Diving Deep with Destin: Sex, Love, and Evolution

In this week’s episode of Diving Deep with Destin: Sex, Love, and Evolution, Destin Gerek is joined by Francesca Gentille, a certified clinical sexologist and initiated shaman known for her unique blend of science and soul in the realm of sexuality. Together, they explore Francesca's profound journey of integrating trauma healing, self-love, tantra, and conscious non-monogamy. This conversation delves into the therapeutic use of BDSM, the power of embracing our authentic selves, and the transformative potential of sexuality as a path to personal growth and enlightenment. This episode is brought to you by:  Lit - Love & Intimacy Tools: a boutique sensation tools brand offering a luscious new take on adult toys. Lit pairs gorgeous, high-end sensual toys with fun practices to deepen authentic intimacy through mindful exploration of sensual pleasure. Their work is rooted in somatic arts, the science of touch, nervous system regulation, vagal nerve theory, and authentic relating. Each tool comes with an intimacy practice to enrich your connection.  Use the code Destin to save 10% or get their Totally Lit Kit with all 12 tools for 25% off. ⁠https://www.litup.love/destin⁠  Use Promo Code: DESTIN to receive 10% off your order! Key Insights: * The intersection of science and soul in the journey of sexual healing. * Strategies for integrating trauma healing and self-love into personal growth. * The role of tantra and conscious non-monogamy in cultivating authentic connections. * The therapeutic use of BDSM for healing and empowerment. * Embracing our authentic selves as a path to transformation and enlightenment. Notable Quotes: * "Healing from trauma opens the door to profound self-love and personal growth." * "Embracing our authentic selves is the key to transformative power in sexuality." Timestamps: 00:02:30 - Introduction to Francesca Gentille's journey as a sexologist and shaman  00:15:45 - Integrating science and soul in sexual healing  00:28:20 - The role of tantra and conscious non-monogamy in authentic connections  00:40:55 - Using BDSM therapeutically for healing and empowerment  00:53:10 - Practical advice for embracing authenticity in personal growth  01:05:25 - Francesca's strategies for transformative self-love and trauma healing Guest Bio:  Francesca Gentille is a certified clinical sexologist and initiated shaman specializing in the integration of science and soul in sexuality. She is an author, coach, and a beloved speaker, known for her insightful and transformative approach to healing, personal growth, and relational dynamics. Francesca's work empowers individuals to heal from trauma, embrace self-love, and cultivate meaningful, authentic connections. Connect with Francesca:  IG: http://instagram.com/francescagentille [http://instagram.com/francescagentille]  Website: https://francescagentille.com/ [https://francescagentille.com/] If you found value in today's conversation, please Subscribe, Rate us, leave us a review on your favorite podcast platform, and share this episode with someone who could benefit from these insights. Your support helps us grow and continue to bring you impactful discussions like this one. Connect with Destin:  For more on how to evolve your own masculine or feminine journey, reach out to us at:  Website: ⁠DestinGerek.com⁠  Instagram: ⁠http://instagram.com/DestinGerek⁠ [http://instagram.com/DestinGerek%E2%81%A0]  TikTok: ⁠@DestinGerek⁠  Youtube: ⁠@DivingDeepWithDestin

In this second solo episode of Diving Deep with Destin: S(e)x, Love, and Evolution, Destin Gerek unravels the profound concept of sexual attunement and its transformative power in intimate relationships. Through contrasting stories of disconnection and profound connection, Destin illustrates the critical role of presence, emotional awareness, sensitivity, resonance, responsiveness, and connection. This episode is a deep dive into how we can cultivate these six keys to create truly magical and fulfilling intimate experiences. By tuning into our partners and embracing the richness of our own emotions, we pave the way for deeper intimacy, connection, and mutual pleasure. Tune in to discover how to navigate your own path towards deeper intimacy and connection. This episode is brought to you by: Lit - Love & Intimacy Tools, a boutique sensation tools brand offering a luscious new take on adult toys. Lit pairs gorgeous, high-end sensual toys with fun practices to deepen authentic intimacy through mindful exploration of sensual pleasure. Their work is rooted in somatic arts, the science of touch, nervous system regulation, vagal nerve theory, and authentic relating. Each tool comes with an intimacy practice to enrich your connection. Use the code Destin to save 10% or get their Totally Lit Kit with all 12 tools for 25% off. ⁠https://www.litup.love/destin⁠ Use Promo Code: DESTIN to receive 10% off your order! Key Insights: * Understanding the six keys to sexual attunement: presence, emotional awareness, sensitivity, resonance, responsiveness, and connection. * Practical strategies for cultivating deeper intimacy and connection in relationships. * The transformative power of tuning into your partner and embracing emotional richness. Notable Quotes: "Sexual attunement is the key to transforming disconnection into profound connection." "By being fully present and emotionally aware, we create a space where true intimacy can flourish." Timestamps: 00:00:30 - Introduction to the solo episode and the concept of sexual attunement 00:02:00 - Exploring the role of presence in intimate relationships 00:05:00 - Emotional awareness and its impact on connection 00:10:00 - Sensitivity and resonance: tuning into your partner 00:15:30 - The importance of responsiveness in intimacy 00:20:00 - Cultivating a deep connection through attunement 00:25:00 - Stories of disconnection and transformation through attunement Biography:  Destin Gerek is a renowned expert in sexual empowerment, personal growth, and relational dynamics. He is the author of The Evolved Masculine: Be the Man the World Needs & the One She Craves, where he shares his insights and experiences on evolving masculinity and fostering authentic connections. He has helped thousands of men step into deeper embodiment, pleasure, and satisfaction. Like, Review & Subscribe:  If you found value in today's conversation, please Subscribe, Rate us, leave us a review on your favorite podcast platform, and share this episode with someone who could benefit from these life-changing insights. Your support helps us grow and continue to bring you impactful discussions like this one. Connect with Destin: For more on how to evolve your own masculine or feminine journey, reach out to us at: Website: destingerek.com [https://destingerek.com] Instagram: @destingerek [https://instagram.com/destingerek] TikTok: ⁠@DestinGerek⁠ [http://tiktok.com/@destingerek] YouTube: ⁠@DivingDeepWithDestin

In this captivating episode of Diving Deep with Destin: Sex, Love, and Evolution, Destin Gerek is joined by Shaney Marie, a guide and initiatrix of the feminine mysteries with two decades of experience in neo-tantra, archetypal dance, and erotic embodiment. Together, they explore Shaney's unique journey, from her beginnings as a stripper to becoming a spiritual guide. This conversation delves into the transformative power of erotic embodiment, the significance of integrating darker aspects of sexuality, and the profound lessons learned through embracing one's erotic nature. Destin and Shaney's shared history and experiences provide deep insights into personal and spiritual growth through the lens of sexuality. This episode is brought to you by: Lit - Love & Intimacy Tools, a boutique sensation tools brand offering a luscious new take on adult toys. Lit pairs gorgeous, high-end sensual toys with fun practices to deepen authentic intimacy through mindful exploration of sensual pleasure. Their work is rooted in somatic arts, the science of touch, nervous system regulation, vagal nerve theory, and authentic relating. Each tool comes with an intimacy practice to enrich your connection. Use the code Destin to save 10% or get their Totally Lit Kit with all 12 tools for 25% off. ⁠https://www.litup.love/destin⁠  Use Promo Code: DESTIN to receive 10% off your order! Key Insights:  * The transformative power of erotic embodiment in the journey toward authentic self-discovery.  * Strategies for integrating the darker aspects of sexuality to foster growth and personal empowerment.  * The role of neo-tantra in cultivating deep, meaningful connections and spiritual evolution. Notable Quotes: "Erotic embodiment is the gateway to profound personal and spiritual transformation."  "Integrating the darker aspects of our sexuality allows us to reclaim our full power and authenticity." Timestamps:  00:02:30 - Introduction to Shaney Marie's journey from stripper to spiritual guide  00:15:45 - The importance of erotic embodiment in personal evolution  00:28:20 - Embracing and integrating the darker aspects of sexuality  00:40:55 - Insights into neo-tantra and its impact on spiritual growth  00:53:10 - Practical advice for cultivating authentic connections through erotic embodiment  01:05:25 - Shaney's strategies for embracing the full spectrum of one's erotic nature Guest Bio:  Shaney Marie is a guide and initiatrix of the feminine mysteries with two decades of experience in neo-tantra, archetypal dance, and erotic embodiment. She specializes in helping individuals reclaim their erotic power and authenticity through deep spiritual and personal transformation. Shaney's work empowers individuals to integrate all aspects of their sexuality, fostering profound growth and meaningful connections. Connect with Shaney:  IG: @shaneymarie_enchantress  Call to Action:  If you found value in today's conversation, please Subscribe, Rate us, leave us a review on your favorite podcast platform, and share this episode with someone who could benefit from these life-changing insights. Your support helps us grow and continue to bring you impactful discussions like this one. For more on how to evolve your own masculine or feminine journey, reach out to us at:  Website: ⁠DestinGerek.com⁠  Instagram: ⁠http://instagram.com/DestinGerek⁠ [http://instagram.com/DestinGerek%E2%81%A0]  TikTok: ⁠@DestinGerek⁠  Youtube: ⁠@DivingDeepWithDestin

In this first solo episode of "Diving Deep with Destin: Sex, Love, and Evolution," Destin Gerek delves into the pervasive issues of sexual shame and trauma. Drawing from a heartfelt listener email, Destin explores the complexities of sexual abuse, the struggle for sexual self-mastery, and the journey towards embodied sexuality. Destin's candid discussion provides listeners with practical insights on his life’s work: supporting men in overcoming sexual trauma, embracing erotic self-exploration, and developing a healthier, more integrated relationship with their sexuality. Tune in to discover how to navigate your own path towards sexual empowerment and spiritual growth. This episode is brought to you by: Lit - Love & Intimacy Tools, a boutique sensation tools brand offering a luscious new take on adult toys. Lit pairs gorgeous, high-end sensual toys with fun practices to deepen authentic intimacy through mindful exploration of sensual pleasure. Their work is rooted in somatic arts, the science of touch, nervous system regulation, vagal nerve theory, and authentic relating. Each tool comes with an intimacy practice to enrich your connection.  Use the code Destin to save 10% or get their Totally Lit Kit with all 12 tools for 25% off. ⁠https://www.litup.love/destin⁠ Use Promo Code: DESTIN to receive 10% off your order! Key Insights: * Understanding the pervasive nature of sexual shame and its impact on personal development. * Practical strategies for overcoming sexual trauma and embracing erotic self-exploration. * The importance of developing a healthier, more integrated relationship with one's sexuality. Notable Quotes: "We can't spend our lives running from our traumas; we need to face them with support and intention." "Erotic self-exploration is about breaking out of habitual patterns and actively discovering what more is possible with your sexuality." Timestamps: 00:00:30 - Introduction to the solo episode and upgraded podcast production 00:02:00 - Destin's vision for a more interactive podcast experience 00:03:30 - Reading and responding to a listener's email about sexual trauma 00:06:00 - The impact of early sexual abuse and the journey towards healing 00:10:00 - Exploring the concept of erotic self-exploration and its benefits 00:15:30 - Addressing the cultural baggage of sexual shame and guilt 00:20:00 - The importance of learning to receive and the power of touch 00:24:30 - Strategies for overcoming performance anxiety in the bedroom 00:28:00 - The transformative potential of sexual self-mastery and personal growth Bio: Destin is a renowned expert in sexual empowerment, personal growth, and relational dynamics. He is the author of The Evolved Masculine: Be the Man the World Needs & the One She Craves, where he shares his insights and experiences on evolving masculinity and fostering authentic connections. He has helped thousands of men step into deeper embodiment, pleasure and satisfaction. Like, Review & Subscribe: If you found value in today's conversation, please Subscribe, Rate us, leave us a review on your favorite podcast platform, and share this episode with someone who could benefit from these life-changing insights. Your support helps us grow and continue to bring you impactful discussions like this one. Connect with Destin: For more on how to evolve your own masculine or feminine journey, reach out to us at: Website: ⁠DestinGerek.com⁠ [https://destingerek.com] Instagram: @DestinGerek⁠ [https://instagram.com/destingerek] TikTok: ⁠@DestinGerek⁠ YouTube: ⁠@DivingDeepWithDestin

In this thought-provoking episode of "Diving Deep with Destin: Sex, Love, and Evolution," Destin Gerek welcomes Ben Raya, a menswear coach and tantra facilitator, to delve into the complex dynamics of male safety, societal perceptions, and the defensive postures men often adopt when confronted with women's fears and experiences. The discussion explores why many women state they would feel safer encountering a bear in the woods than a man, what this reflects about our society, and how men can engage in meaningful self-reflection and change. This episode challenges listeners to think deeply about gender dynamics, safety, and the role of men in creating a more empathetic and secure world for all. This episode is brought to you by: Lit - Love & Intimacy Tools, a boutique sensation tools brand offering a luscious new take on adult toys. Lit pairs gorgeous, high-end sensual toys with fun practices to deepen authentic intimacy through mindful exploration of sensual pleasure. Their work is rooted in somatic arts, the science of touch, nervous system regulation, vagal nerve theory, and authentic relating. Each tool comes with an intimacy practice to enrich your connection. Use the code Destin to save 10% or get their Totally Lit Kit with all 12 tools for 25% off. ⁠https://www.litup.love/destin⁠ Use Promo Code: DESTIN to receive 10% off your order! Key Insights: * The societal implications of women's expressed preference for the safety of encountering a bear over a man. * Reflecting on the defensive reactions of men when facing criticisms related to women's safety and experiences. * Encouraging a deeper, introspective look at masculinity and how it shapes interactions and perceptions in society. Notable Quotes: * "Boys argue about whose fault it is. Men show up to help hurting people." * "Women don't feel safe around men. Not because all men are bad, but because enough men are bad and they don't know who's who." * "This is about so much more than whether or not you personally are safe or if bears in general are dangerous. This is about hearing the experience of women." Timestamps: 00:03:10 - Introduction to Ben Raya and the bear versus man safety debate 00:14:50 - Analyzing societal perceptions and personal reactions to women's fears 00:25:35 - Discussing the role of introspection in addressing and changing harmful narratives 00:37:00 - Exploring practical steps for men to engage in transformative self-awareness 00:48:15 - Insights from Ben on facilitating change and understanding within men 01:02:20 - Wrapping up: How men can actively contribute to creating safer spaces Guest Bio: Ben Raya is a mens coach and tantra facilitator known for his thoughtful approach to gender dynamics and safety. His work focuses on helping men understand and shift their perceptions and behaviors, fostering safer and more respectful environments. Ben’s insights offer profound shifts in perspective, challenging men to better themselves and the world around them. Connect with Ben: IG: @itsbenraya  Website: https://www.samavetaliving.com/ Call to Action: If you found value in today’s discussion, please Subscribe, Rate us, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform. Share this episode with those who need to hear this critical conversation. Your support allows us to continue bringing important topics and transformative insights to light. Connect with Destin: For guidance on your journey towards evolved masculinity, reach out at: Website: https://⁠DestinGerek.com⁠ [about:blank] Instagram: ⁠http://instagram.com/DestinGerek⁠ TikTok: ⁠http://tiktok.com/@DestinGerek⁠ Youtube: ⁠http://youtube.com/@DivingDeepWithDestin