What Divorce Taught Me About Marriage and Fatherhood | Glenn Stanton
Teko Bailey sits down with Glenn Stanton, Director of Family Formation Studies at Focus on the Family, to discuss marriage, family, fatherhood, and why many men are struggling to build lasting relationships in today's culture.
Drawing from decades of research in sociology, anthropology, and theology, Glenn explains why marriage has historically been the foundation of healthy societies and why commitment between a man and woman continues to provide stability for families and communities. He challenges the modern idea that marriage should be delayed until every career, financial, and personal goal is achieved, arguing instead that marriage was designed to be a cornerstone for building life together rather than a reward earned after success.
But the conversation quickly becomes personal.
Glenn candidly shares his own experience walking through divorce, depression, shame, and the painful separation from his children. He describes the season when simply getting out of bed felt impossible and the lessons he learned about identity, resilience, and God's faithfulness in the darkest moments. Rather than hiding his failures, he offers a rare look into the realities many men quietly face.
The discussion explores bitterness, communication, emotional awareness, and the slow ways marriages drift apart over time. Glenn explains why marriages rarely fail overnight and why small unresolved wounds can eventually create deep division if left unattended. He also shares practical wisdom for husbands who want to strengthen their marriages before reaching a crisis point.
Fatherhood remains a central theme throughout the episode. Glenn encourages men facing broken relationships with their children to play the long game, meet hurt with kindness, and trust God with restoration. He reflects on the importance of community, honest friendships, and allowing trusted people to speak both truth and encouragement into a man's life.
This episode is a powerful reminder that marriage is not about self-fulfillment, leadership is not about control, and failure does not have to define a man's future.
CHAPTERS:
(00:00) Welcome + Understanding family formation
(03:30) Why marriage matters
(07:15) Marriage: cornerstone or capstone?
(12:40) What is undermining family today?
(18:00) The myth of the perfect spouse
(23:45) Glenn's divorce and darkest season
(29:00) Depression, shame, and rebuilding life
(32:15) Brotherhood and honest feedback
(35:30) Preventing divorce before it happens
(40:00) Understanding your wife better
(42:45) Resources for families and parents
Glenn Stanton serves as Director of Family Formation Studies at Focus on the Family, where he researches marriage, family, fatherhood, and cultural trends affecting relationships. He is a sought-after speaker and author whose work combines sociology, anthropology, and biblical insight to help families thrive.
Glenn's Book: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/201756/secure-daughters-confident-sons-by-glenn-t-stanton/
Teko Bailey is a husband, father, author, coach, and host of The Climb Podcast, guiding men to live fully, lead boldly, and leave a legacy that matters.
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