Fake Love and Flying Monkeys

The female narcissist is often compared to a black widow spider — alluring, seductive, and deadly to her prey. In relationships, her weapon of choice is emasculation. She strips her victim of confidence, ridicules his masculinity, and weaves a web of control that leaves him doubting his worth. (For 1 on 1 online counselling in your own toxic relationship/narcissistic abuse recovery please visit my website at https://brighteroutlookcounselling.com.au/online-counselling-services/ ) In this episode, I break down how the black widow narcissist operates. From playful “jokes” that cut deep, to public humiliation designed to belittle, to sexual manipulation that punishes and rewards, every move is calculated to dominate.  This is a raw, eye-opening exploration of a form of narcissistic abuse that’s rarely talked about: the quiet, calculated destruction of a man’s sense of self. If you’ve ever felt mocked, belittled, or stripped of your masculinity by a partner, this episode will shine a light on exactly what’s happening — and why it was never your fault. Need Support, Extra Resources? Resources and Online Counseling (worldwide) information Here [https://brighteroutlookcounselling.com.au/counselling-services/] Order my book Fake Love – Understanding and Healing from Narcissistic Abuse here [https://mybook.to/F3gm] You can leave a Rating and a Review here [https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/fake-love-and-flying-monkeys-5748098] You Can Share this Podcast here [https://apple.co/3XRRSp3] Join me on FB here [https://www.facebook.com/NovaGibsonNarcissisticAbuseExpert] Join the private FB group here [https://www.facebook.com/share/FB1yFZn52HypJo7a/?mibextid=A7sQZp] Join me on Instagram here [https://www.instagram.com/novas_narcissistabuse_recovery/?hl=en] Join me on YouTube here [https://www.youtube.com/@novagibson_] Want to support the channel? Please Buy me a coffee [https://buymeacoffee.com/novagibson] ❤️ Thank you for listening! Please remember the information in this episode is not intended to substitute for therapy is general and strictly the opinions of the host. Nova xx

To outsiders, narcissistic families often appear flawless—supportive parents, successful children, and a picture-perfect life. Yet beneath the surface lies manipulation, control, and emotional abuse that remain hidden from the public eye.  (For 1 on 1 online counselling in your own toxic relationship/narcissistic abuse recovery please visit my website at https://brighteroutlookcounselling.com.au/online-counselling-services/ ) This episode explores how narcissistic parents craft the illusion of perfection, the roles family members are forced to play, and why friends, relatives, and colleagues rarely see the dysfunction. Listeners will gain insight into toxic family dynamics, covert abuse, parental narcissism, and the lasting psychological effects on children and spouses. By understanding how these families maintain their public image, you can begin to recognize patterns of narcissistic behavior, validate lived experiences, and see beyond the mask that conceals the truth. Need Support, Extra Resources? Resources and Online Counseling (worldwide) information Here [https://brighteroutlookcounselling.com.au/counselling-services/] Order my book Fake Love – Understanding and Healing from Narcissistic Abuse here [https://mybook.to/F3gm] You can leave a Rating and a Review here [https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/fake-love-and-flying-monkeys-5748098] You Can Share this Podcast here [https://apple.co/3XRRSp3] Join me on FB here [https://www.facebook.com/NovaGibsonNarcissisticAbuseExpert] Join the private FB group here [https://www.facebook.com/share/FB1yFZn52HypJo7a/?mibextid=A7sQZp] Join me on Instagram here [https://www.instagram.com/novas_narcissistabuse_recovery/?hl=en] Join me on YouTube here [https://www.youtube.com/@novagibson_] Want to support the channel? Please Buy me a coffee [https://buymeacoffee.com/novagibson] ❤️ Thank you for listening! Please remember the information in this episode is not intended to substitute for therapy is general and strictly the opinions of the host. Nova xx

What do you do when the narcissist’s texts flip between “I love you” and radio silence? In this episode of Fake Love and Flying Monkeys, I break down the real meaning behind their late-night messages, sudden love bombs, ghosting tactics, and manipulative wordplay. (For 1 on 1 online counselling in your own toxic relationship/narcissistic abuse recovery please visit my website at https://brighteroutlookcounselling.com.au/online-counselling-services/ )  Important Fact - Their texts aren’t random — they’re part of a calculated cycle designed to pull you back in. We’ll talk about why narcissists text at the weirdest times, how they hook you with just a few words, and how you can finally step off the merry-go-round. If you’ve ever stared at your phone wondering, “What does this even mean?” — this one’s for you. 📖 Don’t forget to grab a copy of my book Fake Love for deeper insights and strategies to heal. 👇https://mybook.to/F3gm Need Support, Extra Resources? Resources and Online Counseling (worldwide) information Here [https://brighteroutlookcounselling.com.au/counselling-services/] Order my book Fake Love – Understanding and Healing from Narcissistic Abuse here [https://mybook.to/F3gm] You can leave a Rating and a Review here [https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/fake-love-and-flying-monkeys-5748098] You Can Share this Podcast here [https://apple.co/3XRRSp3] Join me on FB here [https://www.facebook.com/NovaGibsonNarcissisticAbuseExpert] Join the private FB group here [https://www.facebook.com/share/FB1yFZn52HypJo7a/?mibextid=A7sQZp] Join me on Instagram here [https://www.instagram.com/novas_narcissistabuse_recovery/?hl=en] Join me on YouTube here [https://www.youtube.com/@novagibson_] Want to support the channel? Please Buy me a coffee [https://buymeacoffee.com/novagibson] ❤️ Thank you for listening! Please remember the information in this episode is not intended to substitute for therapy is general and strictly the opinions of the host. Nova xx

Ever been hit with anger that comes out of nowhere — and somehow leaves you questioning yourself? In this episode of Fake Love and Flying Monkeys, I dive into narcissistic rage: what it really is, why narcissists explode over seemingly “nothing,” and why it’s never your fault. (For 1 on 1 online counselling in your own toxic relationship/narcissistic abuse recovery please visit my website at https://brighteroutlookcounselling.com.au/online-counselling-services/ ) You’ll learn: How narcissistic rage shows up — from screaming and cold silences to passive-aggressive digs and public humiliation Why narcissists react this way — fragile egos, control, and power plays Real-life examples in relationships, parenting, and work Practical strategies to protect yourself, set boundaries, and stay sane. Order my book, Fake Love,  here 👇https://mybook.to/F3gm Need Support, Extra Resources? Resources and Online Counseling (worldwide) information Here [https://brighteroutlookcounselling.com.au/counselling-services/] Order my book Fake Love – Understanding and Healing from Narcissistic Abuse here [https://mybook.to/F3gm] You can leave a Rating and a Review here [https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/fake-love-and-flying-monkeys-5748098] You Can Share this Podcast here [https://apple.co/3XRRSp3] Join me on FB here [https://www.facebook.com/NovaGibsonNarcissisticAbuseExpert] Join the private FB group here [https://www.facebook.com/share/FB1yFZn52HypJo7a/?mibextid=A7sQZp] Join me on Instagram here [https://www.instagram.com/novas_narcissistabuse_recovery/?hl=en] Join me on YouTube here [https://www.youtube.com/@novagibson_] Want to support the channel? Please Buy me a coffee [https://buymeacoffee.com/novagibson] ❤️ Thank you for listening! Please remember the information in this episode is not intended to substitute for therapy is general and strictly the opinions of the host. Nova xx

Have you ever had a narcissist in your life say, “Let’s be friends” after a breakup or fallout? In this episode, we dive deep into what they really mean, why it’s not about genuine friendship, and how these manipulative words keep you trapped in the trauma bond. (For 1 on 1 online counselling in your own toxic relationship/narcissistic abuse recovery please visit my website at https://brighteroutlookcounselling.com.au/online-counselling-services/ ) We explore why victims often think staying friends is a safer alternative to a committed relationship, the hidden motives behind this classic narcissistic move, and what actually happens when you accept “friendship” with someone who thrives on control and emotional supply. I’ll share real-life examples from my counselling practice, practical strategies for setting boundaries, and ways to protect your emotional health without guilt. Learn why saying “let’s be friends” is often just another way narcissists hoover, test boundaries, and maintain access, and discover how to respond in a way that supports your healing. Need Support, Extra Resources? Resources and Online Counseling (worldwide) information Here [https://brighteroutlookcounselling.com.au/counselling-services/] Order my book Fake Love – Understanding and Healing from Narcissistic Abuse here [https://mybook.to/F3gm] You can leave a Rating and a Review here [https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/fake-love-and-flying-monkeys-5748098] You Can Share this Podcast here [https://apple.co/3XRRSp3] Join me on FB here [https://www.facebook.com/NovaGibsonNarcissisticAbuseExpert] Join the private FB group here [https://www.facebook.com/share/FB1yFZn52HypJo7a/?mibextid=A7sQZp] Join me on Instagram here [https://www.instagram.com/novas_narcissistabuse_recovery/?hl=en] Join me on YouTube here [https://www.youtube.com/@novagibson_] Want to support the channel? Please Buy me a coffee [https://buymeacoffee.com/novagibson] ❤️ Thank you for listening! Please remember the information in this episode is not intended to substitute for therapy is general and strictly the opinions of the host. Nova xx