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Your Voice Is a Mansion. Most People Live in One Closet.

55 min · 18 de jun de 2026
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What if the voice you use every day is only a fraction of what's available to you? Voice coach, author, and performer Barbara McAfee says most of us live in "a tiny closet in a great big mansion" when it comes to our voice. We settle into one small corner of it and never realize how much more is there. In this conversation, Barbara shares the framework at the heart of her work: five distinct voices, each with its own sound and purpose. Earth for authority and gravitas. Fire for passion and public speaking. Water for the heart and hard conversations. Metal for cutting through noise without strain. Air for imagination and story. Learning to move between them, she explains, is the difference between a flat communicator and a compelling one. We talk about why so many people decide they "can't sing," why Barbara believes singing is a human right, and how vocal range shapes leadership, storytelling, confidence, presence, and well-being. She also introduces the idea behind her new book, Vocal Intelligence, and why it matters now. Whether you're a leader, speaker, coach, parent, educator, or simply someone who wants to express themselves more fully, this episode will change how you think about your voice. In this conversation: • The five voices, and what each one is for • Why most of us work only a small corner of our range • How great storytellers use vocal variety to hold an audience • Why Barbara believes singing is one of the most human things we do • Practical ways to build vocal presence and avoid strain • Why the voice you like least often holds the most for you • The thinking behind her new book, Vocal Intelligence Barbara closes by reading a Hafiz poem about "the astonishing light of your being," and that alone is worth staying for. Connect with Barbara McAfee Website: https://www.barbaramcafee.com/ [https://www.barbaramcafee.com/]YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/mcafeemusic [https://www.youtube.com/mcafeemusic]Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/barbaramcafeesings/ [https://www.instagram.com/barbaramcafeesings/]Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/barbara.mcafee [https://www.facebook.com/barbara.mcafee]LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/barbaramcafee/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/barbaramcafee/] TEDx: Bringing Your Full Voice to Life https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ze763kgrWGg [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ze763kgrWGg]TEDx: How Oral Tradition Singing Helps Us Work & Live Better Together https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lrRQulQnaoQ [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lrRQulQnaoQ] BooksVocal Intelligence: Leading with Vitality, Presence, and Impact https://www.amazon.com/dp/1722507381 [https://www.amazon.com/dp/1722507381] Full Voice: The Art and Practice of Vocal Presence https://www.amazon.com/Full-Voice-Practice-Presence-Business/dp/1605099228 [https://www.amazon.com/Full-Voice-Practice-Presence-Business/dp/1605099228] Connect with Brad Live Workshops & Seminars: https://bradleyhook.com/flame-method/ [https://bradleyhook.com/flame-method/] Discover Your Values: https://values.institute/values-app/ [https://values.institute/values-app/] Website: https://bradleyhook.com/ [https://bradleyhook.com/] LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/bradleyhook/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/bradleyhook/] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bradhook/ [https://www.instagram.com/bradhook/] Latest Book, Start With Values: https://www.penguin.co.nz/books/start-with-values-9781961293106 [https://www.penguin.co.nz/books/start-with-values-9781961293106]

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