Are We Sure We're Not a Monolith? Unspoken Rules of Black Gay Culture with HellaChisme

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Surprise!! Darius and Jeff of JustDrawz have linked up with Dana from HellaChisme to bring you a supersized and extra long episode combining all of our personalities together! The topic is the Black Gay Monolith. Are we as a culture monolithic? Do we always put the same artists, content creators, and cultural moments on? If so, why do we always say “We are not a monolith” then?Well we dive into that thinking and challenge ourselves and you to talking about this. Are we really the same? Or do we have just enough differences as a culture? Watch and listen to our takes on this special collaboration!Be sure to check watch, like, and subscribe to HellaChisme [https://linktr.ee/hellachismepodcast] as well! “Just… Monolithic” _______________________________ Key Topics: * Defining the Black Gay Monolith. * Challenging the thought of community versus the perception of conformity. * Are Black Gay Men allowing different or quieter voices the space to be heard or feel seen? * How does desirability factor in who we 'put on'? _______________________________ Listen to Our 90’s Playlist: YouTube Music: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLTzaf4yOmTtwfewr5Lq5jTB9Y5JvKg8lh&si=Lqv2Xassq-woeJUA Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4xX9SSUHjjxdk7CkqUHUuN Apple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/the-just-drawz-podcast-presents-decades-the-90s/pl.u-06oxDB6uJNjgJe _______________________________ Special Guest Host: Dana: https://linktr.ee/hellachismepodcast [https://linktr.ee/hellachismepodcast]https://www.instagram.com/hellachismepod/ [https://www.instagram.com/hellachismepod/] Hosts: DMC: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded [https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0] ⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠⁠⁠ [https://x.com/DMCureton%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0] ⁠https://linktr.ee/deeemcee⁠ [https://linktr.ee/deeemcee] Jeff: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup [https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/%E2%81%A0] ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup [https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0] ⁠https://linktr.ee/jefflevelsup⁠ [https://linktr.ee/jefflevelsup] _______________________________ Just Drawz on Social Media: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast [https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0] ⁠https://linktr.ee/JustDrawz⁠ [https://linktr.ee/JustDrawz] _______________________________ Edited and produced by:⁠⁠⁠ https://www.instagram.com/hellachismepod/ [https://www.instagram.com/hellachismepod/] ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup [https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/%E2%81%A0] _______________________________ Music: "Neptunes" - by Black Assassin - ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin [https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0] _______________________________ Keywords: acceptance, achievement, authenticity, Black and brown men, Black gay men, boundaries, collaboration, communication, emotional healing, expectations, future aspirations, gay, healing, honest conversations, identity, independence, industry insights, influence, legacy, LGBTQ, LGBTQ relationships, LGBTQ+, LGBTQIA, LGBTQIA+, masculinity, mental health, personal growth, queerness, recognition, relationship dynamics, relationships, safe spaces, Same gender loving,improvement, self love, self reflections, self-discovery, self-perception, sexual exploration, SGL, social media, societal perceptions, success, support, vulnerability _______________________________ #JustDrawz #Acceptance #Achievement #Authenticity #BlackAndBrownMen #BlackGayMen #BlackMen #Boundaries #Collaboration #Communication #CulturalDifferences #EmotionalHealing #Expectations #Family #FutureAspirations #Gay #GayMarriage #Healing #HonestConversations #Identity #Independence #LGBTQ #LGBTQRelationships #LGBTQPlus #LGBTQIA #LGBTQIAPlus #Love #Marriage #MarriageViews #Masculinity #MentalHealth #PersonalGrowth #Queerness #Recognition #RelationshipDynamics #Relationships #SafeSpaces #SameGenderLoving #advice #SelfImprovement #SelfLove #SelfReflections #SelfDiscovery #SGL #bodyimage #Success #Support #Vulnerability #5050 #cheating #lying #manipulation #boundaries #bodyimage

Is the 50/50 Relationship Theory an Unrealistic "Relationship Goal" Fantasy or Does it Really Work?

In this first part of a two part episode, Jeff and DMC explore the evolving dynamics of relationships beyond the common 50-50 rule. They unpack the complexities of partnership, traditional roles, emotional equity, and what it really means to show up fully for each other, whether in heterosexual, LGBTQ+, or unconventional arrangements. Returning to the panel is frequent guest Anjeleigh in her first appearance with DMC and Jeff! Her point of view comes from the female end of a heterosexual marriage. We're also welcoming Ray who is brings the view point from a long term same sex marriage. Be sure to watch Part 2 of this conversation! “Just… The 50/50 Theory" _______________________________ Takeaways: * Why perfect equality is unrealistic and potentially unfair. * Emotional and financial contributions: balancing responsibility versus capacity. * Unlearning traditional gender roles and societal expectations around partnership. * The importance of full-hearted investment and showing up 100-100. * How reciprocity and intentionality shape healthy relationships. * The impact of cultural backgrounds and upbringing on partnership dynamics. _______________________________ Listen to Our 90’s Playlist: YouTube Music: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLTzaf4yOmTtwfewr5Lq5jTB9Y5JvKg8lh&si=Lqv2Xassq-woeJUA Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4xX9SSUHjjxdk7CkqUHUuN Apple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/the-just-drawz-podcast-presents-decades-the-90s/pl.u-06oxDB6uJNjgJe _______________________________ Guests: Anjeleigh: https://www.instagram.com/anjeleighpart1 [https://www.instagram.com/anjeleighpart1] Ray: https://www.instagram.com/oquendoduke [https://www.instagram.com/oquendoduke/] Hosts: DMC: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded [https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0] ⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠⁠⁠ [https://x.com/DMCureton%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0] ⁠https://linktr.ee/deeemcee⁠ [https://linktr.ee/deeemcee] Jeff: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup [https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/%E2%81%A0] ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup [https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0] ⁠https://linktr.ee/jefflevelsup⁠ [https://linktr.ee/jefflevelsup] _______________________________ Just Drawz on Social Media: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast [https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0] ⁠https://linktr.ee/JustDrawz⁠ [https://linktr.ee/JustDrawz] _______________________________ Edited and produced by:⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup [https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0] ⁠⁠⁠_______________________________ Music: "Neptunes" - by Black Assassin - ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin [https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0] _______________________________ Keywords: acceptance, achievement, adult content, authenticity, Black and brown men, Black gay men, boundaries, collaboration, communication, cultural differences, emotional healing, expectations, family, future aspirations, gay, gay marriage, healing, honest conversations, identity, independence, industry insights, influence, legacy, LGBTQ, LGBTQ relationships, LGBTQ+, LGBTQIA, LGBTQIA+, love, marriage, marriage views, masculinity, mental health, personal growth, proposals, queerness, recognition, relationship dynamics, relationships, safe spaces, Same gender loving, same sex marrige, self improvement, self love, self reflections, self-discovery, self-perception, sexual exploration, SGL, social media, societal perceptions, success, support, vulnerability, 50-50 relationships, Partnership dynamics, Emotional contributions, gender roles, mutual support in love, relationship flexibility, cultural impact on relationships, financial, balance in partnerships, unlearning societal norms, reciprocity in relationships _______________________________ #JustDrawz #Acceptance #Achievement #Authenticity #BlackAndBrownMen #BlackGayMen #Boundaries #Collaboration #Communication #CulturalDifferences #EmotionalHealing #Expectations #Family #FutureAspirations #Gay #GayMarriage #Healing #HonestConversations #Identity #Independence #LGBTQ #LGBTQRelationships #LGBTQPlus #LGBTQIA #LGBTQIAPlus #Love #Marriage #MarriageViews #Masculinity #MentalHealth #PersonalGrowth #Queerness #Recognition #RelationshipDynamics #Relationships #SafeSpaces #SameGenderLoving #SameSexMarriage #SelfImprovement #SelfLove #SelfReflections #SelfDiscovery #SGL #SocietalPerceptions #Success #Support #Vulnerability #5050 #reciprocity

29 de may de 20261 h 0 min

Are We Sure We're Not a Monolith? Unspoken Rules of Black Gay Culture with HellaChisme

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