Episode 282: The New School Leader's Playbook with Erika Bare & Tiffany Burns

Episode 282: The New School Leader's Playbook with Erika Bare & Tiffany Burns

Landing your first leadership position is exciting...until reality sets in. The meetings, the emails, the difficult conversations, the angry parents, and the constant interruptions can quickly pull new administrators away from the work they were most excited to do: leading people and supporting learning. In this episode of Leaning Into Leadership, Dr. Darrin Peppard is joined by Erika Bare and Tiffany Burns, experienced school leaders and co-authors, for a practical conversation about surviving—and thriving—in your first years of school leadership. Together they share strategies for preparing for difficult conversations, building a trusted support network, protecting your time, and leading with intentionality rather than reacting to every urgent issue. Whether you're stepping into your first assistant principal role, becoming a building principal, or mentoring a new leader, this episode is packed with immediately actionable advice. IN THIS EPISODE, YOU'LL LEARN: * Why every school leader needs a trusted "work bestie" * How preparation reduces anxiety before difficult conversations * The planning process that leads to more effective communication * Common mistakes leaders make during challenging meetings * Strategies for working with frustrated parents and caregivers * Why attacking the problem—not the person—is essential * How to respond when someone asks, "Do you have a minute?" * Practical ways to protect your calendar and prioritize instructional leadership * Why saying "no" is sometimes the best leadership decision * How intentional time management creates better leaders and healthier lives MEMORABLE QUOTES > "Action is the antidote to anxiety." > "School leadership is not a solo sport." > "Never sacrifice the important at the altar of the urgent." > "You are worth so much more than a minute." CONNECT WITH ERIKA BARE & TIFFANY BURNS Visit Connecting Through Conversation for resources, blog posts, free planning guides, and information about their books and professional learning opportunities. Facebook https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090370647418&mibextid=LQQJ4d [https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090370647418&mibextid=LQQJ4d] Instagram https://www.instagram.com/connectingthroughconversation/ [https://www.instagram.com/connectingthroughconversation/] Linked In Erika Bare https://linkedin.com/in/erika-bare-6a72a6215 [http://linkedin.com/in/erika-bare-6a72a6215] Linkedin Tiffany Burns https://linkedin.com/in/tiffany-burns-90a50a274 [http://linkedin.com/in/tiffany-burns-90a50a274] LinkedinCTC https://www.linkedin.com/company/connecting-through-conversation/ [https://www.linkedin.com/company/connecting-through-conversation/] Twitter https://twitter.com/CTCPlaybook.com [https://twitter.com/CTCPlaybook.com] Youtube https://www.youtube.com/@CTCPlaybook [https://www.youtube.com/@CTCPlaybook] Sponsor Spotlight: This episode is sponsored by HeyTutor. HeyTutor partners with schools and districts nationwide to provide evidence-based high-dosage tutoring support in Math and ELA while helping schools remain intentional about staff capacity and student support systems. Learn more here: HeyTutor.com [https://heytutor.com/?utm_source=RTA&utm_medium=RTA&utm_campaign=RTA ]

Episode 281: Be the Light with Dr. Chris Culver

Dr. Chris Culver returns to Leaning Into Leadership for a powerful follow-up conversation centered around his new book, Be the Light: The Science of Kindness and the Power of Belonging. If you enjoyed Chris's first appearance on Episode 214: The Science of Kindness, you're going to love where this conversation goes next. While Episode 214 explored the research behind kindness, this discussion takes a deeper look at how belonging, empathy, neuroscience, and intentional leadership can transform the cultures we create and the lives we touch. In this episode, Darrin and Chris explore: * Why every person is wired for belonging * How kindness is a leadership strategy—not a weakness * The connection between stress, burnout, and human connection * The story behind Be the Light and its journey from darkness to hope * The powerful "Light Manifesto" and what it means to choose kindness every day * A memorable classroom story that illustrates the importance of perspective and self-compassion * Three practical strategies you can implement immediately: * The six-second pause * Gratitude as a daily leadership practice * Self-affirmation and the power of positive identity Throughout the conversation, Chris reminds us that kindness isn't one more thing to add to our already overflowing to-do list—it is the thing that changes everything. NEW TO DR. CHRIS CULVER? Be sure to go back and listen to Episode 214: The Science of Kindness, where we explore the research and foundations behind many of the ideas that inspired this new book. Together, these two conversations provide a powerful roadmap for leaders who want to build cultures rooted in connection, compassion, and belonging. ABOUT DR. CHRIS CULVER Dr. Christopher Culver is an author, keynote speaker, educator, and founder of Orange Sparrow, where he helps organizations transform through The Science of Kindness. A former teacher, principal, and district leader, Chris blends neuroscience, vulnerability, and leadership to help people create cultures rooted in belonging, compassion, and connection. His newest book, Be the Light: The Science of Kindness and the Power of Belonging, provides research-backed insights and practical strategies for leaders, educators, and anyone looking to make a meaningful impact in the lives of others. KEY TAKEAWAY "Kindness is not one more thing. It is the thing that changes everything." CONNECT WITH DR. CHRIS CULVER 🌐 Website: https://drchrisculver.com [https://drchrisculver.com/] 🧡 Orange Sparrow: https://orangesparrow.org [https://orangesparrow.org/] 📖 Be the Light: The Science of Kindness and the Power of Belonging [https://a.co/d/0i5jcKDf] 📚 The Orange Sparrow's Journey [https://a.co/d/0hZOp5RA] (English/Spanish edition with companion curriculum) Previous Conversation with Dr. Chris Culver: 🎙️ Episode 214: The Science of Kindness [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/leaning-into-leadership/id1605493835?i=1000712956349] – Explore the research, neuroscience, and foundational principles that sparked the ideas expanded upon in Be the Light. Sponsor Spotlight: This episode is sponsored by HeyTutor. HeyTutor partners with schools and districts nationwide to provide evidence-based high-dosage tutoring support in Math and ELA while helping schools remain intentional about staff capacity and student support systems. Learn more here: HeyTutor.com [https://heytutor.com/?utm_source=RTA&utm_medium=RTA&utm_campaign=RTA ]

Episode 280: Leadership in the Age of AI with Molly Rosen

What does leadership look like when the world is changing faster than ever before? In this episode of the Leaning Into Leadership podcast, Dr. Darrin Peppard sits down with Molly Rosen, Co-CEO of ProjectNext Leadership, for a powerful conversation about leadership transitions, succession development, organizational agility, and the growing impact of AI on leadership and workplace culture. Molly works with leaders across industries including tech, biotech, and entertainment, helping organizations prepare leaders for critical next-level roles. Together, Darrin and Molly explore why the skills that make someone successful in one role often do not transfer automatically into leadership — and why emotional intelligence, communication, humility, and adaptability matter now more than ever. The conversation dives into: * The transition from “player” to “coach” leadership * Why many leaders struggle to let go of their previous role * The dangers of over-relying on technical expertise * Succession development and building leadership pipelines * How AI is reshaping organizations and leadership expectations * The importance of organizational agility * Why leaders must communicate vision without pretending to have all the answers * “Sketch-based advocacy” and collaborative leadership * The role of empathy and emotional intelligence during uncertainty and change * Why leadership today is more about building teams than directing them Molly also shares her own leadership growth journey and the importance of prioritization and sequencing ideas as a leader. This episode is a must-listen for school leaders, organizational leaders, and anyone navigating leadership in rapidly changing environments. ABOUT MOLLY ROSEN Molly Rosen is Co-CEO of ProjectNext Leadership. She has worked with leaders in tech, entertainment, and biotech for over 20 years as an executive coach, facilitator, and consultant developing innovative talent systems. Her clients have included organizations such as Pixar, Airbnb, DocuSign, and Samsung, where she has helped leaders prepare for critical transitions and organizational change. Molly previously held leadership roles with BlessingWhite and Ninth House Network and holds an MBA from UCLA Anderson and a BA from UC Berkeley. CONNECT WITH MOLLY ROSEN LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mollyrosen/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/mollyrosen/] Website: https://www.projectnextleadership.com/ [https://www.projectnextleadership.com/] Sponsor Spotlight: This episode is sponsored by HeyTutor. HeyTutor partners with schools and districts nationwide to provide evidence-based high-dosage tutoring support in Math and ELA while helping schools remain intentional about staff capacity and student support systems. Learn more here: HeyTutor.com [https://heytutor.com/?utm_source=RTA&utm_medium=RTA&utm_campaign=RTA ]

Episode 279: Burn the Script with Jo Lein

In this episode, Darrin sits down with leadership coach and new author Jo Lein to explore what really drives change in people and organizations—and why most coaching efforts fall short when they focus only on skills. Jo introduces the concept of Disruptive Mindset Coaching, challenging leaders to move beyond surface-level fixes and address the beliefs that shape behavior. TOPICS COVERED: * The difference between skill gaps and belief barriers * Why people aren’t “uncoachable”—they’re often operating from protective patterns * The three common patterns that show up in resistant behavior: * Detaching * Surrendering * Overcompensating * How identity, values, and skill all influence leadership behavior * Why systems in education are built on underlying beliefs—and how those beliefs shape outcomes * The danger of compliance culture in schools * What it means to “burn the script” as a leader * How leaders can create environments where innovation and growth are possible ABOUT JO LEIN: Jo Lein is a leadership coach, writer, and educator who helps leaders break through limiting beliefs and transform practice. She is the author of Burn the Script [https://www.amazon.com/Burn-Script-Thinking-Transform-Practice/dp/B0GZZVYDQV/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&dib_tag=se&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.OV0mUdNI4qxolPa81DQIaUF9bl-5YwwjMPC4WaCdTPGBejWSjF8z0888JSuu6ktYnYT4P7Pzr7ZEsdOrCej2yx78dpjvfpnIPXPHX2rSBymlSLqlzxwDc2Bx1qqfOgwtXzzhZ9573-0BPlfpGAy00ncuIBMN9F_BKdMvc7N15msqs9q5fdKwrMcYlKUAPf2vsdR4cTKcknJnwG-aobvk10XykdNxrY9vq2fYAjRC3KI.li6rfa6R1IlEvByQpjl14uvqe9D5fl88QrWcyUGRCp4&qid=1779314267&sr=8-1], [https://www.amazon.com/Burn-Script-Thinking-Transform-Practice/dp/B0GZZVYDQV/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&dib_tag=se&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.OV0mUdNI4qxolPa81DQIaUF9bl-5YwwjMPC4WaCdTPGBejWSjF8z0888JSuu6ktYnYT4P7Pzr7ZEsdOrCej2yx78dpjvfpnIPXPHX2rSBymlSLqlzxwDc2Bx1qqfOgwtXzzhZ9573-0BPlfpGAy00ncuIBMN9F_BKdMvc7N15msqs9q5fdKwrMcYlKUAPf2vsdR4cTKcknJnwG-aobvk10XykdNxrY9vq2fYAjRC3KI.li6rfa6R1IlEvByQpjl14uvqe9D5fl88QrWcyUGRCp4&qid=1779314267&sr=8-1] where she introduces her framework for Disruptive Mindset Coaching. CONNECT WITH JO: * TikTok & Instagram: @educoachbyjo * Substack: jolein.substack.com Sponsor Spotlight: This episode is sponsored by HeyTutor. HeyTutor partners with schools and districts nationwide to provide evidence-based high-dosage tutoring support in Math and ELA while helping schools remain intentional about staff capacity and student support systems. Learn more here: HeyTutor.com [https://heytutor.com/?utm_source=RTA&utm_medium=RTA&utm_campaign=RTA ]

Episode 278: Compliance Can Control a Team. Alignment Can Transform One.

What happens when strong leaders slowly stop speaking? In this reflective solo episode, Dr. Darrin Peppard explores the hidden cost of compliance-based leadership cultures and the long-term impact they can have on trust, alignment, and organizational health. Drawing from personal leadership experiences, conversations with leaders around the country, and John Maxwell’s “Law of the Lid,” Darrin unpacks what happens when high-capacity leaders find themselves working in environments driven more by control and compliance than collaboration and alignment. This episode is not about criticizing leaders. It’s about understanding how organizational cultures develop, why strong leaders sometimes disengage quietly, and how intentional alignment work can help teams rebuild trust and move forward together. IN THIS EPISODE, DARRIN DISCUSSES: * The difference between compliance-based and alignment-based leadership * John Maxwell’s “Law of the Lid” and how it impacts organizations * Why strong leaders often become quieter instead of combative * The emotional and cultural impact of low-trust leadership environments * How political behavior and silence slowly erode healthy culture * Why leadership alignment matters more than forced compliance * The importance of creating trust, contribution, and shared ownership * How leaders can still positively influence culture within their sphere KEY TAKEAWAYS: * Compliance may create short-term control, but alignment creates long-term health. * Silence inside leadership teams is often a warning sign, not a sign of agreement. * Healthy organizations allow honest dialogue, healthy tension, and contribution. * Leadership culture outlives individual leaders—for better or worse. * Alignment work is intentional work. SPONSOR This episode is sponsored by HeyTutor. HeyTutor partners with schools and districts nationwide to provide evidence-based high-dosage tutoring support in Math and ELA while helping schools remain intentional about staff capacity and student support systems. Learn more here: HeyTutor [https://heytutor.com/?utm_source=RTA&utm_medium=RTA&utm_campaign=RTA ]