Episode 6: Playing the Field, Trusting the Process
In Episode 6 of Get a Job with Andrew and Riley, the conversation turns to one of the strangest parts of a ministry job search, navigating multiple church conversations at the same time. Riley shares what it feels like to be in several different interview processes at once, each moving at its own pace, asking similar questions, and creating the challenge of remembering who said what, when, and where.
Andrew and Riley unpack the tension of trying to discern God’s leading while one church moves quickly, another drags its feet, and a third stays just active enough to keep hope alive. They talk candidly about interview fatigue, the mental energy it takes to stay organized, and the awkward reality that ministry candidates often have to “date multiple churches” at the same time while still trying to be sincere, thoughtful, and honest.
The episode also explores the hidden layers of the process, comparing church websites and livestreams, reading staff culture through lunch meetings and campus tours, and asking deeper questions about long-term fit, family health, and whether a church is truly a place to settle or simply a place to land. Along the way, the conversation stays funny, grounded, and honest about the emotional roller coaster of receiving silence, hearing no, and trying to keep going anyway.
Most importantly, this episode reflects on what God does in the waiting. Riley opens up about learning patience, leaning into spiritual disciplines, seeking wise counsel, and trusting that the awkward in-between is not wasted time. For pastors, ministry leaders, and anyone navigating an uncertain season, this episode is a reminder that calling is often clarified not just in the outcome, but in the process itself.
A few key themes from this episode:
multiple church interviews
ministry search fatigue
discerning God’s will
church staffing processes
interview strategy and organization
staff culture and chemistry
family considerations in ministry transitions
trusting God in the waiting