss the meaning of the...
Camp
9/3 2020 • 18 MIN

Snatch Game

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Having watched a total of zero episodes of Ru Paul’s Drag Race, Dan gives his opinion on Aiden Zhane’s departure...
Snatch Game
1/3 2020 • 21 MIN

Lowkey Worker

A Gay and A NonGay
Has A Gay and a NonGay's life changed since the UK went on lockdown last week? Dan's a 'key' worker...
Lowkey Worker
25/2 2020 • 32 MIN

A Gay, A NonGay and A Doctor Ranj

A Gay and A NonGay
It's time for some facts from an actual doctor - so we caught up with our would have been tour...
A Gay, A NonGay and A Doctor Ranj
18/2 2020 • 15 MIN

Five Guys a Week

A Gay and A NonGay
Live from the gay and nongay bedrooms, the boys discuss James’ 'new Channel 4 show', and the problems with not...
Five Guys a Week
11/2 2020 • 35 MIN

Live in Dublin with Colm O’Gormon & Rev. Chris Hudson

A Gay and A NonGay
This episode contains a priest swearing, themes of child abuse and gay conversion therapy. To celebrate St.Patrick’s Day (yes we know...
Live in Dublin with Colm O’Gormon & Rev. Chris Hudson
5/2 2020 • 14 MIN

Leather Jackets

A Gay and A NonGay
Dan and James chat about recent police raids on Gay Village dark room sex in Manchester. Plus our podcast has...
Leather Jackets
26/1 2020 • 16 MIN

Double Standards

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What a dish! Is it ok for James to objectify people even though Dan can't? Plus we've got a very...
Double Standards
19/1 2020 • 27 MIN

It’s Gonna Be Okay with MUNA

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James and Dan catch up with the ‘greatest band in the world’ for a deep dive into queerness, safe spaces...
It’s Gonna Be Okay with MUNA
14/1 2020 • 4 MIN

The podcast tour is coming

A Gay and A NonGay
Happy Galentines Day. We're so happy to announce some of the incredible LGBTQ+ guests joining us on The Podcast tour...
The podcast tour is coming
12/1 2020 • 17 MIN

Phillip Schofield

A Gay and A NonGay
The boys discuss the reaction to Phillip Schofield coming out as gay on national television, and the impact of ‘straight-seeming...
Phillip Schofield
5/1 2020 • 14 MIN

Fleabagging

A Gay and A NonGay
James is educating Dan about some 2020 dating trends, the library is back open and we're putting a load on. We’re...
Fleabagging
29/0 2020 • 15 MIN

The big three

A Gay and A NonGay
James has said 'the big three', Dan is appropriating gay culture again and we chat about the BBC's official response...
The big three
22/0 2020 • 13 MIN

Friends forever?

A Gay and A NonGay
The boys discuss how hard it is to keep friendships - but is it easier for LGBTQ+ people? Plus James...
Friends forever?
15/0 2020 • 15 MIN

Twenty Twen-T

A Gay and A NonGay
We’re declaring 2020… TwentyTwenT – the year to actively go out of your way to stand up for our trans...
Twenty Twen-T
8/0 2020 • 12 MIN

Gavin and Stacey

A Gay and A NonGay
Happy New Year! Dan can't stop using his '2020 vision' joke 🙄and James is no longer a 'salon gay'. Dan...
Gavin and Stacey
25/11 2019 • 34 MIN

Best of 2019

A Gay and A NonGay
Catch up on the best of A Gay & A NonGay from 2019! We wish you all a happy holiday...
Best of 2019
18/11 2019 • 14 MIN

Santa Strikes Back

A Gay and A NonGay
It's the most homophobic time of the year. James has censored 'Fairytale of New York' on his radio show but...
Santa Strikes Back
11/11 2019 • 20 MIN

Floozy

A Gay and A NonGay
The Bumming Tour is now called 'The Podcast Tour' in some places because we can't promote 'Bumming' on Facebook'. Dan...
Floozy
6/11 2019 • 20 MIN

LGBTQ+ inclusive education with Olly Pike

A Gay and A NonGay
We chat LGBTQ+ inclusive education with amazing Children's Author/Illustrator and YouTuber, Olly Pike. This episode contains mild themes of bullying...
LGBTQ+ inclusive education with Olly Pike
27/10 2019 • 15 MIN

#NotAllStraightMen

A Gay and A NonGay
James has had enough of NonGay's after Dan moved in... for one night. Plus James has a new boyfriend but...
#NotAllStraightMen
22/10 2019 • 51 MIN

Live in Manchester: Stephen Bailey

A Gay and A NonGay
Live from the Manchester Podcast Festival. Dan and James have had a falling out 👀. The boys are joined by...
Live in Manchester: Stephen Bailey
14/10 2019 • 33 MIN

Leaving the Westboro Baptist Church with Megan Phelps-Roper

A Gay and A NonGay
The Westboro Baptist Church, notorious for picketing funerals and spreading homophobia, are one of the most hateful and homophobic Christian...
Leaving the Westboro Baptist Church with Megan Phelps-Roper
8/10 2019 • 15 MIN

Ellen loves Bush

A Gay and A NonGay
Dan still hasn't watched #DragRaceUK and the boys discuss Ellen's friendship with George W. Bush 👀. Plus if you want to...
Ellen loves Bush
30/9 2019 • 13 MIN

Dan's mate's Dad wrote a Porno

A Gay and A NonGay
The boys celebrate marriage equality in Northern Ireland and James goes to a fancy awards do where he unexpectedly learns...
Dan's mate's Dad wrote a Porno
23/9 2019 • 13 MIN

James' Foot

A Gay and A NonGay
James can't walk, and the doctor thinks it's chlamydia. What?! Plus if you want to see us live at a show...
James' Foot
17/9 2019 • 41 MIN

Live in London: Matthew Todd & ShayShay

A Gay and A NonGay
Live from the London Podcast Festival, Dan and James return to the stage joined by Matthew Todd, author of Straight...
Live in London: Matthew Todd & ShayShay
9/9 2019 • 19 MIN

An Outing

A Gay and A NonGay
Dan and James take part in an accidental outing, and Dan has an unexpected incident with a dog. Plus if...
An Outing
2/9 2019 • 50 MIN

Live from Edinburgh: Larry Dean

A Gay and A NonGay
It's our final show live from Edinburgh & today we're joined by Larry Dean! He tells us if he’s a...
Live from Edinburgh: Larry Dean
25/8 2019 • 42 MIN

Live from Edinburgh: Rhys Nicholson

A Gay and A NonGay
Live from Edinburgh the boys chat to hilarious Australian comedian Rhys Nicholson and ask the all-important question - is it...
Live from Edinburgh: Rhys Nicholson
18/8 2019 • 46 MIN

Live from Edinburgh: Suzi Ruffell

A Gay and A NonGay
From the Edinburgh Fringe Festival 2019 - Dan tells us about a rather sexy sounding exercise class he's been going...
Live from Edinburgh: Suzi Ruffell
13/8 2019 • 45 MIN

Live from Edinburgh: Jodie Mitchell & Tom Ballard

A Gay and A NonGay
From the Edinburgh Fringe Festival 2019 - we're joined by drag king extraordinaire Jodie Mitchell and Australian comedian and late...
Live from Edinburgh: Jodie Mitchell & Tom Ballard
11/8 2019 • 44 MIN

Live in Edinburgh: Rosie Jones & No Country for Young Women

A Gay and A NonGay
From the Edinburgh Fringe Festival 2019 - we're joined by 'triple threat' comedian Rosie Jones and the stars of BBC...
Live in Edinburgh: Rosie Jones & No Country for Young Women
4/8 2019 • 39 MIN

Live in Edinburgh : Sophie Duker & Jen Brister

A Gay and A NonGay
From the Edinburgh Fringe Festival 2019 - we've got some big dick energy in the house with our amazing guests...
Live in Edinburgh : Sophie Duker & Jen Brister
29/7 2019 • 28 MIN

Live in Edinburgh : Richard Gadd & Christina Bianco

A Gay and A NonGay
From the Edinburgh Fringe Festival 2019 listen to our live recording with https://twitter.com/MrRichardGadd and https://twitter.com/XtinaBianco1 On today's episode James challenges...
Live in Edinburgh : Richard Gadd & Christina Bianco
22/7 2019 • 43 MIN

Live in Edinburgh : Jena Friedman

A Gay and A NonGay
Live from the Edinburgh Fringe Festival 2019 and bringing your feed extra GAY and NONGAY-ness. Today we're joined by American...
Live in Edinburgh : Jena Friedman
22/7 2019 • 44 MIN

Live in Edinburgh: Jena Friedman

A Gay and A NonGay
Live from the Edinburgh Fringe Festival 2019 and bringing your feed extra GAY and NONGAY-ness. Today we're joined by...
Live in Edinburgh: Jena Friedman
19/7 2019 • 38 MIN

Live in Edinburgh: Jack Rooke & BBC Radio 1's Unexpected Fluids

A Gay and A NonGay
Surprise! We're live from the Edinburgh Fringe festival 2019 and bringing your feed extra GAY and NONGAY-ness every Monday and...
Live in Edinburgh: Jack Rooke & BBC Radio 1's Unexpected Fluids
14/7 2019 • 10 MIN

Ikea or Death!

A Gay and A NonGay
Dan gets his tongue tied, and not just from kissing James! Plus we revisit a game from Dan's past.---Get tickets...
Ikea or Death!
7/7 2019 • 9 MIN

James 5

A Gay and A NonGay
Ever dated anyone with your own name? Dan is fascinated to find out what James does with James, er 5?...
James 5
31/6 2019 • 20 MIN

A Gay, A NonGay and A Mae

A Gay and A NonGay
Live from our big London show at The Underbelly in June 2019 - hear our chat with the amazing Mae...
A Gay, A NonGay and A Mae
24/6 2019 • 14 MIN

Metro

A Gay and A NonGay
Dan writes an article for a newspaper that has James 'double tapping' for days Read it here: https://tinyurl.com/NonGayAlly---Get tickets for...
Metro
17/6 2019 • 10 MIN

Jamie Dornan and Macklemore

A Gay and A NonGay
Dan is buzzing after James' DAD mistook him for Jamie Dornan. Will James accept this as proof that they look...
Jamie Dornan and Macklemore
10/6 2019 • 19 MIN

A Gay, A NonGay and a Pizza? 🍕

A Gay and A NonGay
James and Dan are back from World Pride in New York. Did James finally submit to the lure of Scott's...
A Gay, A NonGay and a Pizza? 🍕
26/5 2019 • 14 MIN

Pizza Pride 🍕🏳️‍🌈

A Gay and A NonGay
James & Dan are off to #WorldPride in NYC - both want inches, but of a different kind! Happy Pride...
Pizza Pride 🍕🏳️‍🌈
19/5 2019 • 12 MIN

Phubbing

A Gay and A NonGay
Is it okay for James to watch the RuPaul Final during our podcast recording? Are we allowed to be on...
Phubbing
13/5 2019 • 20 MIN

James' Big Weekend

A Gay and A NonGay
The curse of James announcing he has a boyfriend on the podcast and then having to retract it a week...
James' Big Weekend
5/5 2019 • 28 MIN

A Gay, A NonGay and A Grandaddy with Armistead Maupin

A Gay and A NonGay
Happy Pride month! Iconic author Armistead Maupin joins James & Dan to chat about Tales of the City being turned...
A Gay, A NonGay and A Grandaddy with Armistead Maupin
29/4 2019 • 13 MIN

NO SPOILERS

A Gay and A NonGay
Dan goes on a ridiculous rant, but NO SPOILERS.Plus we want to see you next Saturday 8 June in London...
NO SPOILERS
22/4 2019 • 9 MIN

Guacamole

A Gay and A NonGay
James has something to tell you... he’s guacamole. Plus we dive deep on iced coffee and the need to feel...
Guacamole
15/4 2019 • 15 MIN

Shawn Mendes

A Gay and A NonGay
Should NonGay people have to come out too? Plus there's a huge announcement about our first ever UK Pride Tour!...
Shawn Mendes
8/4 2019 • 22 MIN

Gay Relationships Are Hard

A Gay and A NonGay
James thinks back to his childhood and the effect that's having on his... boyfriend! Plus our listener Nic is having...
Gay Relationships Are Hard
1/4 2019 • 13 MIN

Hugs

A Gay and A NonGay
Dan didn't make the rules but he's got some thoughts on man on man hugging. Plus who tf is Pete?--Listen...
Hugs
24/3 2019 • 34 MIN

A Gay, A NonGay & A Non-Binary

A Gay and A NonGay
We talk a lot about being Gay & NonGay, but today Caitlin joins us for another perspective in our special...
A Gay, A NonGay & A Non-Binary
17/3 2019 • 16 MIN

Consent

A Gay and A NonGay
Dan's got a pitch for our big live show at Underbelly Festival... get ready for 'Play Your Gays Right'! Plus...
Consent
10/3 2019 • 19 MIN

Dorchester

A Gay and A NonGay
We catch up on the horrific change in law against LGBTQ+ people in Brunei and the subsequent protests going on...
Dorchester
3/3 2019 • 12 MIN

Burnout

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Dan and James feel like they're suffering from burnout but for different reasons. Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up...
Burnout
27/2 2019 • 13 MIN

Eau d'amour

A Gay and A NonGay
Dan's discovered a new perfume that he thinks James might be into... Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life...
Eau d'amour
19/2 2019 • 12 MIN

Kebab Awards

A Gay and A NonGay
There's a lot of confusion around room odorisers and Dan has finally convinced James to go to the British Kebab...
Kebab Awards
13/2 2019 • 17 MIN

0121

A Gay and A NonGay
What do Dan and James think of couples who call their partner "This One" on social media? We've a huge...
0121
6/2 2019 • 15 MIN

Exclusively Gay

A Gay and A NonGay
How NonGay is Dan? James puts him through a vigorous Kinsey Scale test - plus we remember Queer As Folk...
Exclusively Gay
27/1 2019 • 11 MIN

Destroyers

A Gay and A NonGay
Dan’s fed up of people asking him questions and James introduces Dan to gay twitter’s most iconic new meme -...
Destroyers
20/1 2019 • 15 MIN

A Technicality

A Gay and A NonGay
Dan and James talk about Manchester Pride's decision to add black and brown to the rainbow flag. And what does...
A Technicality
13/1 2019 • 11 MIN

Timothée Champagne

A Gay and A NonGay
James has done the maths on how many guys he's slept with and so has his mum! Dan has no...
Timothée Champagne
6/1 2019 • 17 MIN

NonGay Night Out

A Gay and A NonGay
Dan has a big night out with his friends, and it's the most NonGay thing you've ever heard... or is...
NonGay Night Out
30/0 2019 • 30 MIN

Erased

A Gay and A NonGay
James & Dan have a huge announcement, and with Boy Erased opening in cinemas in the UK soon the boys...
Erased
23/0 2019 • 12 MIN

Fabulous

A Gay and A NonGay
Fabulous means Fabulous and James uses the podcast as a sensible (!) way to communicate with someone romantic.Mug someone off...
Fabulous
16/0 2019 • 14 MIN

Tales from Miami

A Gay and A NonGay
James is back from a holiday to Miami with some new vocabulary, a new use for twitter and shocks Dan...
Tales from Miami