F*ck the Patriarchy

BONUS: The Stories We Live By, And Why They Matter — Meredith on AI Script to Screen

This is a bonus episode — a conversation I had with filmmaker and AI producer Quint Boa on his podcast, AI Script to Screen [https://quintboa.com/ai-script-to-screen-podcast/], reposted here with his permission. What happens to truth when facts become optional? In this conversation we get into the difference between facts and truth, why journalism is changing but not dying, what Section 230 actually did to public discourse, and why AI is a brilliant tool but should never be mistaken for a substitute for human connection. We also get into the uncanny valley of digital resurrection, Christopher Nolan’s flip phone, and why a story about cemeteries in rural Virginia took me four months to report. Recorded in May 2026. Have something to say? I'm all ears. [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2603908/fan_mail/new] If this conversation meant something to you, please leave a rating, follow the show and share it with someone else. It's how the podcast gets found. If you'd like to support my work, a paid subscription to All That I Have Met goes a long way. Subscribe here [https://meredithogilviethompson.substack.com/subscribe] Watch clips and video previews on YouTube  [https://www.youtube.com/@AllThatIHaveMet] Want more between essays and episodes? Below the Fold [https://meredithogilviethompson.substack.com/s/below-the-fold] is where I publish shorter dispatches on the stories worth paying attention to—from the people in my own backyard to the forces reshaping the wider world. Credits: Host: Meredith Ogilvie-Thompson Sound Editing: Dax Krishna and the team at SpeechDocs Music: Ilya Kuznetsov

Hôte Cuisine

In conversation with Neal Wavra.  Neal Wavra was on track for a career in global trade policy — trained in commercial diplomacy, as well as conflict resolution at the Hague — when his government supervisor flicked a proposal back across her desk without reading it and told him they weren’t in the business of innovating. That was twenty years ago. He's since attended the Culinary Institute of America, worked the floor at Charlie Trotter's in Chicago — at the time, the most demanding room in American fine dining, the place that trained a generation, ten James Beard Awards — and eventually found his way to a building on Main Street in Marshall, Virginia that's been feeding people since the 1800s. He and his wife Star have been running it as Field & Main for ten years. In 2023 they bought Red Truck Bakery — the business across the street — twice listed among the New York Times’ best food purveyors in the country and a favourite of everyone from Oprah to the Obamas. This year, Neal was a James Beard Award finalist — the only one from the great state of Virginia. But our conversation isn’t really about any of that. It’s about what happens when you decide the thing directly in front of you is enough — and the garden you’re standing in is worth the full force of your attention. Neal has views on all of it — on farm-to-table as an alibi for mediocrity, on what genuine connection between a kitchen and its community actually requires, on whether excellence needs external recognition to be real — and they’re not what you’d expect. Have something to say? I'm all ears. [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2603908/fan_mail/new] If this conversation meant something to you, please leave a rating, follow the show and share it with someone else. It's how the podcast gets found. If you'd like to support my work, a paid subscription to All That I Have Met goes a long way. Subscribe here [https://meredithogilviethompson.substack.com/subscribe] Watch clips and video previews on YouTube  [https://www.youtube.com/@AllThatIHaveMet] Want more between essays and episodes? Below the Fold [https://meredithogilviethompson.substack.com/s/below-the-fold] is where I publish shorter dispatches on the stories worth paying attention to—from the people in my own backyard to the forces reshaping the wider world. Credits: Host: Meredith Ogilvie-Thompson Sound Editing: Dax Krishna and the team at SpeechDocs Music: Ilya Kuznetsov

BONUS: Enhanced Games, Tech Bros and the World's Most Expensive Mid-Life Crisis

A German biotech billionaire who injects himself daily is funding a sporting event where athletes are paid to take testosterone, Adderall and human growth hormone in pursuit of “superhumanity.” Peter Thiel and Donald Trump Jr. are on the cap table. Jeff Bezos has invested $100 million in a startup that claims it can identify the brain’s “core algorithm” and replicate it in silicon. Meanwhile, public institutions, scientific research and foreign-aid programs are being hollowed out at the behest of many of the same political and ideological forces. Naturally, I had to talk to the clever hosts of The Atlantic Current [https://substack.com/@theatlanticcurrent] podcast about it all. We discuss the Enhanced Games, biohacking billionaires, prescription drugs, consciousness research, regulatory capture, libertarianism, immortality and the increasingly popular idea that being human is a problem technology needs to solve. Also: Andrew Carnegie, Mansa Musa, God, and whether Bryan Johnson is conducting cutting-edge science or simply having the world’s most expensive midlife crisis. The Atlantic Current [https://substack.com/@theatlanticcurrent] is hosted by Vince Martin, an economist and writer, and creator of Wall Street and Main [https://wallstandmain.substack.com/], and Tull McAdoo of the Irish Politics Newsletter [https://substack.com/@irishpoliticsnewsletter]. It’s a smart, irreverent show and I love every minute chatting with these two. For more, check out my original reporting on America’s prescription drug culture, The Bitter Pill [https://meredithogilviethompson.substack.com/p/the-bitter-pill], and my latest essay, Hold My Beer While I Upgrade Humanity. [https://meredithogilviethompson.substack.com/p/82cf2ff1-d390-41f3-91a3-0a64b928ff1e?postPreview=free&updated=2026-06-14T13%3A20%3A19.672Z&audience=everyone&free_preview=false&freemail=true]  Have something to say? I'm all ears. [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2603908/fan_mail/new] If this conversation meant something to you, please leave a rating, follow the show and share it with someone else. It's how the podcast gets found. If you'd like to support my work, a paid subscription to All That I Have Met goes a long way. Subscribe here [https://meredithogilviethompson.substack.com/subscribe] Watch clips and video previews on YouTube  [https://www.youtube.com/@AllThatIHaveMet] Want more between essays and episodes? Below the Fold [https://meredithogilviethompson.substack.com/s/below-the-fold] is where I publish shorter dispatches on the stories worth paying attention to—from the people in my own backyard to the forces reshaping the wider world. Credits: Host: Meredith Ogilvie-Thompson Sound Editing: Dax Krishna and the team at SpeechDocs Music: Ilya Kuznetsov

F*ck the Patriarchy

In conversation with Bobbi Thomason A survey of Harvard Business School graduates — ambitious, educated, the ones who were supposed to have figured it out — found that the women expected equal partnerships and the men expected their careers to come first. The men's expectations were exceeded. Bobbi Thomason is a professor at Pepperdine's business school, a Stanford-trained engineer, tenured ahead of schedule, and one of the leading researchers in her field on women, work and negotiation. She also moved across the country for her husband's job while studying exactly why women move across the country for their husband's jobs.  Her conclusion, after fifteen years of research: if you're having the conversation about equality in your marriage, you've probably already lost the battle. The decisions that shape everything — who moves, who steps back, who gets the bigger career — tend to be made before anyone sits down to talk. This conversation is for anyone who has ever been managed, undermined, talked over or passed over. Which, the data suggests, is most of us — as Bobbi makes clear, this isn't only about women. Her book, Vows to Ourselves, publishes March 2027 from HarperCollins. Have something to say? I'm all ears. [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2603908/fan_mail/new] If this conversation meant something to you, please leave a rating, follow the show and share it with someone else. It's how the podcast gets found. If you'd like to support my work, a paid subscription to All That I Have Met goes a long way. Subscribe here [https://meredithogilviethompson.substack.com/subscribe] Watch clips and video previews on YouTube  [https://www.youtube.com/@AllThatIHaveMet] Want more between essays and episodes? Below the Fold [https://meredithogilviethompson.substack.com/s/below-the-fold] is where I publish shorter dispatches on the stories worth paying attention to—from the people in my own backyard to the forces reshaping the wider world. Credits: Host: Meredith Ogilvie-Thompson Sound Editing: Dax Krishna and the team at SpeechDocs Music: Ilya Kuznetsov

BONUS: Ebola, Africa, and What DOGE Actually Broke — Meredith on The Atlantic Current

This is a bonus episode — a guest appearance I made on The Atlantic Current [https://atlantic-current.com] with Vince Martin and Tull McAdoo, reposted here with their kind permission. They brought me on to talk about the Ebola outbreak currently unfolding in the DRC. We ended up covering a lot of ground: how Ebola spreads and how it doesn't, what the gutting of USAID, GAVI and the CDC actually means for an outbreak happening right now in a remote and conflict-adjacent corner of the world, and why American foreign aid was never charity — but self-interest. We also talked about Africa more broadly, and the extraordinary gap between what the continent actually is and what most Americans think they know about it. The Atlantic Current is hosted by Vince Martin, an economist and writer, and creator of Wall Street and Main [https://wallstandmain.substack.com/], and Tull McAdoo of the Irish Politics Newsletter [https://substack.com/@irishpoliticsnewsletter]. It's a smart, irreverent show and I loved every minute being with these two. Have something to say? I'm all ears. [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2603908/fan_mail/new] If this conversation meant something to you, please leave a rating, follow the show and share it with someone else. It's how the podcast gets found. If you'd like to support my work, a paid subscription to All That I Have Met goes a long way. Subscribe here [https://meredithogilviethompson.substack.com/subscribe] Watch clips and video previews on YouTube  [https://www.youtube.com/@AllThatIHaveMet] Want more between essays and episodes? Below the Fold [https://meredithogilviethompson.substack.com/s/below-the-fold] is where I publish shorter dispatches on the stories worth paying attention to—from the people in my own backyard to the forces reshaping the wider world. Credits: Host: Meredith Ogilvie-Thompson Sound Editing: Dax Krishna and the team at SpeechDocs Music: Ilya Kuznetsov