Moving Through Rage, Grief, and the Parts That Struggle with Forgiveness | Reverend Carlton Teabout

The Future You Is Calling: Expanding Your Identity to Create the Life You Want | Natanya Bravo

Why do we keep chasing the life we want… while unconsciously resisting it at the same time? Most of us believe the reason we don't have what we want is because we're missing the right strategy, more confidence, or one more breakthrough. But what if the biggest obstacle isn't a lack of knowledge... but a part of you that's afraid of receiving it? Whether it's the loving relationship, the thriving business, financial freedom, or simply a life that feels more like your own, the answer may have less to do with what you're doing—and more to do with who you believe you are. In this episode of The Garden of Becoming, I sit down with Natanya Bravo, founder of The Bravo Life. Through a global community of more than 70,000 people, she helps others uncover the unconscious beliefs shaping their reality—and become the version of themselves who can actually receive what they desire. Together, we explore what Natanya calls the "I Am" story—the identity running beneath every thought, decision, and opportunity—and why no tool, hack, or manifestation method will create lasting change until that story begins to shift. We also talk about the space between the life you're living now and the one your soul is pulling you toward, what Natanya calls Timeline A and Timeline B, and why crossing that bridge often requires grieving an old version of yourself before you can fully step into the next. This is a conversation about remembering who you were before the world told you who you had to be... and creating a life that grows from that place. What You'll Explore Identity & the "I Am" Story * Why your identity—not your goals—shapes what you're able to create * How subconscious beliefs influence what you allow yourself to receive * Why lasting change begins beneath mindset Crossing the Bridge to Your Next Chapter * The difference between Timeline A and Timeline B * Why fear and grief often accompany real transformation * How to recognize when your old identity is trying to pull you back Rewiring What's Possible * Why self-sabotage is often a form of self-protection * Mirror work, scripting, and other practices for shifting your subconscious * What "being delulu" actually means—and how unwavering belief can help you embody your future before you see external proof About Natanya Bravo Natanya Bravo is the founder of The Bravo Life, a global personal development community dedicated to identity transformation, subconscious reprogramming, and purposeful living. After building what looked like a successful life—a corporate career, home ownership before 30, and all the external markers of achievement—Natanya realized she had been living someone else's definition of success. She left it all behind, moved to Paris with nothing but a suitcase and a vision, and began rebuilding her life from a place of authenticity rather than performance. That journey became the foundation of The Bravo Life, which has grown into a global community of more than 70,000 people. Through coaching, retreats, online programs, and educational content, Natanya helps people uncover the unconscious beliefs shaping their reality so they can create lives and businesses rooted in who they truly are. Many people first discovered Natanya through her viral phrase, "Delulu is the Solulu." But beneath the catchy slogan is a deeper message: lasting transformation isn't about pretending or wishful thinking—it's about becoming the version of yourself who believes what's possible before the external evidence arrives. Connect with Natanya: Website: https://www.natanyabravo.com [https://www.natanyabravo.com/] YouTube: @NatanyaTheBravoLifeInstagram: @thebravolife Connect with The Garden of Becoming: Instagram: @gardenofbecomingpodcast [https://www.instagram.com/gardenofbecomingpodcast] Email: hello@gardenofbecoming.com If this conversation resonated, share it with someone ready to shift their identity and step into the life they truly desire. Follow the show to catch new episodes every week.

How Much Can You Let Yourself Receive? Expanding Your Capacity Through Breathwork, Energy, and Pleasure | Elaine Yonge

How much of life can you actually receive? Most of us think we want more: more love, more joy, more intimacy, more abundance. But what if the real question isn't what we're reaching for, but how much we're able to hold? Our capacity to receive is deeply connected to our capacity to feel. When we've learned to numb, control, or protect ourselves from pain, we often close ourselves off to the very experiences we long for. In this conversation, I sit down with Elaine Yonge to explore what it means to expand that capacity. After the sudden death of her brother, the identity Elaine had carefully built could no longer contain what life was asking of her. Rather than trying to hold herself together, she allowed herself to fall apart. That experience led her from a career in medical science into decades of work in breathwork, embodiment, shamanic practice, conscious sexuality, and somatic healing. Together, we explore: • Why our capacity to receive is limited by our capacity to feel • How grief can become an unexpected doorway into greater aliveness • The protective patterns that keep us disconnected from our bodies • Why pleasure begins with safety, not sensation • How perfectionism, over-functioning, and self-worth shape what we're able to receive • The role of breathwork in accessing emotions held beneath conscious awareness • Why learning to regulate intensity allows us to experience more joy, love, and pleasure • Simple embodied practices for softening the inner critic and reconnecting with your body About Elaine Yonge Elaine Yonge is a facilitator, educator, coach, guide, and energy and bodyworker working in the fields of consciousness, shamanic breathwork, sacred sexuality, soul initiation, and somatic sexology. For more than 13 years, she has guided thousands of people through deep transformational work, facilitating over 200 residential retreats and workshops across more than 20 countries. She has served as Lead Faculty for the International School of Temple Arts (ISTA) Level 1 & 2 Spiritual, Sexual, Shamanic Initiations and is the creator of The Journeys, Master Your Pleasure, and Master Your Energy. Before entering this field, Elaine spent 20 years as a medical scientist working in research, surgery, clinical practice, and direct patient care. Today, she brings together that scientific background with decades of training in shamanic breathwork, tantra, and somatic sexology, bridging the worlds of science, embodiment, and spirituality with curiosity and respect. Her work is rooted in a lifelong exploration of awareness, grief, sexuality, purpose, aliveness, and the human experience, creating spaces where people can reconnect with themselves more deeply through embodied practice. Connect with Elaine: www.elaineyonge.com https://www.instagram.com/elaineyonge/ https://www.youtube.com/@ElaineYonge https://www.facebook.com/elaine.yonge13/ Connect with the Garden of Becoming: Instagram: @gardenofbecomingpodcast Email: hello@gardenofbecoming.com [hello@gardenofbecoming.com] If this conversation resonated with you, please share it with someone you care about. :)

The Trade We Make for Love: Reclaiming the Parts of Yourself You Left Behind | Francesca Gentille

Who did you have to become to be loved? Most of us make an early, almost invisible trade — belonging for authenticity, love for self-abandonment. And the parts of us we exile in that trade don’t disappear. They go underground. Where they quietly shape our patterns of desire, conflict, and connection. In this episode of The Garden of Becoming, I sit down with clinical sexologist and relationship counselor Francesca Gentille to explore what it actually takes to reclaim those lost pieces of ourselves and bring them back into wholeness. We explore the hidden doorways back to the disowned self: our dreams, our attractions, and our triggers — each one offering a different way back to what we’ve rejected or forgotten. From there, we move into the practical art of inner mediation: how to recognize the different voices, needs, and impulses within us, and create real collaboration between them instead of internal fragmentation. And we go into what this looks like in real relationships — including conflict repair, accountability, and how understanding both our own inner parts and those of our partner can open new dimensions of intimacy, creativity, and erotic possibility. Francesca also shares her own lived journey from love addiction and emotional entanglement into what she calls an “inner boardroom” — a lived structure of inner leadership guided by a nurturer, an integrating adult, and the deeper voice of the soul. This is a conversation for anyone who has felt the cost of self-abandonment in love and is ready to explore what becomes possible when no part of you is left outside the relationship. What You’ll Explore * The early trade between belonging and authenticity,  and how it shapes adult love patterns * Why dreams, attraction, and emotional triggers act as doorways to disowned parts of the self * How to practice inner mediation between competing inner voices and desires * What it means to bring “parts work” into real relationship dynamics * Conflict repair, accountability, and relational integrity in intimate partnership * How inner integration expands intimacy, creativity, and erotic possibility About Francesca Gentille Francesca Gentille is a clinical sexologist, relationship counselor, and shamanic practitioner working with sexuality, trauma, and relational healing. Her work bridges depth psychology, somatic awareness, and shamanic frameworks, supporting people in reclaiming disowned aspects of self and transforming relational patterns at their root. Her work spans sexuality, trauma recovery, sacred sexuality, non-monogamy, relationship repair, and embodied emotional integration. Connect with Francesca: Website: www.francescagentille.com Instagram: @francescagentille Connect with The Garden of Becoming Instagram: @gardenofbecomingpodcastEmail: hello@gardenofbecoming.com If this conversation resonates, share it with someone exploring love, sexuality, or self-integration through a deeper lens — and follow the show for new episodes each week.

No Sex. No Porn. No Distraction. What Men Discover When They Stop Escaping Themselves | Hans Morgenstern

Most of us don’t realize how much of our lives are shaped by subtle forms of escape. Scrolling. Reaching out. Seeking validation. Even the way we relate to attraction and connection. But what happens when all of that is taken away? In this episode of The Garden of Becoming, I sit down with Hans Morgenstern, a relationship coach who guides men through periods of intentional celibacy—not just abstaining from sex, but stepping away from pornography, social media, dating, and even certain emotional dynamics with women. What emerges isn’t just discipline. It’s confrontation. Hans shares how these periods of “unbinding” reveal the unconscious patterns that often live beneath connection—hidden desires, emotional dependencies, and what he calls “covert contracts” in relationships. We explore what it really means to become a trustable man—someone who is grounded, present, and in integrity—not just in behavior, but in intention. This conversation goes beyond mindset and into the body— into the urges, the resistance, and the emotions that surface when there’s nothing left to distract you from yourself. We talk about withdrawal, desire, emotional entanglement, and the difference between genuine intimacy and unconscious need. This episode is about learning to sit with yourself… to face what you’ve been avoiding… and to discover the kind of freedom that can only emerge when you stop reaching outside yourself. What You’ll Explore: The Cost of Escape * How habits like porn, social media, and emotional entanglement keep us from feeling what’s actually there * Why removing these outlets can trigger intense withdrawal, resistance, and discomfort * The deeper question beneath it all: what are you avoiding—and why? Desire, Triggers & Emotional Mastery * How to work with horniness, anger, and overwhelm without acting them out or suppressing them * The role of the nervous system in shaping attraction, reactivity, and relational patterns * Practical tools and embodied practices to stay present with intensity and move through it From Patterns to Presence * The hidden dynamics beneath connection: validation, approval-seeking, and unconscious contracts * How early attachment wounds shape who you’re drawn to—and how you show up in love * What becomes possible when you stop escaping yourself and start relating from grounded presence About Hans Morgenstern Hans Morgenstern is an attachment-based relationship coach who helps men and couples break unconscious relational patterns and build emotionally secure, authentic love. He is best known for The Unbinding™ — a three-month personal polarity integration process for men who feel ready for a real relationship but keep arriving at the same dead ends. Through intentional celibacy, somatic practice, and men's group work, The Unbinding guides men out of validation-seeking and compulsive distraction and into the grounded presence that makes deep connection possible. The goal, as Hans puts it, is to become He Who Must Be Trusted — a man whose word and presence are unshakable. Beyond men's work, Hans coaches individuals and couples through the full landscape of conscious relationship — from understanding attachment wounds and healing early emotional patterns to navigating triggers and building love that feels steady, alive, and real. Drawing from decades of experience in yoga, meditation, and neo-tantric practice, he brings body-based emotional processing and nervous system awareness into all of his work. Website: hansmorningstar.comInstagram: @hans_morgenstern Connect with The Garden of Becoming Instagram: @gardenofbecomingpodcast Email: hello@gardenofbecoming.com If this conversation resonated, share it with someone navigating relationships, desire, or their own patterns of escape. And if you’re enjoying the show, follow and leave a review—it helps these conversations reach more people on the path of becoming. New episodes drop weekly.

Moving Through Rage, Grief, and the Parts That Struggle with Forgiveness | Reverend Carlton Teabout

Forgiveness is one of the most challenging—and transformative—practices on the path to inner freedom. I sit down with Reverend Carlton Teabout of the Agape International Spiritual Center to uncover what it truly takes to forgive using the 3 Pillars of Forgiveness. In this vulnerable conversation, Reverend Carlton guides me through my own edges around grief, rage, and self-compassion. We explore how to move through anger, make peace with unmet expectations, and transform your relationship with yourself and the world through self-forgiveness. We Explore: * How to practice self-forgiveness and liberate yourself from guilt and resentment * The 3 Pillars of Forgiveness explained step by step * Techniques to navigate grief, anger, and resentment without suppressing emotions * How to heal from painful experiences and harvest the good from life’s challenges * Simple, actionable ways to incorporate forgiveness practices into your daily life Connect with Reverend Carlton Teabout:Website: https://revcarlton.com/ [https://revcarlton.com/] Connect with The Garden of Becoming:Instagram: @gardenofbecomingpodcast [https://www.instagram.com/gardenofbecomingpodcast]Email: hello@gardenofbecoming.com If this episode resonated, share it with someone ready to move through anger, grief, and resentment, and follow the show for weekly conversations about authenticity, healing, and transformation.