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Host Jake Deptula and family law attorney Michele Locke are joined by Lori Morrison, a retired private investigator, speaker, author, podcaster, and church safety coach.  Lori shares her insights into spiritual abuse, the role of women within religious communities, and offers advice for those seeking guidance in handling church-related disputes. The episode also covers Lori’s journey into private investigation and her continued dedication to helping victims through her podcast, The Unlovely Truth. The conversation emphasizes the gender-based power dynamics prevalent in many faiths and how women need to challenge such oppressive structures respectfully but firmly, highlighting the paramount importance of understanding and asserting one's rights. Jake and Michele also discuss their personal experiences with the Catholic Church, addressing issues such as the hypocrisy observed within religious institutions and how churches handle misconduct accusations. They highlight the problematic nature of internal conflict resolution within churches and discuss the broader issues of abuse and cover-ups in various denominations.  links The Unlovely Truth Apple https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-unlovely-truth/id1490970256 [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-unlovely-truth/id1490970256] Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/0oOJagNw54yyATuQ5dI6l0 [https://open.spotify.com/show/0oOJagNw54yyATuQ5dI6l0] Lori Morrison https://theunlovelytruth.com/ [https://theunlovelytruth.com/] https://www.facebook.com/theUnlovelyTruth [https://www.facebook.com/theUnlovelyTruth] https://www.instagram.com/theunlovelytruthpodcast/ [https://www.instagram.com/theunlovelytruthpodcast/] Michele Locke https://www.michelelocke.com/ [https://www.michelelocke.com/] https://www.instagram.com/attorneymichelelocke/ [https://www.instagram.com/attorneymichelelocke/] Haley Gray | Producer & Researcher https://www.instagram.com/HaleyGrayResearch [https://www.instagram.com/HaleyGrayResearch] www.HaleyGrayResearch.com  [http://www.haleygrayresearch.com] Additional Links  National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365) Call 1.800.799.SAFE [http://1.800.799.SAFE] (7233) Text: START to 88788  https://www.thehotline.org/ [https://www.thehotline.org/] https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotline [https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotline] https://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/ [https://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/] guest + story | submission information  If you have a dating or relationship story to share, want to participate in a discussion here on lovelustfridays, or have a topic you’d like us to cover, contact us below. E-mail | lovelustfearpod@gmail.com Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/ [https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/] submission link | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfear [https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfear] subscription links Amazon Music https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748/lovelustfear [https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748/lovelustfear] Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWec [https://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWec] Apple https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283 [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283] RSS feed https://audioboom.com/channels/5125912.rss [https://audioboom.com/channels/5125912.rss] Want to hear more? Whatever app you’re listening on, just rate us and/or leave us a comment or review. Thank you for your support!  topics | #ChurchSafety #SpiritualAbuse #LoriMorrison #PrivateInvestigator #ChurchAccountability #GenderAndFaith #ReligiousReform #AbusePrevention #FaithAndJustice #WomenInChurch #TruthAndHealing #AddressingAbuse #ReligiousHypocrisy #FaithBasedAbuse #TheUnlovelyTruth #ChurchLeadership #ChurchSafetyCoach #EmpowerWomen #ReligiousCommunity #SpeakUpForJustice #SupportSurvivors

Jake Deptula, host of lovelustfear and cohost of Strictly Stalking, sits down with Terra Newell to discuss his journey and the inspiration behind his podcasts. Jake opens up about his own experiences with toxic relationships and how they shaped lovelustfear, which delves into the darker side of dating. Terra and Jake discuss the importance of providing survivors with a platform, creating safe spaces for sharing, and the challenges of covering such sensitive topics. Their conversation also touches on self-discovery, setting boundaries, and the impact of generational trauma.  Terra Newell - Instagram https://www.instagram.com/terranewell/ [https://www.instagram.com/terranewell/] Other links  https://www.terranewellsurvival.com [https://www.terranewellsurvival.com] Barking B**ches  Adopt Juneau! https://www.barknbitches.com [https://www.barknbitches.com] Book a 1 on 1 call!  HTTPS://linktr.ee/terranewell  [HTTPS://linktr.ee/terranewell%20] Terra’s 30 Day Trauma Journal https://square.link/u/DvXXYN27  [https://square.link/u/DvXXYN27%20] Exclusive Content on Patreon! http://patreon.com/Terrasbaddyclub [http://patreon.com/Terrasbaddyclub] lovelustfear - Guest Submission E-mail | lovelustfearpod@gmail.com Instagram | www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod [http://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod] Strictly Stalking - Podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/strictly-stalking/id1494237083 [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/strictly-stalking/id1494237083] https://open.spotify.com/show/5dw1NJIObaOsj0o7JdruVQ [https://open.spotify.com/show/5dw1NJIObaOsj0o7JdruVQ]

Host Jake Deptula is joined by family law attorney Michele Locke and Gabi Conti, an author, producer, and TV host known for her candid discussions on dating and relationships. This episode explores the challenges of workplace romances, the impact of dating apps, and how to recognize and address emotional and physical abuse. Gabi, who previously shared her own toxic dating story in LoveLustFear Episode 4, "We Can’t Break Up," offers valuable insights on spotting red flags and empowering others through her work, including her book 20 Guys You Date in Your 20s and her podcast Bad Influencer. Michele reflects on her own hesitations about reentering the dating scene after two decades post-divorce, while Gabi provides practical advice for navigating modern relationships—emphasizing the importance of practice, staying open-minded, and prioritizing personal well-being. The discussion also features workplace anti-fraternization policies, celebrity relationship dynamics, and essential steps for identifying and escaping toxic situations. Gabi - Episode Link "We Can’t Break Up" https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear-gabi-we-cant-break-up/id1735876283?i=1000654153175 [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear-gabi-we-cant-break-up/id1735876283?i=1000654153175] https://open.spotify.com/episode/3GFc3ga6PgAKaAOGqySQFY [https://open.spotify.com/episode/3GFc3ga6PgAKaAOGqySQFY] links Live Event 12/6 Los Angeles, CA See Gabi in Holy Cannoli Comedy at the Hollywood Improv Lab on 12/16 https://improv.com/hollywood/event/holy+cannoli+comedy+with+jaclyn+marfuggi+caprio+and+gabriella+maria+conti%21/13938693/ [https://improv.com/hollywood/event/holy+cannoli+comedy+with+jaclyn+marfuggi+caprio+and+gabriella+maria+conti%21/13938693/] Gabi Conti personal website | https://www.gabiconti.com/ [https://www.gabiconti.com/] instagram | https://www.instagram.com/itsgabiconti/ [https://www.instagram.com/itsgabiconti/] tiktok | https://www.tiktok.com/@itsgabiconti [https://www.tiktok.com/@itsgabiconti] twitter | https://twitter.com/itsgabiconti [https://twitter.com/itsgabiconti] book | https://www.gabiconti.com/book-twenty-guys-you-date-in-your-twenties-by-gabi-conti [https://www.gabiconti.com/book-twenty-guys-you-date-in-your-twenties-by-gabi-conti] bad influencer | podcast | https://link.chtbl.com/LdLb8v6u [https://link.chtbl.com/LdLb8v6u] Michele Locke https://www.michelelocke.com/ [https://www.michelelocke.com/] https://www.instagram.com/attorneymichelelocke/ [https://www.instagram.com/attorneymichelelocke/] Additional Links  National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365) Call 1.800.799.SAFE [http://1.800.799.SAFE] (7233) Text: START to 88788  https://www.thehotline.org/ [https://www.thehotline.org/] https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotline [https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotline] https://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/ [https://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/] guest + story | submission information  If you have a dating or relationship story to share, want to participate in a discussion here on lovelustfridays, or have a topic you’d like us to cover, contact us below. E-mail | lovelustfearpod@gmail.com Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/ [https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/] submission link | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfear [https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfear] subscription links Amazon Music https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748/lovelustfear [https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748/lovelustfear] Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWec [https://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWec] Apple https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283 [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283] RSS feed https://audioboom.com/channels/5125912.rss [https://audioboom.com/channels/5125912.rss] Want to hear more? Whatever app you’re listening on, just rate us and/or leave us a comment or review. Thank you for your support!

Host Jake Deptula is joined by family law attorney Michele Locke and Allyn Amerongen, a survivor, advocate, and podcaster, featured in lovelustfear episode sixteen, "It’s A Lot Worse Than We Thought." Allyn opens up about her traumatic experience in a long-distance relationship, the double-edged nature of vulnerability, and the challenges survivors face when navigating relationships after trauma. She also shares her personal journey while creating her podcast, “When Heaven Meets Hell”, and its global impact on listeners. The conversation emphasizes that survivors should never feel pressured to prove their trauma and be encouraged to embrace their truths. The episode highlights the importance of setting clear boundaries, fostering trust, and supporting survivors as they share their stories and continue their healing journeys toward recovery. **This episode of lovelustfridays contains topics including sexual abuse. Please listen with caution.** links When Heaven Meets Hell Apple https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/when-heaven-meets-hell/id1757647021 [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/when-heaven-meets-hell/id1757647021] Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/0Ck1Xm1rqmu8BgEUbZpyfE [https://open.spotify.com/show/0Ck1Xm1rqmu8BgEUbZpyfE] Amazon Music https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/596cc7d9-1ad4-4777-838a-8680c1b62cf6/when-heaven-meets-hell [https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/596cc7d9-1ad4-4777-838a-8680c1b62cf6/when-heaven-meets-hell] Allyn Amerongen Instagram https://www.instagram.com/allyn.amerongen/ [https://www.instagram.com/allyn.amerongen/] Michele Locke https://www.michelelocke.com/ [https://www.michelelocke.com/] https://www.instagram.com/attorneymichelelocke/ [https://www.instagram.com/attorneymichelelocke/] Additional Links  War Party Movement https://warpartymovement.com/ [https://warpartymovement.com/] National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365) Call 1.800.799.SAFE [http://1.800.799.SAFE] (7233) Text: START to 88788  https://www.thehotline.org/ [https://www.thehotline.org/] https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotline [https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotline] https://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/ [https://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/] guest + story | submission information  If you have a dating or relationship story to share, want to participate in a discussion here on lovelustfridays, or have a topic you’d like us to cover, contact us below. E-mail | lovelustfearpod@gmail.com Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/ [https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/] submission link | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfear [https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfear] subscription links Amazon Music https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748/lovelustfear [https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748/lovelustfear] Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWec [https://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWec] Apple https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283 [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283] RSS feed https://audioboom.com/channels/5125912.rss [https://audioboom.com/channels/5125912.rss] Want to hear more? Whatever app you’re listening on, just rate us and/or leave us a comment or review. Thank you for your support!

Allyn meets a captivating man who swiftly declares his love, asks her to be his girlfriend, and proposes. But as their long-distance relationship deepens, she uncovers his lingering connection with an ex, leading her down a dark path of deception. chapters (00:00) listen with caution (00:16) next on lovelustfear (01:40) about allyn (02:38) allyn’s story (56:35) questions & answers (01:01:54) closing thoughts (01:02:40) charity & organizations (01:03:10) submit your story (01:03:21) disclaimer quotes “My criteria was something more serious and committed in hopes of finding my person in marriage and all the things that I had kind of been shown and was striving for in life…” - Allyn “He was all the things that I hadn't experienced in conversations prior with people, and that was something that really drew me in and that I appreciated about him.” - Allyn “Within less than a week, he told me that he loved me. That was right after our first FaceTime, within probably twenty minutes of us getting off the phone. At that same time, he told me that he wanted to have kids with me, couldn't wait for me to be their Mom.” - Allyn “Within two hours, probably two hours of being there, I was with his mom…and his mom was with me and she ended up on the phone, on speaker with someone. And they said, Allyn and, and him are going to be coming by, they're with us now, we'll all be together later or something. And the person said, who's Allyn? Who's that? I can't keep track of them.” - Allyn  “And I leaned down, pull something, and out comes lingerie from under his bed. And I just froze. And I look under there, and there's also a woman's shirt and a purse. And I'm thinking really fast, how do I want to handle this?” - Allyn “...but, in my mind, I was just waiting for, we were waiting for something to happen with his work, we were waiting for a green light on something, and again, he left me in limbo. I just felt like a weird suspended state.” - Allyn topics #datingjourney #onlinedating #datingapps #socialawkwardness #whirlwindromance #commitment #engagement #intertwinedfamilies #engagement #honesty #secret #trust #stability #housing #ex-girlfriend #frustration #gaslighting #doubts #cheating #breakup #devastation #infidelity #confrontation #devastation #anger #remorse #cover-up #betrayal #trauma #mentalhealth #recovery #chronicillness #podcasting #awareness #support #podcast music | sounds Music (CC BY 4.0): Lost Place Atmospheres 002 & 003 by Sascha Ende Very Low Note by Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com [http://incompetech.com/]) Other Music and Sound Effects by Alex Wit, Yevhenii Kovalenko, Geoffrey Harvey, Cybercutie, Syouki Takahashi, Timothy Kulig, Pixabay, Samuel F. Johanns, and UNIVERSFIELD from Pixabay stay aware | follow | share (allyn) Podcast | When Heaven Meets Hell https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/when-heaven-meets-hell/id1757647021 [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/when-heaven-meets-hell/id1757647021] https://open.spotify.com/show/0Ck1Xm1rqmu8BgEUbZpyfE [https://open.spotify.com/show/0Ck1Xm1rqmu8BgEUbZpyfE] https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/596cc7d9-1ad4-4777-838a-8680c1b62cf6/when-heaven-meets-hell [https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/596cc7d9-1ad4-4777-838a-8680c1b62cf6/when-heaven-meets-hell] Instagram https://www.instagram.com/allyn.amerongen/ [https://www.instagram.com/allyn.amerongen/] Allyn Amerongen: Coaching. Speaking. Community. https://doingitdespite.com/ [https://doingitdespite.com/] War Party Movement https://warpartymovement.com/ [https://warpartymovement.com/] At War Party Movement we're about having "less thunder in the mouth, more lightning in the hand." We are fiercely committed to taking action in breaking cycles of abuse and fundamentally changing the way women are treated, across the country and particularly in Native communities, through our 501(c)3 non-profit War Party Ranch. We provide opportunities for women and girls to create working and life skills that foster independence and self reliance in all aspects of their lives and in all future endeavors. National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365) Call 1.800.799.SAFE [http://1.800.799.SAFE] (7233) Text: START to 88788  https://www.thehotline.org/ [https://www.thehotline.org/] https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotline [https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotline] https://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/ [https://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/] story submission information  If you would like to consider being a guest on lovelustfear or would like your story featured anonymously, please contact us below. submission link | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfear [https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfear] E-mail | lovelustfearpod@gmail.com Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/ [https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/] subscription links Amazon Music https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748/lovelustfear [https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748/lovelustfear] Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWec [https://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWec] Apple https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283 [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283] RSS feed https://audioboom.com/channels/5125912.rss [https://audioboom.com/channels/5125912.rss] Want to hear more? 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