Inner Self-Confidence

43. Restorative Justice: What If Healing Matters More Than Punishment? with Author, Speaker and Survivor Advocate, Marlee Liss

What if healing mattered more than punishment? In this powerful episode, I sit down with Marlee Liss — author, speaker, survivor advocate, and founder of Survivors 4 Justice Reform — to discuss trauma, healing, and her groundbreaking experience with restorative justice following sexual assault. Restorative justice is an alternative approach that brings together those harmed and those responsible in a structured, trauma-informed process focused on accountability, healing, and repair rather than punishment alone. Marlee shares her personal story, why the traditional justice system failed to meet her needs as a survivor, and how restorative justice became a pivotal part of her healing journey. We explore shame, post-traumatic growth, self-trust, advocacy, nervous system healing, and the conversations we're still not having around sexual violence and survivor support. Whether you're a survivor, supporting someone you love, or simply curious about new approaches to justice and healing, this conversation will leave you thinking differently about what recovery can look like. Connect with Marlee 📸 Instagram https://www.instagram.com/marleeliss/ [https://www.instagram.com/marleeliss/] 🎁 Free Resources https://www.marleeliss.com/resource [https://www.marleeliss.com/resource] 📖 Join the Pre-Order List for The First Wave (Penguin, February 2027) https://www.marleeliss.com/firstwave [https://www.marleeliss.com/] 💜 Survivors 4 Justice Reform https://www.instagram.com/survivors4justicereform/ [https://www.instagram.com/survivors4justicereform/] Connect with Katie Delimon 📸 Instagram https://instagram.com/katiedelimon [https://instagram.com/katiedelimon] 📘 Get my memoir Trust the Flames https://www.katiedelimon.com/trust-the-flames [https://www.katiedelimon.com/trust-the-flames] 💫 Inner Self Confidence Coaching https://www.katiedelimon.com/inner-self-confidence [https://www.katiedelimon.com/inner-self-confidence] 📞 Book a Free Strategy Call https://calendly.com/katie-katiedelimon/30min [https://calendly.com/katie-katiedelimon/30min] 🧠 Nervous System Reboot (Self-Paced Program) https://www.katiedelimon.com/nervous-system-reboot [https://www.katiedelimon.com/nervous-system-reboot]

BONUS EPISODE: Personal Essay - The Same Moment, Four Times (Time Is a Strange Animal)

Time does not always move in straight lines. Sometimes memories return in loops. Sometimes the body remembers what the mind is not yet ready to hold. In this personal essay, Katie Delimon explores trauma, nonlinear memory, nervous-system protection, family secrets, and the strange way certain truths keep returning over a lifetime until we are finally ready to face them. From a childhood moment in New Jersey… to a late-night conversation with her brother at eighteen… to a silent Vipassana retreat in Australia… to an AncestryDNA result that changed everything at thirty-eight — this is a story about time, identity, intuition, and the quiet intelligence of the body. Healing isn’t forgetting. Healing is finally becoming safe enough to remember. — Katie has been featured in HuffPost [https://www.huffpost.com/?utm_source=chatgpt.com], Mamamia [https://www.mamamia.com.au/?utm_source=chatgpt.com], Daily Mail Australia [https://www.dailymail.co.uk/auhome/index.html?utm_source=chatgpt.com], Women’s Agenda [https://womensagenda.com.au/?utm_source=chatgpt.com] and more. 📸 Instagram: ⁠@katiedelimon [https://instagram.com/katiedelimon?utm_source=chatgpt.com] 📘 Grab Trust the Flames: Trust the Flames [https://www.katiedelimon.com/trust-the-flames?utm_source=chatgpt.com] 🎙️ Listen to my last BONUS EPISODE Personal Essay — How I Learned to Leave: How I Learned to Leave (Spotify) [https://open.spotify.com/episode/5wLiZdzdFo9UHgMqpr4G50?si=eJdRUcwwRWKUCG62i36ebg&utm_source=chatgpt.com] 📰 Media Features:⁠ Media Features⁠ [https://www.katiedelimon.com/media?utm_source=chatgpt.com] 🔗 Inner Self Confidence: Inner Self Confidence Program [https://www.katiedelimon.com/inner-self-confidence?utm_source=chatgpt.com] 🤍 Let’s jump on a free strategy call: Book a Free Strategy Call [https://calendly.com/katie-katiedelimon/30min?utm_source=chatgpt.com] 🧠 Nervous System Reboot – Self-Paced Digital Program: Nervous System Reboot [https://www.katiedelimon.com/nervous-system-reboot?utm_source=chatgpt.com]

42. She Turned EXTREME Trauma into Therapy That Actually Works, with Jessica Ella, Founder of Aaruka Therapy

In this deeply powerful conversation, I sit down with women’s healing expert, and creator of Aaruka Therapy, Jessica Ella — a woman whose story will leave you speechless. After surviving horrific childhood abuse, being diagnosed with anxiety, depression, dissociative disorders, Stockholm Syndrome, and Lyme disease, Jessica could have stayed trapped in survival mode forever. Instead… she healed. Not overnight. Not perfectly. But powerfully. In this episode, we explore: ✨ How trauma impacts the nervous system ✨ What healing actually looks like (spoiler: it’s not linear) ✨ Rebuilding trust in yourself after betrayal ✨ Why so many women stay stuck in unfulfilling relationships ✨ The emotional roots of chronic illness & Lyme disease ✨ Motherhood, resilience, and breaking generational cycles ✨ The first steps someone can take if they’re carrying silent pain This isn’t an episode focused on the graphic details of trauma. It’s about what happens AFTER survival. It’s about possibility. It’s about healing. ✨ Connect with Jessica Ella 🌐 Website: https://www.jessicaella.com.au [https://www.jessicaella.com.au/] 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamjessicaella [https://www.instagram.com/iamjessicaella] 🌐 Connect with Me Online 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/katiedelimon [https://instagram.com/katiedelimon] 📘 Get my book Trust the Flames: https://www.katiedelimon.com/trust-the-flames [https://www.katiedelimon.com/trust-the-flames] 🔗 Inner Self Confidence https://www.katiedelimon.com/inner-self-confidence [https://www.katiedelimon.com/inner-self-confidence] ✨ Let’s jump on a free strategy call: https://calendly.com/katie-katiedelimon/30min [https://calendly.com/katie-katiedelimon/30min] 🧠 Nervous System Reboot — Self-Paced Digital Program https://www.katiedelimon.com/nervous-system-reboot [https://www.katiedelimon.com/nervous-system-reboot]

41. 10 Days of Silence (Vipassana) Changed Nothing — And Everything

10 Days of Silence Changed Nothing — And Everything No phone. No talking. No eye contact. No distractions. Just you, your breath, and every part of yourself you've been avoiding. I just got back from my seventh Vipassana meditation retreat. My first in six years. And I want to tell you everything. Vipassana means insight meditation — it's the exact technique the Buddha practiced under the Bodhi tree 2,500 years ago. It's not religious. There's nothing to believe in or recite. All you do is observe your breath and the sensations in your body. Simple. Brutally hard. And more life-changing than anything I've ever done. In this episode I share: 🧘 The four reasons I keep going back — including why I do it specifically BECAUSE it's hard 🧠 Why nervous system capacity doesn't grow through comfort — it grows through safely experiencing discomfort 🔇 What 10 days of zero stimulation actually does to an overstimulated brain 😮 Why this retreat — after six years away and more going on in my life than ever — produced the deepest states of bliss I've ever experienced 🦵 The extraordinary thing that happened with physical pain — and why the times I resisted hurt the most ⏱️ Why 10 days won't change your life — but 36,000 seconds a day of choosing to come back instead of escape will change you from the inside out 🌿 What Vipassana confirms about the mind, the body, and where ALL suffering actually begins The most radical act of self-confidence is sitting with yourself. Quietly. Without running. This episode is for anyone who feels overstimulated, overwhelmed, or disconnected from themselves — and is ready to understand what their mind is truly capable of. Connect with Me Online: 📷 Instagram: https://instagram.com/katiedelimon [https://instagram.com/katiedelimon] 📖 Get my book Trust the Flames: https://www.katiedelimon.com/trust-the-flames [https://www.katiedelimon.com/trust-the-flames] 🔗 Inner Self Confidence https://www.katiedelimon.com/inner-self-confidence [https://www.katiedelimon.com/inner-self-confidence] Let's jump on a free strategy call (Link) https://calendly.com/katie-katiedelimon/30min [https://calendly.com/katie-katiedelimon/30min]

BONUS EPISODE: How I Learned to Leave — A Personal Essay

This bonus episode is a personal reading of my recent essay How I Learned to Leave, written for An Anthology of Departures, Goodbyes, and Becoming. Leaving is rarely about simply walking away. Sometimes it’s leaving relationships, places, old identities, family patterns, or versions of ourselves that no longer fit. In this deeply personal piece, I share my journey of leaving America for Australia, leaving familiarity, and learning the difference between running from your life and running toward it. Because sometimes leaving isn't abandonment. Sometimes leaving is becoming. 📰 Recent Articles: HuffPost Article https://www.huffpost.com/entry/ancestry-dna-test-mom-secret-silence_n_6a026446e4b0b1a48de8b1a1 [https://www.huffpost.com/entry/ancestry-dna-test-mom-secret-silence_n_6a026446e4b0b1a48de8b1a1] Mamamia Article https://www.mamamia.com.au/ancestry-dna-secret-father/ [https://www.mamamia.com.au/ancestry-dna-secret-father/] 🌐 Connect with Me Online: 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/katiedelimon [https://instagram.com/katiedelimon] 📘 Get my book Trust the Flames: https://www.katiedelimon.com/trust-the-flames [https://www.katiedelimon.com/trust-the-flames] 🔗 Inner Self Confidence: https://www.katiedelimon.com/inner-self-confidence [https://www.katiedelimon.com/inner-self-confidence] 📞 Let’s jump on a free strategy call: https://calendly.com/katie-katiedelimon/30min [https://calendly.com/katie-katiedelimon/30min] 💫 Nervous System Reboot – Self-Paced Digital Program: https://www.katiedelimon.com/nervous-system-reboot [https://www.katiedelimon.com/nervous-system-reboot]