This is Cohousing: The Cohousing Podcast

This is Cohousing | Ep 6 | How Common Meals Nourish Cohousing with Vesanto Melina

What if the secret to a thriving neighborhood was as simple as sharing a meal? In this episode, Charles sits down with Vesanto Melina — registered dietitian, author of over 15 books, and resident of Vancouver Cohousing — to explore how common meals bring cohousing communities to life.From signup spreadsheets and cooking trios to rooftop gardens and $5 dinners, Vesanto and Charles dig into the practical and the profound: how shared cooking builds trust, how plant-based eating can work at scale, and why showing up to dinner on time might matter more than you think.Vesanto also shares her expertise on nourishing community meals — covering protein, vitamin D, accommodating dietary needs, and why moving toward plant-based eating is good for both people and the planet.Whether you live in cohousing or are simply curious about a more connected way of life, this conversation will leave you hungry for community — and maybe dinner.Resources mentioned:Vesanto's website: nutrispeak.comPlant-Powered Protein: plantpoweredprotein.com Bossa Antigua Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 4.0https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/ For more info visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠www.cohousingco.com⁠⁠⁠ [www.cohousingco.com]⁠ or ⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/CohousingCo⁠⁠⁠ [https://linktr.ee/CohousingCo] * ⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.facebook.com/cohousing/] * ⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/cohousingco_01/] * ⁠⁠⁠⁠LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.linkedin.com/company/cohousingco] * ⁠⁠⁠⁠Youtube⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/@charlesdurrett9954] * ⁠⁠⁠⁠X [https://x.com/CohousingCo_01]

This is Cohousing | Ep 5 | Aging with Pride: Redefining Home for LGBTQ+ Elders with Margaret Roesch

In this episode, Charles Durrett sits down with Margaret Roesch, co-founder of Village Hearth Cohousing in Durham, North Carolina—the first LGBTQ+ cohousing community in the United States.What began as a response to the fear of isolation in later life became a bold, community-driven journey in living differently. Margaret shares how she and her partner Pat McAulay helped bring Village Hearth to life from the ground up—without prior development experience—and why they chose to create a 55+ community where queer elders could live openly, safely, and in connection with others.Together, they explore how intentional design shapes human relationships, from front doors placed just 30 feet apart to shared spaces that foster daily interaction. The conversation dives into the realities of building community—from navigating uncertainty and collective decision-making to moving in during COVID and weathering unexpected challenges along the way. More than just a housing model, Village Hearth reveals what’s possible when people prioritize connection over isolation. Margaret reflects on how cohousing has changed her life—supporting independence, encouraging personal growth, and creating a culture of mutual care, from shared meals to systems of helping hands.This episode is about more than cohousing. It’s about aging with intention, designing for belonging, and rethinking what it means to live well—together. Learn more about Village Hearth by visiting https://www.villagehearthcohousing.com/ [http://www.campuscommunities.ca/] For more info visit ⁠⁠⁠www.cohousingco.com⁠⁠ [www.cohousingco.com]⁠ or ⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/CohousingCo⁠⁠ [https://linktr.ee/CohousingCo] * ⁠⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.facebook.com/cohousing/] * ⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/cohousingco_01/] * ⁠⁠⁠LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.linkedin.com/company/cohousingco] * ⁠⁠⁠Youtube⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/@charlesdurrett9954] * ⁠⁠⁠X [https://x.com/CohousingCo_01]

This is Cohousing | Ep 4 | From Asphalt to Village: Reimagining the Modern Campus with Gary Morrison

In this episode, we explore a bold rethinking of the modern campus—moving from isolated, car-dominated environments to vibrant, community-centered villages. What if campuses weren’t just places people pass through, but places they truly belong? What if housing, social life, and daily needs were woven together into a walkable, intergenerational fabric? Drawing from real projects and decades of experience in cohousing and community design, this conversation dives into how underutilized land—like parking lots and peripheral campus edges—can be transformed into thriving neighborhoods. We discuss the power of design to foster connection, the role of shared spaces in everyday life, and why the future of housing may look a lot more like a village than a development. Whether you're an architect, planner, developer, or simply interested in the future of community living, this episode offers a compelling vision for how we can build places that bring people together. Learn more about Campus Communities and their UFV project by visiting www.campuscommunities.ca [http://www.campuscommunities.ca/] For more info visit ⁠⁠www.cohousingco.com⁠ [www.cohousingco.com]⁠ or ⁠https://linktr.ee/CohousingCo⁠ [https://linktr.ee/CohousingCo] * ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ [https://www.facebook.com/cohousing/] * ⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/cohousingco_01/] * ⁠⁠LinkedIn⁠⁠ [https://www.linkedin.com/company/cohousingco] * ⁠⁠Youtube⁠⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/@charlesdurrett9954] * ⁠⁠X [https://x.com/CohousingCo_01]

This is Cohousing | Ep 3 | From Home Builder to Community Maker

In this episode of the cohousing podcast, Charles Durrett sits down with Alan Carpenter, co-creator and co-director of the Canadian Cohousing Network. Together they explore the evolution and impact of cohousing in Canada and beyond. Alan shares his personal journey from building single-family homes to dedicating his life to creating intentional communities—sparked by a desire for deeper connection and a more meaningful way of living. Together, they discuss the origins and growth of the Canadian Cohousing Network, the success of communities like Windsong Cohousing, and what makes these neighborhoods thrive. The conversation dives into the real-life benefits of cohousing—affordability, shared resources, reduced isolation, and stronger social bonds across generations. From children freely playing outdoors to seniors aging in place with support, cohousing offers a compelling alternative to the isolation often found in modern living. They also tackle bigger questions: Why is connection so essential to human well-being? What cultural barriers make cohousing harder to adopt in North America? How can we design communities that foster cooperation, joy, and resilience? Whether you're curious about intentional communities, interested in sustainable housing models, or simply looking for a more connected way to live, this episode offers thoughtful insights and inspiring stories from decades of experience. Learn more about The Canadian Cohousing Network at https://cohousing.ca/ [https://cohousing.ca/] For more info visit ⁠⁠www.cohousingco.com⁠ [www.cohousingco.com]⁠ or ⁠https://linktr.ee/CohousingCo⁠ [https://linktr.ee/CohousingCo] * ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ [https://www.facebook.com/cohousing/] * ⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/cohousingco_01/] * ⁠⁠LinkedIn⁠⁠ [https://www.linkedin.com/company/cohousingco] * ⁠⁠Youtube⁠⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/@charlesdurrett9954] * ⁠⁠X [https://x.com/CohousingCo_01]

This is Cohousing | Ep 2 | Building Belonging with Pat Darlington

What does it take to build a cohousing community from scratch? In this episode of This is Cohousing, we talk with Patricia Darlington, one of the founders of Oakcreek Community in Stillwater, Oklahoma. Pat shares the personal story that first led her to discover cohousing and how that discovery turned into a real neighborhood built by ordinary people with a shared vision. We explore the early steps of starting a cohousing group, forming an LLC, finding land, working through zoning challenges, and building a community designed for connection, independence, and aging well. Pat also reflects on what it’s like to live in cohousing after more than a decade: how intentional design shapes daily life, why interdependence matters more than independence, and how community can support people through all stages of life, including aging and end-of-life care. If you’ve ever wondered how cohousing communities get started or why more people are seeking alternatives to living alone—this conversation offers an inside look at the process and the philosophy behind it. Learn more about Pat's community at www.oakcreekstillwater.com [https://www.oakcreekstillwater.com/] or Oakcreek's Newsletter [https://www.oakcreekstillwater.com/about-us/newsletter/] Books mentioned: The Senior Cohousing Handbook [https://www.cohousingco.com/products/senior-cohousing-a-community-approach-to-independent-living-the-handbook-second-edition] Cohousing Communities [https://www.cohousingco.com/products/cohousing-communities-designing-for-high-functioning-neighborhoods] For more info visit ⁠www.cohousingco.com [www.cohousingco.com]⁠ or https://linktr.ee/CohousingCo [https://linktr.ee/CohousingCo] * ⁠Facebook⁠ [https://www.facebook.com/cohousing/] * ⁠Instagram⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/cohousingco_01/] * ⁠LinkedIn⁠ [https://www.linkedin.com/company/cohousingco] * ⁠Youtube⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/@charlesdurrett9954] * ⁠X [https://x.com/CohousingCo_01]