Flirtations! with Benjamin, the Flirt Coach

Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we’re diving deep into the Enneagram with our special guest, retired psychotherapist and Enneagram expert Marilyn Wolf! Together, we'll discover how and why the Enneagram is a powerful tool for self-awareness, ultimately helping you develop deeper connections and more fulfilling relationships! We’ll start by exploring what the Enneagram is and why it stands out from other frameworks and systems like astrology or the Myers-Briggs. Marilyn will then walk us through the nine distinct Enneagram types, highlighting the unique characteristics, motivations, and frustrations of each one, sharing why it's our difference that present opportunities for growth and connection. We’ll also touch on the concept of wings in the Enneagram, providing insight into how these adjacent types influence our core personality. Whether you're new to the Enneagram or looking to deepen your understanding, this episode will equip you with the knowledge to navigate your relationships with greater awareness and intention. I hope you'll join us for an engaging discussion that promises to enhance your self-discovery journey and interpersonal dynamics. Let's do this, flirties! Then, don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review Flirtations on your favorite podcast platform, and share this episode to spread BFE - big flirt energy, all over the world! Enjoying the show and want to support my work? Buy the Flirt Coach a coffee [https://buymeacoffee.com/benjamincamras]! To learn more about the book "The Essential Enneagram," click here [https://www.amazon.com/Essential-Enneagram-Definitive-Personality-Self-Discovery/dp/0061713163]! For a free Enneagram assessment, click here [https://www.truity.com/test/enneagram-personality-test-super]! Go deeper and explore the Enneagram more on the Enneagram Institute website [https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/]. Bio: In 2020, Marilyn had a dream in which a man on the beach told her it was time to turn to the Enneagram to learn about herself. She dove in and has been involved ever since. Even though she has been teaching for many years, she still considers herself a student because, as she says, "The Enneagram is a bottomless well."  Over the years, Marilyn has facilitated introductory and advanced workshops, weekend retreats, staff development programs, and has led many small group studies including one that has been meeting continuously since 2016. Her emphasis is always on using the Enneagram as a map for deeper self-awareness and more awakened living including greater compassion for self and others. About your host:  Benjamin is a flirt and dating coach sharing his love of flirting and BFE - big flirt energy, with the world! A lifelong introvert and socially anxious member of society, Benjamin now helps singles and daters alike flirt with more confidence, clarity, and fun! As the flirt is all about connection, Benjamin helps the flirt community (the flirties!) date from a place that allows the value of connection in all forms - platonic, romantic, and with the self - to take center stage and transform lives for greater healing and deeper connections. You can connect with Benjamin on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/benjamincamras/], TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@benjamincamras], stream the Flirtations Flirtcast [https://benjamincamras.podbean.com/]everywhere you listen to podcasts (like right here!), and find out more about working together 1:1 here [https://stan.store/benjamincamras]. 💗 Happy flirting!

There are some questions I get every Flirt Friday. And one of those questions is, “How do I flirt at the gym?” Welp, that’s what this Flirtini is all about as we break a sweat and break the ice! Inside the episode, we welcome fitness instructor and personal trainer Jonathan Tylicki to the show to help answer all of your flirting at the gym related questions! Questions like … * Why is the gym/fitness related places so good for flirting? * How can I make an approach to flirt? Who should make the first move? * How can I signal that I want to be approached? * What if someone has headphones in, how can I get their attention? * Can I flirt with my instructor or personal trainer? * Is asking someone to spot you a good flirting tip? * What are some ice breakers and conversation starters? * What is flirting, anyway? * What if the flirt doesn't go the way I wanted it to? * What are some mindset strategies I can use to flirt with more confidence? Find the answers to all of these questions and more in this episode! Then, don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review Flirtations on your favorite podcast platform, and share this episode to spread BFE - big flirt energy, all over the world! Enjoying the show and want to support my work? Buy the Flirt Coach a coffee [https://buymeacoffee.com/benjamincamras]! About our guest:  Jonathan is originally from Cleveland, Ohio, where he studied Sociology at John Carroll University. His passion for performing brought him to NYC, launching his professional career in dance and musical theatre. Always aware of the key importance of fitness and nutrition, he wanted to spread his passion and knowledge which brought him to attain a Personal Trainer Certification and start teaching Group Fitness. Now living in SoCal, with over a decade of fitness experience, Jonathan has taken his expertise to the global level, working with the largest fitness franchisor as the Director of Education for Learning and Development. You can connect with Jonathan on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/jonathantylicki/], Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/jonathantylicki], and LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/in/jonathan-tylicki-9a094564/]! About your host:  Benjamin is a flirt and dating coach sharing his love of flirting and BFE - big flirt energy, with the world! A lifelong introvert and socially anxious member of society, Benjamin now helps singles and daters alike flirt with more confidence, clarity, and fun! As the flirt is all about connection, Benjamin helps the flirt community (the flirties!) date from a place that allows the value of connection in all forms - platonic, romantic, and with the self - to take center stage and transform lives for greater healing and deeper connections. You can connect with Benjamin on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/benjamincamras/], TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@benjamincamras], stream the Flirtations Flirtcast [https://benjamincamras.podbean.com/]everywhere you listen to podcasts (like right here!), and find out more about working together 1:1 here [https://stan.store/benjamincamras]. 💗 Happy flirting!

It’s the LOVE episode of Flirtations y’all, with Shaun Galanos! The creator behind @thelovedrive and co-host of the “We Can Do Better” podcast is on the show to take us on a journey as we talk about love! Along the way, we’ll answer questions like, “what is love?” “How can we create more of it in our lives?” Whether you're dating, in a relationship, not really looking, or maybe just confused about it all, love is a universal energy that is part of all our relationships, including the one with ourselves! We’ll also share some common obstacles that hold us back from fully embracing love, and what we can do to be more open to the experience in dating and in our relationships. We’ve also got a discussion on one of the biggest questions in dating, when to say "I love you," offering tips on when and how to express this feeling! Finally, Shaun spills some of his best flirting tips, strategies to strike up a conversation, and ways to make the first move! And who should make the first move, anyway? Shaun has an answer! You don’t wanna miss this episode as we explore love and its many dimensions! Let’s go! Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review Flirtations on your favorite podcast platform, and share this episode to spread BFE - big flirt energy, all over the world! Enjoying the show and want to support my work? Buy the Flirt Coach a coffee [https://buymeacoffee.com/benjamincamras]! About our guest:  Shaun Galanos is a speaker & coach who helps people have better, more loving relationships through open, honest, and playful communication.  While his formal background is in interpersonal communication and personal and professional coaching, most of his teachings come from his experiences trying to build healthy relationships with those around him and years of personal therapy.  Hosting experts on his podcast, creating endless Q&A reels on Instagram, and coaching people through his courses and workshops have also informed how he empowers folks to communicate openly, honestly, and playfully about their sex and love life. You can connect with Shaun learn more about his work on his Substack [https://shaungalanos.substack.com/] and Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/thelovedrive/]! About your host:  Benjamin is a flirt and dating coach sharing his love of flirting and BFE - big flirt energy, with the world! A lifelong introvert and socially anxious member of society, Benjamin now helps singles and daters alike flirt with more confidence, clarity, and fun! As the flirt is all about connection, Benjamin helps the flirt community (the flirties!) date from a place that allows the value of connection in all forms - platonic, romantic, and with the self - to take center stage and transform lives for greater healing and deeper connections. You can connect with Benjamin on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/benjamincamras/], TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@benjamincamras], stream the Flirtations Flirtcast [https://benjamincamras.podbean.com/]everywhere you listen to podcasts (like right here!), and find out more about working together 1:1 here [https://stan.store/benjamincamras]. 💗 Happy flirting!

Coming up on this episode, we're venturing into the world of asexuality, aromanticism, and demisexuality with guest, creator, educator and author, Cody Daigle-Orians! Please join us as we explore what each of these identities mean, how to figure out where you fit on the spectrum, and practical dating and flirting strategies! We also discuss the important topic of when and how to share this information with potential partners and talk about whether these identities can be fluid over time. We also speak to the stigma and the feeling of not fitting in that many people with these identities experience!  Finally, we provide valuable insights on how to communicate your needs and boundaries when dating, ensuring you can form meaningful connections while staying true to yourself. We venture in and out of grounding these identities in a "coming out" process, but you do not need to identify as queer to be ace, aro, or demi! Each of these identities exist outside of the queer specturm of identities. I hope you enjoy this conversation and learn a lot, just as I did! Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review Flirtations on your favorite podcast platform, and share this episode to spread BFE - big flirt energy, all over the world! Enjoying the show and want to support my work? Buy the Flirt Coach a coffee [https://buymeacoffee.com/benjamincamras]! About our guest:  Cody Daigle-Orians (they/them) is a writer and asexuality educator living in Columbus, Ohio. They are the creator of Ace Dad Advice, a social media-based asexuality education project designed to support people exploring asexuality or questioning their sexual orientation. They are the author of the young adult books "I AM ACE: ADVICE ON LIVING YOUR BEST ASEXUAL LIFE" and "THE ACE AND ARO RELATIONSHIP GUIDE", and they are a contributor to the 2024 Lambda Literary Award finalist anthology BEING ACE. They were nominated for a 2023 British LGBTQ Award for Online Influencer. They are queer, ace, and agender. You can connect with Cody online at www.acedadadvice.com, [http://www.acedadadvice.com/] as well as Instagram, Tik Tok, YouTube @acedadadvice. Explore Cody's writing on substack at acedadadvice.substack.com! [http://acedadadvice.substack.com/] About your host:  Benjamin is a flirt and dating coach sharing his love of flirting and BFE - big flirt energy, with the world! A lifelong introvert and socially anxious member of society, Benjamin now helps singles and daters alike flirt with more confidence, clarity, and fun! As the flirt is all about connection, Benjamin helps the flirt community (the flirties!) date from a place that allows the value of connection in all forms - platonic, romantic, and with the self - to take center stage and transform lives for greater healing and deeper connections. You can connect with Benjamin on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/benjamincamras/], TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@benjamincamras], stream the Flirtations Flirtcast [https://benjamincamras.podbean.com/]everywhere you listen to podcasts (like right here!), and find out more about working together 1:1 here [https://stan.store/benjamincamras]. 💗 Happy flirting!

Coming up in this Flirtini, we're untangling the difference between anxiety and intuition! How can you distinguish the uneasy feeling of anxiety from your intuition speaking to you? Are they one in the same? Knowing the difference can significantly shape your dating experience, help you stay more grounded and focused, and allow for better decision making! Episode Highlights: * Anxiety vs. Intuition: What is the difference? What are some ways to tell? * Identifying Anxiety in Dating: How does anxiety manifest? What are the different ways the nervous system and the body process anxiety? * Understanding Intuition: How can I know when my inner knowing is telling me something? * Trusting Your Gut: Explore ways to strengthen your connection to your intuition, making it easier to trust your gut feelings in dating scenarios. * Guided Meditation: To conclude, I've got a meditation designed to help you connect with your intuition, creating clarity and confidence in your dating life! Whether you're struggling with anxiety or trying to hone your intuitive skills, this episode will help you trust yourself more in your dating adventures! For the YouTube (Flirttube!) version of the meditation, click here! [https://youtu.be/D6qGwGRs4vY?feature=shared] (and subscribe so you don't miss a thing! 😍) Then don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review Flirtations on your favorite podcast platform, and share this episode to spread BFE - big flirt energy, all over the world! Enjoying the show and want to support my work? Buy the Flirt Coach a coffee [https://buymeacoffee.com/benjamincamras]! About your host:  Benjamin is a flirt and dating coach sharing his love of flirting and BFE - big flirt energy, with the world! A lifelong introvert and socially anxious member of society, Benjamin now helps singles and daters alike flirt with more confidence, clarity, and fun! As the flirt is all about connection, Benjamin helps the flirt community (the flirties!) date from a place that allows the value of connection in all forms - platonic, romantic, and with the self - to take center stage and transform lives for greater healing and deeper connections. You can connect with Benjamin on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/benjamincamras/], TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@benjamincamras], stream the Flirtations Flirtcast [https://benjamincamras.podbean.com/]everywhere you listen to podcasts (like right here!), and find out more about working together 1:1 here [https://stan.store/benjamincamras]. 💗 Happy flirting!