034 /// Building a Culture of Trust

035 /// Knowing What Drives Your Culture

In this episode we are talking about knowing what drives your culture. What is the undercurrent that people feel when they work with you, work for you, hang out with you, or live with you? As we said in the last episode, YOU are your culture. The leader sets the culture. So, what is leading you? Cultures where people show up with all they have got even when times are hard, resources are scarce, and the future is uncertain are the best cultures ever. It tells you trust is high and people feel seen, heard, known, and valued. Join me in this episode where I help you explore: * how people experience you * how you want people to experience you * what actions you can take to begin to create that experience This episode helps you explore how you show up. And what people feel when you do. Because culture will only shift when you do.  ---------------   Brenda is a Texas girl who loves God and people and big skies and great coffee. She is a believer in impossible possibilities. In brokenness becoming beautiful. In justice and mercy and honor and power–with love perfecting them all. She is a wife, mom, mimi, daughter, and friend. She is also a speaker, author, mediator, and coach...helping people discover, embrace, and live out their God-given superpowers. Check out the websites:  [https://loudisnotalanguage.com/] https://loudisnotalanguage.com/ [https://loudisnotalanguage.com/] https://brendaharkins.com/ [https://brendaharkins.com/]   Follow on socials: Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/BrendaCoxHarkins [https://www.facebook.com/BrendaCoxHarkins] Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/brendacoxharkins/ [https://www.instagram.com/brendacoxharkins/] Linkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/in/brendacoxharkins/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/brendacoxharkins/]   Podcast music from: https://app.soundstripe.com/ [https://app.soundstripe.com/] Produced by KB Podcasts [https://www.kingdombringer.com/services]

034 /// Building a Culture of Trust

Episode 34 - Building a Culture of Trust You. Are. Your Culture. Whether in your family, workplace, social circles, or place of worship. How you, as a leader, show up and respond. That is your culture. Not the mission statement on the wall. (Or refrigerator) YOU. You are your culture. Whether the situations are stressful or celebratory, your response to those situations determines the culture you are building. The culture your people are experiencing. We can try hard, write mission statements, stick banners of “who we are” on cabinet doors and in workplace break rooms. But the true builder of a culture is a leader’s habits, character, and values in action. In other words...Culture = Habits + Character + Values (x Action) Who do people know you to be? What do people believe will happen if they… -Take a risk -Speak up -Fail In this episode you will learn how to become a student of your own culture so you can enhance it, change it, or correct it. I hope you will join us and learn how to audit your own culture so you can make it the best possible place for people to be. A place people want to be. Choose to be. Even when times are rough and rocky.  Learning with you on the Journey, Brenda    ---------------   Brenda is a Texas girl who loves God and people and big skies and great coffee. She is a believer in impossible possibilities. In brokenness becoming beautiful. In justice and mercy and honor and power–with love perfecting them all. She is a wife, mom, mimi, daughter, and friend. She is also a speaker, author, mediator, and coach...helping people discover, embrace, and live out their God-given superpowers. Check out the websites:  [https://loudisnotalanguage.com/] https://loudisnotalanguage.com/ [https://loudisnotalanguage.com/] https://brendaharkins.com/ [https://brendaharkins.com/]   Follow on socials: Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/BrendaCoxHarkins [https://www.facebook.com/BrendaCoxHarkins] Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/brendacoxharkins/ [https://www.instagram.com/brendacoxharkins/] Linkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/in/brendacoxharkins/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/brendacoxharkins/]   Podcast music from: https://app.soundstripe.com/ [https://app.soundstripe.com/] Produced by KB Podcasts [https://www.kingdombringer.com/services]

033 /// Faith in the Fearful and Fragile with Brent Butler

Episode 33 - Faith in the Fearful and Fragile with Brent Butler If you have ever had life throw you a curve ball, this episode is for you. Have you ever experienced fear from life, health, relationships, or career being out of your control? Fear from what your mind imagines might happen? Have you ever fragile in areas where you have always known strength? Brent Butler understands. He is a man of faith, having been in ministry (including senior pastor, worship pastor, and associate pastor) for over 25 years. Yet an unexpected diagnosis left him reeling with fear about his relationships, his provision, his loss of control, and more. His journey has launched a platform for greater impact than he ever imagined. Join us around the table today as Brent shares what it is like to: * Live in the tension of faith and unanswered prayer * Experience God’s presence in the suffering vs. His removal of it * Stay connected to God’s heart during sickness, fear, and anger Come hear the difference between preaching a sermon and your life being a sermon. We all have those stories. The ones that brought fear, uncertainty, confusion, etc...Brent Butler’s story speaks to yours as well. Listen and be inspired to live a life of victory anyway. Your life is a sermon no one else can preach.  For any who would like to reach out to Brent, here are some ways to do that: https://www.brentbutlerjr.com [https://www.brentbutlerjr.comhttps//linktr.ee/brentbutlerJr] https://linktr.ee/brentbutlerJr [https://www.brentbutlerjr.comhttps//linktr.ee/brentbutlerJr] admin@brentbutlerjr.com   Enjoy the Journey! Brenda  ---------------   Brenda is a Texas girl who loves God and people and big skies and great coffee. She is a believer in impossible possibilities. In brokenness becoming beautiful. In justice and mercy and honor and power–with love perfecting them all. She is a wife, mom, mimi, daughter, and friend. She is also a speaker, author, mediator, and coach...helping people discover, embrace, and live out their God-given superpowers. Check out the websites:  [https://loudisnotalanguage.com/] https://loudisnotalanguage.com/ [https://loudisnotalanguage.com/] https://brendaharkins.com/ [https://brendaharkins.com/]   Follow on socials: Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/BrendaCoxHarkins [https://www.facebook.com/BrendaCoxHarkins] Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/brendacoxharkins/ [https://www.instagram.com/brendacoxharkins/] Linkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/in/brendacoxharkins/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/brendacoxharkins/]   Podcast music from: https://app.soundstripe.com/ [https://app.soundstripe.com/] Produced by KB Podcasts [https://www.kingdombringer.com/services]

032 /// Relational Intelligence - How to Enter Tense Conversations

Episode 32 Show Notes: Relational Intelligence - How to Enter Tense Conversations Last episode we talked about how to connect with others in an authentic way. It’s great to know how to do that. In this episode I share 3 ways to actually enter those tense conversations. Choosing to initiate a conversation for the purpose of connecting with someone we already have some tension with takes courage. It’s hard to know how to get that conversation started. Do we say, “Hey! We need to talk.” Probably not. Depending on the personalities involved, though... maybe. More times than not, that gets people’s defenses up, though. So how do we initiate that? The short version is: 1. Gather your courage and state the obvious with kindness. 2. Ask questions that invite depth vs. autopilot responses. 3. Meet people where they are.  Join me in this episode as we talk more about this around the table.  Enjoy the Journey! Brenda ---------------   Brenda is a Texas girl who loves God and people and big skies and great coffee. She is a believer in impossible possibilities. In brokenness becoming beautiful. In justice and mercy and honor and power–with love perfecting them all. She is a wife, mom, mimi, daughter, and friend. She is also a speaker, author, mediator, and coach...helping people discover, embrace, and live out their God-given superpowers. Check out the websites:  [https://loudisnotalanguage.com/] https://loudisnotalanguage.com/ [https://loudisnotalanguage.com/] https://brendaharkins.com/ [https://brendaharkins.com/]   Follow on socials: Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/BrendaCoxHarkins [https://www.facebook.com/BrendaCoxHarkins] Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/brendacoxharkins/ [https://www.instagram.com/brendacoxharkins/] Linkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/in/brendacoxharkins/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/brendacoxharkins/]   Podcast music from: https://app.soundstripe.com/ [https://app.soundstripe.com/] Produced by KB Podcasts [https://www.kingdombringer.com/services]

031 /// Relational Intelligence - Connecting with Others in an Authentic Way

Episode31 - Relational Intelligence: Connecting With Others in an Authentic Way  Emotional Intelligence has gotten a lot of attention in recent years, as it should. But Relational Intelligence and Emotional Intelligence are not the same. Emotional Intelligence causes us to be more aware of our emotional wellbeing and focuses on identifying and regulating those emotions. Relational Intelligence definitely needs that component, but it goes beyond our personal awareness. It focuses on the interactions and connections between people and how to have healthier relationships. Most people agree that having meaningful conversations and building relationships with others who think differently than we do is more difficult than ever. In this episode I share one of the ways to grow in Relational IQ, and that is in knowing how to connect with others in an authentic way. Even those far away from our own thoughts, opinions and convictions. We discuss 3 Ways to Connect With Others in an Authentic Way and what each of those look like in everyday life.  * Be present * Show up as Yourself * Create Safety Join me in this episode, as we sit around the table and discover how aware and intentional we are being... or want to be... to create connections with others who may think very differently than we do. Enjoy the Journey! Brenda ---------------   Brenda is a Texas girl who loves God and people and big skies and great coffee. She is a believer in impossible possibilities. In brokenness becoming beautiful. In justice and mercy and honor and power–with love perfecting them all. She is a wife, mom, mimi, daughter, and friend. She is also a speaker, author, mediator, and coach...helping people discover, embrace, and live out their God-given superpowers. Check out the websites:  [https://loudisnotalanguage.com/] https://loudisnotalanguage.com/ [https://loudisnotalanguage.com/] https://brendaharkins.com/ [https://brendaharkins.com/]   Follow on socials: Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/BrendaCoxHarkins [https://www.facebook.com/BrendaCoxHarkins] Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/brendacoxharkins/ [https://www.instagram.com/brendacoxharkins/] Linkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/in/brendacoxharkins/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/brendacoxharkins/]   Podcast music from: https://app.soundstripe.com/ [https://app.soundstripe.com/] Produced by KB Podcasts [https://www.kingdombringer.com/services]