Paint the Room Yellow Part 2: Emotional Neglect in Marriage

Paint the Room Yellow Part 2: Emotional Neglect in Marriage

You asked your partner to paint the room yellow. They bought a new bed, a new carpet, moved the furniture — and now they're irritated you're still asking about the wall. That quiet, repeated experience of being given everything except what you asked for is one of the most common forms of emotional neglect in marriage, and it's what Dr. Kat unpacks in Part 2, responding to viewers who recognized themselves in Part 1. She works through what's happening when a partner deflects with "nothing I do would make you happy," why "I just do it myself" sounds empowering but is usually resignation in disguise, and the moment the person asking finally goes quiet — and why that silence is the real warning. She also shares a one-week exercise she gives couples (it involves your dog) and a hard truth about why loyalty isn't something anyone earns an award for. If you've felt invisible in your own marriage, this one names it. I want to hear from you!  To submit show ideas or be considered as a guest, visit https://chatwithdrkat.com/contact/ [https://chatwithdrkat.com/contact/] Follow Chat with Dr. Kat: Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/chatwithdrkat [https://www.facebook.com/chatwithdrkat] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chatwithdrkat [https://www.instagram.com/chatwithdrkat] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@chatwithdrkat [https://www.youtube.com/@chatwithdrkat] TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chatwithdrkat [https://www.tiktok.com/@chatwithdrkat] X:  https://x.com/ChatwithDrKat [https://x.com/ChatwithDrKat] Health & Wellness Programs: https://mindbodyseries.com/ [https://mindbodyseries.com/]

Skincare for Teens: Parents Are Losing the TikTok Battle

Your kid won't listen to you about skincare, but they'll do whatever a fifteen-second TikTok tells them — and right now that means slathering retinols, acids, and anti-aging serums meant for fifty-year-olds onto teenage skin. Dr. Kat sits down with dermatologist and Mohs surgeon Dr. Angela Casey, who removes skin cancers all day and founded the teen skincare line Bright Girl, to unpack why the products promising clearer skin are often making it worse. You'll learn which trendy ingredients actually damage a young skin barrier, the one step that matters at every age, and why "smart skin starts now" isn't about vanity but about habits that hold up for life. Dr. Casey also gets into the grown-up stuff parents wonder about — preventative Botox, why people are dissolving their fillers, and the real reason certain celebrities suddenly look so different. If you've ever lost the bathroom-counter argument, this one's for you. I want to hear from you!  To submit show ideas or be considered as a guest, visit https://chatwithdrkat.com/contact/ [https://chatwithdrkat.com/contact/] Follow Chat with Dr. Kat: Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/chatwithdrkat [https://www.facebook.com/chatwithdrkat] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chatwithdrkat [https://www.instagram.com/chatwithdrkat] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@chatwithdrkat [https://www.youtube.com/@chatwithdrkat] TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chatwithdrkat [https://www.tiktok.com/@chatwithdrkat] X:  https://x.com/ChatwithDrKat [https://x.com/ChatwithDrKat] Health & Wellness Programs: https://mindbodyseries.com/ [https://mindbodyseries.com/]

If Your Child Is Being Bullied At School, Most Parents Get This Wrong

When a kid comes home from school upset, most parents brace for the wrong thing. They worry about the kid who's throwing punches — but Dr. Kat Derrig-Palumbo, a licensed psychologist and former advisor to Dr. Phil, sees something different in her practice. The adults in her therapy room aren't 30, 40, even 50 years out from the kid who hit them. They're still carrying the words. A sentence said in passing in seventh grade that somehow kept playing for the next three decades. And the people who said it often didn't even believe what they were saying. This episode opens a series on bullying with a parent-focused walk through six kinds — physical, verbal, social, cyber, sexual, and prejudicial — and the case for why verbal bullying lands deepest and lasts longest. Dr. Kat shares a story from her time on Dr. Phil that crystallizes the stakes, asks why schools require sexual-misconduct paperwork but nothing equivalent for bullying, and offers concrete language for how to approach the school when your child is being targeted — including what to say instead of demanding the other kid be punished. I want to hear from you!  To submit show ideas or be considered as a guest, visit https://chatwithdrkat.com/contact/ [https://chatwithdrkat.com/contact/] Follow Chat with Dr. Kat: Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/chatwithdrkat [https://www.facebook.com/chatwithdrkat] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chatwithdrkat [https://www.instagram.com/chatwithdrkat] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@chatwithdrkat [https://www.youtube.com/@chatwithdrkat] TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chatwithdrkat [https://www.tiktok.com/@chatwithdrkat] X:  https://x.com/ChatwithDrKat [https://x.com/ChatwithDrKat] Health & Wellness Programs: https://mindbodyseries.com/ [https://mindbodyseries.com/]

Should Trans Women Compete in Women's Sports? A Trans Woman Says No

Few cultural debates have gotten louder or more polarized than the one over trans women in women's sports, and most of the loudest voices come from outside the trans community. Daviana Memont — a former Marine, competitive powerlifter, and strength coach with nearly a million followers across her platforms — is the rare exception. A trans woman who argues other trans women shouldn't compete in women's sports, she sits down with Dr. Kat to explain why, in language that doesn't soften for either side. The conversation moves from the actual biology Daviana has lived inside — testosterone levels, muscle density, lung capacity, training drive — to the trickle-down effect on female athletes when a top-ranked male competitor wins a women's bracket. From there it widens into locker rooms, the driver's license sex-marker debate, the assumption that transitioning is about sexuality, and a striking aside about how predators actually choose victims. It's the kind of honest conversation almost nobody is willing to have publicly right now, and a useful listen for anyone trying to think about these issues clearly. I want to hear from you!  To submit show ideas or be considered as a guest, visit https://chatwithdrkat.com/contact/ [https://chatwithdrkat.com/contact/] Follow Chat with Dr. Kat: Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/chatwithdrkat [https://www.facebook.com/chatwithdrkat] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chatwithdrkat [https://www.instagram.com/chatwithdrkat] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@chatwithdrkat [https://www.youtube.com/@chatwithdrkat] TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chatwithdrkat [https://www.tiktok.com/@chatwithdrkat] X:  https://x.com/ChatwithDrKat [https://x.com/ChatwithDrKat] Health & Wellness Programs: https://mindbodyseries.com/ [https://mindbodyseries.com/]

Generous to Everyone but the Car Behind You

You've watched a driver wave in pedestrian after pedestrian, pause for someone backing out of a driveway, smile and gesture generously to everyone around them — and then the moment you try to pass, they speed up so you can't. Dr. Kat Derrig-Palumbo, a licensed psychologist, builds a whole episode around that contradiction, sparked by a line from her youngest daughter: that person is generous to everyone but the one behind them. Working through five everyday driving scenarios — crossing three lanes at a light, stopping in a live lane to check a phone, blocking intersections, the In-N-Out line, and a tense moment over a shopping cart — Dr. Kat treats each not as a traffic complaint but as a small question of character. You'll hear why she reframes the driver who cut you off so they don't take up "rent in your brain," and why one impatient choice can quietly affect thirty-five strangers. It's a grounded look at how small courtesies, or their absence, shape the way a day actually feels. I want to hear from you!  To submit show ideas or be considered as a guest, visit https://chatwithdrkat.com/contact/ [https://chatwithdrkat.com/contact/] Follow Chat with Dr. Kat: Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/chatwithdrkat [https://www.facebook.com/chatwithdrkat] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chatwithdrkat [https://www.instagram.com/chatwithdrkat] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@chatwithdrkat [https://www.youtube.com/@chatwithdrkat] TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chatwithdrkat [https://www.tiktok.com/@chatwithdrkat] X:  https://x.com/ChatwithDrKat [https://x.com/ChatwithDrKat] Health & Wellness Programs: https://mindbodyseries.com/ [https://mindbodyseries.com/]