The Adored Woman- Dating and relationship advice for women

17. I'm A Recovering Needy Girl- Why You Feel So Needy In Relationships — And 3 Ways To Finally Feel Secure

I Am A Recovering Needy Girl How to overcome neediness in relationships and finally feel secure in love Do you constantly seek reassurance in relationships? Feel anxious when he doesn't reply? Find yourself doing too much, giving too much, and still never feeling quite secure enough? There's nothing wrong with you — and this episode will show you why. Relationship coach for women Naomie Thompson opens up about her own experience of neediness and deep sensitivity — and shares the three things that genuinely shifted it. Not just theory.....real tools from a woman who's lived it. Whether you're dating in your 40s, struggling with anxious attachment, or simply tired of feeling like you're too much — this episode will change how you see yourself and what's actually been going on. We cover: * What neediness really is — and why it's not a flaw but a sign * Why sometimes the feelings you're having are actually a sign you're with the wrong person * How unmet needs from childhood show up in your adult relationships * The rejection detective — and how to put down the magnifying glass * Why a man can never fully quench the thirst of your unmet needs — and who can * Three ways to finally feel more secure in life and love * The mirror practice that changed everything — and started attracting verbally affectionate men almost immediately * How to become your own cheerleader so you stop pushing love away and start letting it in * Why doing this work means you'll naturally stop being attracted to emotionally unavailable men — you'll just get bored of them Work with Naomie: 🎁 Get the FREE 9 Aspects of the Adored Woman training → https://naomiethompson.com/home#freetraining [https://naomiethompson.com/home#freetraining] 📞 Book a free intro call with Naomie → https://calendly.com/naomiethompsoncoaching/loveplan-call

16. Is He Emotionally Available? 8 Signs He Is

Is He Emotionally Available? 8 Signs He Is How to tell if the man you're dating is genuinely ready for a real relationship Dating in your 40s and struggling to tell the difference between genuine connection and old patterns repeating themselves? This episode will change how you see every man you date from here on. Relationship coach for women Naomie Thompson shares eight clear, practical signs that the man you're getting to know is genuinely emotionally available and relationship ready — not just exciting in the way that has always left you feeling anxious and let down. Because here's the truth: instant chemistry is not a reliable indicator of compatibility. But you know you're on to a good thing when compatibility leads and chemistry grows. Whether you're dating after divorce, navigating online dating in your 40s, or trying to break patterns with emotionally unavailable men once and for all — this episode gives you the tools to be discerning, trust yourself, and choose better. You'll learn the 8 signs Plus — practical advice on online dating, making the first move on Bumble, and why the video call is non-negotiable. Work with Naomie: 🎁 Get the FREE 9 Aspects of the Adored Woman training → naomiethompson.com/home#freetraining 📞 Book a free intro call with Naomie → calendly.com/naomiethompsoncoaching/loveplan-call

15. She Just Wanted To Get Past Date 3 — She Got A Husband

She Just Wanted To Get Past Date 3 A real conversation with a former client who went from stuck to married Dating in your 40s and wondering if it's really going to happen for you? This episode is your answer. Relationship coach for women Naomie Thompson sits down with her former client Anne McHale, a Master of Wine and online business owner, who came to coaching in 2018 with one simple goal — to get past date 3. She'd been stuck in the same cycle for two and a half years. She knew all the theory. She was going on dates. Nothing was working. Then everything changed — and she's now happily married. This is the honest, practical, hopeful conversation about what it actually takes to break unhealthy relationship patterns and go from stuck to the relationship you always wanted — told by a woman who lived it. Whether you're frustrated after years of online dating, wondering why knowing all the theory isn't enough, or simply need someone to tell you it's possible — Anne's story will give you exactly what you need to keep going. We cover: * Why group programmes and courses alone weren't enough — and what one-to-one coaching gave her that nothing else could * The practical dating system that made two to three dates a week completely manageable * Why setting standards for where and how you meet isn't entitled — it's essential * How a man's response to a simple request tells you everything about who he is * The mindset shift that kept her going through hundreds of first dates * What her life looks like now — and why attracting healthy relationships changed everything Work with Naomie:🎁 Get the FREE 9 Aspects of the Adored Woman training → naomiethompson.com/home#freetraining📞 Book a free intro call with Naomie → calendly.com/naomiethompsoncoaching/loveplan-call Connect with Anne McHale:📸 Instagram: @annemchalewine — wine lifestyle content and behind the scenes

14. Are You Accidentally Pushing Him Away Every Time You Open Your Mouth? Feminine communication — how to talk to a man and bring him closer

If you've ever felt confused about why a man goes quiet, pulls back, or seems to disconnect after a conversation — this episode will finally give you the answer. Relationship coach for women Naomie Thompson breaks down one of the most transformative skills in dating and relationships: feminine communication. This isn't surface-level dating advice. This is the deep, permanent shift that changes how men respond to you — in dating, and in relationships. Drawing on her own experience of moving from armoured, masculine-energy communication to the vulnerability that transformed her relationships, Naomie explains exactly why the way most women communicate is unintentionally pushing men away — and precisely what to do instead. Whether you're dating in your 40s, trying to create deeper emotional intimacy with a partner, or simply tired of feeling unheard and disconnected in your relationships, this episode gives you a simple, practical tool you can start using today. We cover: * Why masculine energy communication kills emotional intimacy — even when it comes from love * The difference between emotions and drama — and why men respond so differently to each * How emotionally unavailable patterns show up in the way we communicate * Why advising, blaming and criticising creates a cycle of withdrawal and resentment * How feminine communication builds the kind of emotional connection that inspires a man to pursue, cherish and commit * The three-step tool — find it, name it, speak it — for women ready to break unhealthy relationship patterns and attract healthy relationships built on real intimacy * Why speaking without strategy is the secret to making this work Work with Naomie: 🔥Get The Feminine Communication masterclass → https://courses.naomiethompson.com/feminine-communication-masterclass/ [https://courses.naomiethompson.com/feminine-communication-masterclass/] 🎁 Get the FREE 9 Aspects of the Adored Woman training → naomiethompson.com/home#freetraining 📞 Book a free intro call with Naomie → calendly.com/naomiethompsoncoaching/loveplan-call

13. If She Can Have It, So Can You! Dating over 40 — the honest conversation about patterns, desire and finding love after divorce

Break your old relationship Patterns and let your midlife era be your Adored era! If you are dating in your 40s and wondering whether love is still possible for you — this episode is your answer. In this episode, relationship coach for women Naomie Thompson appears as a guest on Tamra's podcast Straight From the Source's Mouth, where they have one of the most honest, practical and hopeful conversations about dating after 40 you'll hear anywhere. Naomie speaks from personal experience — she was dating in her 40s after her own divorce, navigating the same hopeless feelings, the same old insecurities, and the same pull towards the same kind of unavailable man. She found her way through. And in this episode she shows you how. This is for the woman who is tired of the pattern, done with the wrong men, and ready to understand what's actually been going on — so she can finally change it. We cover: * Why we unconsciously choose partners who match our tolerance for intimacy — and how to raise it * Why the chemistry you're chasing is often just your nervous system recognising an old pattern * How to stop looking for your "type" and start looking for how you want to feel * The four-column desire exercise — a powerful tool for getting clear on what you actually want * How to approach first dates without pressure, hope spirals or disappointment crashes * Why you should let chemistry grow rather than chasing the instant spark * The envy flip — a simple mindset tool to turn hopelessness into evidence that love is possible Work with Naomie:🎁 Get the FREE 9 Aspects of the Adored Woman training → naomiethompson.com/home#freetraining📞 Book a free intro call with Naomie → calendly.com/naomiethompsoncoaching/loveplan-call This episode originally aired on Tamra's podcast:🎙️ Straight From the Source's Mouth — frank talk about sex and dating